The Unplanned Podcast
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Wednesday 12 July 2023 15:15:00 GMT
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Heather Sargeant :
Hate isn’t the right word for me. Resentment was definitely a huge thing. But I agree, I loved him more watching him becoming a father.
2023-07-12 21:21:35
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amyandjovon :
It’s hard for many reasons but yes you get through it and we need to normalize how hard it truly is
2023-07-12 15:40:05
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🦋Erin Mere🦋 :
I definitely had some resentment in those early days, but alot of that was us not knowing how to communicate.
2023-07-12 16:10:24
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Ray :
The lack of sleep made me lash out. We took our frustrations on each other when all we needed was a nap. 😅
2023-07-13 02:08:49
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Heather Caro :
We have been married for 21 years and the younger years are hard but always remember everyone is changing constantly and learn to love through changes
2023-07-12 16:05:39
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Ash Milla :
Idk if im broken but my husband showed up for us so hard during the early/newborn days, it made us 100% closer and better.
2023-07-13 00:48:31
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Kinlee Scheer :
One of the best things to do before kids come is talk about roles. Who is going to do baths, who is waking up to feed or change diapers, etc.
2023-07-12 18:28:38
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Sheri :
Her response isn’t realistic 😅 sure I loved my husband more as a dad. BUT there was hard nights that built resentment. The key is to be aware and
2023-07-12 17:49:14
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Sedona Scheopner :
I hate to be this person but everything has been better. I definitely understand how it wouldn't be though. and I send love to all those struggling 💜
2023-07-12 23:52:02
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Megan Laub McGurk :
If you hate your partner after having kids, it is because they are not helping enough or meeting your needs,it is not the hormones.
2023-07-12 21:00:58
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Mamaof2 :
It’s crazy how different it can be. I had postpartum anxiety but even thru the 1st year I loved my husband more. He was an amazing partner 💙
2023-07-12 16:54:13
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Nicole DuVall :
Month 3 of my first child and I definitely resent him. Yes he works a blue collar job but his job ends. I took on the homemaker but it is hard.
2023-07-13 03:05:55
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mrae6936 :
the first three months were hard, just as we were transitioning, but our marriage has flourished with parenthood
2023-07-12 17:37:10
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Morgan McGaugh Lang :
This is weird to me bc my hubs and I bonded/connected soooo much more after having kids. My mom told me to never use the word unless ur 100% sure.
2023-07-12 17:12:27
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Dominic & Lauriane :
Love seeing all four of y’all together! Where do we submit our request to get on the pod? 😂
2023-07-13 01:13:27
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FSB :
No, it’s when they’re little & you’re so busy. You resent each other thinking you’re always doing more. Just hold on & work through it. It’s worth it!
2023-07-13 02:17:13
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Melissa Cocano :
I always tell my friends to give it three years. The first year is the hardest, the second year gets easier and the third year
2023-07-12 17:01:36
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MOI :
I can’t be the only one that gets the worst vibes from him
2023-07-12 17:57:29
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All things softball :
We had to make a rule that if a fight was starting we both needed to take a nap, eat a meal, and take 20 min alone before we continued to fight
2023-07-13 15:58:41
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Sara :
I love my husband even more now that we have a baby. Family is so complete! Not all relationships go through a rough patch with kids. 💙
2023-07-13 20:00:46
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Cameron Trahan :
I had lived with my husband for 5yrs before marriage so by the time we married absolutely nothing changed. Moving in together was the hardest part.
2023-07-13 02:32:07
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Chelsea Liby :
Wait until you have the second 😂
2023-07-12 19:32:44
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Derrian :
First baby you love him more. Second baby… you kind of hate him for a little while 😂
2023-07-12 21:21:43
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Gina :
If you have a strong relationship you lean on each other. If you have problems they will only exacerbate those problems. But we grew closer
2023-07-14 01:36:20
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Moses Cantrell :
my wife hated me for the first trimester of both pregnancies. she would look at me and say "I love you so much, but I don't like you"
2023-07-12 19:23:47
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user6417498659520 :
The first four months were very difficult then it got way better
2023-07-12 17:11:13
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Brit M :
I feel like people just underestimate how lack of sleep literally affects your irritability.
2023-08-27 12:08:09
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G :
Abby is so sweet! She loved Matt more 🥺
2023-07-12 20:51:03
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cassievandinan :
And then they go ahead and have a second one when the first year isn’t even done lol like what
2023-07-16 02:35:26
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Kelsey :
@Andrew Robinson
2023-07-12 21:39:24
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Samantha Sutherland :
@Jordanlee Sutherland
2023-07-12 22:10:47
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Elleinad101 :
Don’t blame a women’s emotions on hormones
2023-07-14 02:31:19
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Hanah Willis :
@Brady
2023-07-12 15:46:42
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Sally G :
It’s up to your husband if he steps up and is a dad you will love him more than any man on the planet. If he leaves you do it alone. You will hate him
2023-07-12 23:33:25
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👈ИГРА🍀 :
From the hours 8pm-8am whatever was said didn’t count 😅
2023-07-13 19:12:54
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Kathy S :
Had three kids in like six years and they were the hell years we’re way past that now and marriage is great
2023-07-13 16:10:41
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Catherine :
Hormones are bad but also if your SO can't show up during that hard first year and you can clearly already see that you are the default parent
2023-07-13 00:02:16
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Angela Moore :
OMG!!! You 4 are literally my four favorite people to watch on TikTok. My husband and I literally love you guys and here you four are ALL TOGETHER!!❤️
2023-07-12 16:27:59
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Dev | momma 🩷💙 :
Honestly with pp there are times I want to leave my husband. But then we sit down, eat some food and talk it through. Love my man to death
2023-07-13 15:57:40
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Kimberly🌿 :
Each baby I’ve popped out of his I’ve grown so much deeper in love with him. Been together 10 years and recently had our 3rd.
2023-07-13 14:45:53
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Userb24 :
I loved my husband more. Hated him at times but overall my baby made me love him more 😂
2023-07-12 20:51:26
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Wimomtok :
My baby is 6month old and I definitely don’t hate my husband, he’s so understanding and we have very good communication
2023-07-12 17:21:33
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Vanzgirl17 :
Honestly, my first year was the best for my marriage and worst for my own mental health. If it was not for my husband I wouldn’t be alive 💜
2023-07-13 01:53:39
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Karissa🐒 :
Abby thinking they were talking about sex 🤣
2023-07-12 16:52:14
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Jessboo :
@Zeke Sethwill
2023-07-13 02:11:45
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Jane Ann Howerton :
Oof
2023-07-13 04:40:21
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caroxo6 :
@Tacho
2023-07-13 20:34:19
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Kerrie Ann :
We separated when my son was 10 months old. He was trash though.
2023-07-12 17:05:25
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