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dorci :
there’s a difference between “what you love” and “why you love”
2023-07-13 02:59:37
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fattydude66 :
if my SO was asked "what do you love about your partner?" and they couldnt come up with anything, I would be devastated.
2023-07-12 22:19:00
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forty9 :
everyone loves somebody for reasons, the love that you're talking about is perfect love which doesn't exist. we all love ppl for reasons
2023-07-13 20:08:48
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This reminds me of when I got civil married and the day of, moments into the meeting the judge she pulled each of us aside to ask my guy and what we
2023-07-13 06:09:22
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lexoftex :
I feel like people are confusing reasons for loving someone with qualities they like/love about someone
2023-07-12 21:54:48
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🌿🍄🪬🌞 :
nah. if you don’t know why you love someone, you won’t know why you should stay when it gets hard.
2023-07-12 22:17:23
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B :
a boy would say this !
2023-07-13 00:58:28
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jellyisyum :
Idk there's a huge difference between "what do you love ABOUT them" versus "why do you love them"
2023-07-13 15:51:35
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Niktok :
My ex used to make me list reasons why I loved him- hence why he’s an ex.
2023-07-12 19:53:31
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Jen Bianca :
my partner and i talk about this all the time. we just LOVE. we love things about each other but that is not the core of WHY we love each other.
2023-07-26 18:37:33
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ethan :
‘Anyone can love a thing because. That's as easy as putting a penny in your pocket. But to love something despite. To know the flaws and love them too
2023-07-12 22:14:56
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lord farquaad :
I see what you’re saying, but I don’t agree. I think not knowing “why” can be a red flag—that you’re fueled on fleeting emotions, not deep love
2023-07-12 21:05:25
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sneh.chawla :
i think we should all collectively stop creating arbitrary blanket rules for something as complex as romantic relationships 💕
2023-07-13 19:36:49
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Stuart Zekaj302 :
Zizek's argument is more about free choice. If the choice to love was reducible to a rational moment, it would lose its status as a free choice.
2023-09-03 12:46:22
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🍊 :
Hope she sees this bro
2023-07-12 20:35:56
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Em :
Ooooo no. No. That’s not okay. If you don’t know why you love someone, chances are you’re in love with what they do for you, not them as a person.
2023-08-01 20:50:34
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boudreau__ :
Eh, sort of a misuse of that zizek quote
2023-07-13 05:55:14
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Jonelle Samai :
Completely disagree. You should be able to communicate why or what you love about someone. If you can’t, that’s telling
2023-08-11 17:59:58
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CremyToes :
I find it funny we have to Explain why we love someone, just loving them isn't enough I guess
2023-07-14 17:58:02
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Freddy :
“I don’t know” almost feels like they’re saying “everything” or like, it’s evidence that we don’t choose who we love, we just truly fall for people
2023-07-14 08:03:06
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Beau :
I don't feel the same way. for me when I care about someone I like to understand what goes into me loving them so I can appreciate them specifically
2023-07-13 01:09:15
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Hybrid Moments Psychology :
I think ur misunderstanding it
2023-07-25 10:29:53
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Z̸a̵r̷a̸t̴h̷a̸x̶i̶o̴n̵ :
Žižek has been married 4 times.
2023-07-14 01:49:03
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IamMe :
Because reason is logic and love is a just a thing you feel. I get it 💯
2023-08-30 01:31:22
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Jacob Ryan :
Nah, that just means you don’t intellectualize your emotions.
2023-07-12 18:49:45
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Chris Petrone :
I think it’s important to acknowledge love is a choice. Long term commitment is a choice u make based on reasons in addition to just the feeling of ❤️
2023-07-12 19:40:54
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asha <3 :
i think it depends on how someone understands the question. reasons why you love vs qualities that you love. both valid tm
2023-07-13 01:16:35
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god (genderless) :
Thank you for this!!! My partner and I get this question a lot and I never know how to respond. Experiencing her simply ignites something in me.
2023-07-13 13:25:31
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astoldbysaraa :
My ex said idk, and then said bc I “loved him.” Which sounded so selfish and conditional 😂
2023-07-12 18:57:52
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JustAnotherChosen1 :
Sounds more like having an over-romanticized blind faith in your infatuation than being some higher tier of love but hey you do you.
2023-07-12 21:43:39
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funkykitter :
this quote sounds deep until you think about it for 5 seconds. I would not describe a young couple of 3 months as meant for eachother if they could
2023-07-12 23:49:25
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viv :
Boy what are you even saying 🧍♀️
2023-08-19 05:45:08
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asonason777🆘️🚩🇺🇲 :
eh... if I can't come up with anything, I'll start to realize... I don't love anything about you and that's it, we are done
2023-08-30 20:26:43
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lizgatchell :
it's not that they don't have reasons, it's a cumulative of little things added up over time. Decision fatigue of what stands out the most.
2023-07-24 13:45:20
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🌜moongori🌛 :
Friendly reminder that just bc a philosopher said it doesn’t mean it makes sense lol
2023-07-14 08:54:29
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BlaineStevenComedy :
my girl always asks me, "WHY do you love me?" and I always respond with "because I want to"
2023-07-13 19:08:12
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Meredith Robertson :
I know what you mean
2023-07-12 19:28:06
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Robert :
😂 Anyone taking zizek seriously
2023-08-01 01:48:03
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Summer M :
Why would you not be able to say something you love about your partner? It’s a simple thing. They should immediately think of your positive traits
2023-08-01 05:49:38
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ryanyags :
I used to say idk but then I felt a need to come up with a list of qualities otherwise it's not real/not enough for them. good vid
2023-07-12 21:01:26
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LillyIsNuckingFuts :
this. my hubby and I were asked this on a couple's game night and we both shrugged. looked at each other. and said, "we just do."
2023-07-13 20:41:05
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geen (I'm 6ft btw) :
kind of a lame idea, like I do know why I love my person. The video made that seem like less love
2023-07-12 21:59:39
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Katie :
Naw, I love thinking about why I love who I love, platonic & otherwise, it’s poetic
2023-07-12 18:34:01
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user9066301039264 :
Thanks for this. Been happily married 10yrs but always felt guilty for not having a quick answer for this question, despite truly knowing I love her.
2023-07-13 18:10:07
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Joseph Pedraza :
This is complete nonsense
2023-07-12 22:00:25
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Mt. Ski :
I know why I love my partner, and I can spend hours telling people about those reasons. I like the balance between the emotional and the rational.
2023-07-12 22:39:48
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Raquel Rojas :
Zizek should not be the authority on love or pretty much anything.
2023-08-02 07:47:05
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somebodyiusetoknow :
What an excuse for men to not try lol
2023-07-12 23:51:35
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Mahay :
Unconditional love
2023-07-13 11:30:22
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user3b7iq :
Quoting Zizek is 🚩🚩🚩
2023-07-12 23:41:36
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𝖕𝖔𝖔𝖕𝖈𝖎𝖙𝖞 :
thx this does make me finally realize that i am and have been capable of love 🥰
2023-08-30 20:55:27
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Lucky :
Part of emotional intelligence is being able to verbalize and discuss your emotions. I prefer the love that isn’t esoteric and vague.
2023-07-12 22:43:23
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