@americanfille: Replying to @Juliette re: the french bonjour #politesse #bonjour #frenchculture

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Monday 17 July 2023 16:45:34 GMT
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claire.lajeunesse
Claire :
Omg the “you alright?” in the Uk - I went when I was 18 and asked my friend “why does everyone keep asking if I’m okay? Do I look sick?” 🫣😆
2023-07-17 20:20:43
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geekville
geekville :
Exactly. I love how polite the french are but they shouldn't judge automatically as it might just be cultural differences.
2023-07-17 20:15:35
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makeupxerin
Erin Grunzel :
As an American, that’s very true! Excuse me is a staple lol.
2023-07-17 16:56:55
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spootdoot
SpootDoot :
see to me, them making a big fuss over not getting a hello is rude behavior.
2023-07-23 10:05:28
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seb.max
Le Seb :
Yes but you was in France so... french rules
2023-07-18 17:37:49
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johncarson3
John Carson :
in american culture, you just say and do what appears appropriate for the moment, there are no rules in my book 🥰
2023-07-22 13:54:49
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real_yumeoff
Tison Maëva :
.. have been working for 10 months in the usa .. rarely got a excuse me but more like “ the price??” “Toilets???” Or them just not talking at all
2023-07-19 01:08:26
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logunougat
Louana :
In Canada 🇨🇦 it’s the same 😆
2023-07-17 16:57:07
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j1lleliza
Jill :
Also, if you walk into a small shop, in the US the worker should say Hello/welcome to the customer. In France, the customer should say Bonjour first.
2023-07-18 23:53:46
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foramerica_
funnnyworld :
in the US it is rude to call out a faux pas like that
2023-07-18 07:44:17
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hecatewitch
Sami :
Need a little pamphlet on international flights for politeness tips.
2023-07-17 18:53:03
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sarah938474484944949483
Sarah :
I was treated so rudely because the waitress didn’t hear my bonjour … when I said it 😅
2023-07-17 18:31:01
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ellefrah
Ellefrah :
I'm french I didn't know that about Americain. Thanks 😁
2023-07-18 07:34:51
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licornesdesbois
Licornes Des Bois :
in France too we say "excusez moi, bonjour..."
2023-07-17 18:43:06
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catniiiiip
Catnip :
We also say "excuse me" in stores to ask for help, but it must be followed with "Hello". The point is that you presented it as being insane because
2023-07-17 16:52:12
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littleflowers_everywhere
Rosa :
People need to just chill and believe people are acting in good faith sheesh. Dont get mad for a hello 😳
2023-07-17 19:24:48
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bowbeforebrooke
Underworld Arabians :
And in a business in the USA they know you want something lol. If you say “hello” you’ll probably get a “yes?” Back 😂
2023-07-17 19:42:39
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flori_vld
f̶l̶o̶r̶i̶m̶o̶n̶d̶ :
Ye... basically "Excuse me"≠"Excusez moi" like in French it's not really a sign of politeness but more a demand to be listened to...
2023-07-17 17:00:58
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sarahnoel14
Sarah Noel :
I’ve been blown away recently seeing French people in other countries making ZERO effort to say hello, please, thank you, in that country’s language.
2023-07-17 17:07:59
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curlycarotte
CurlyCarotte :
On dit aussi "excusez moi, bonjour"
2023-07-17 21:25:59
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blue_fish76
blue ladder :
in South Korea it is considered rude to hand money directly to the clerk/ customer. as it's the complete opposite here
2023-07-18 01:34:52
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jkcjk15
Jen 🆘🇺🇸🇫🇷 :
Of course they don’t consider other cultures because they are IN France. They should absolutely consider when traveling though
2023-07-17 17:11:15
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myho_meis
myho_meis :
La même chose en France avec "excusez-moi " 🤦🏻‍♀️
2023-07-18 16:22:38
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niev_2020
F :
Non c’est Ok de commencer la conversation par « excusez moi » ac un sourire :)
2023-07-18 04:33:24
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bludaydreamer
💙 Tasha Renee 💙 :
This explains the Bonjour song from Beauty and the Beast
2023-07-23 08:53:15
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geekville
geekville :
In Japan, bowing would be the polite way. But the french don't usually do that. The Japanese will not be passive aggressive at them for not doing it.
2023-07-17 20:18:53
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princealbertinacan
Nick :
That was a big problem I had in Paris. Of course I knew people said “Bonjour” but I didn’t realize anything else would be seen as disrespect 🥲
2023-07-17 18:08:12
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cynthia.ace
Cynthia Ace 💛 :
Latino people will say hello sarcastically back to make sure that you know you’re supposed to say hello first next time 😅
2023-07-22 01:34:14
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disabre
Disabre🆘🇺🇸 :
As an American I IMMEDIATELY went “excuse me” 😂😂
2023-07-19 23:15:43
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marquisdesbasfonds
Marquis :
It’s also ok in France to say « excusez-moi Bonjour » if a worker is busy.
2023-07-17 18:40:41
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lamexicaineft
lamexicaineft :
Thank you!! You explained it perfectly! But people in the comments won’t still “get it”
2023-07-17 17:51:18
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partylikecharlie
PLC :
Imagine being so obsessed with being polite that you’re rude when a guest makes a mistake.
2023-07-18 02:19:05
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sahmkrit3
sahmkrit3 :
Also if you walk up to someone in US and say “hello” that could come off as rude implying they ignored you
2023-07-24 09:17:26
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le.precheur
Le precheur 🍉 :
In France, be polite or risk facing rudeness 🐣🔫
2023-07-17 17:00:38
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shorejoy
shore joy 🇨🇦 :
The Aussie "how ya going?" still gives me pause. I'm going on foot? In a hat? Kinda reluctantly? What do they want to know? 🤭❤️
2023-07-18 06:26:57
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user28484747347474
user484473727 :
Right? I don’t know why ppl are so attached to this belief that others are innately inferior, rather than just different
2023-07-19 03:00:02
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sadeatoyebi3
Sadeatoyebi :
Me in Switzerland but they were nice enough to correct me politely.
2023-07-18 00:15:42
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runreallyfast111
runreallyfast111 :
It’s funny cuz in America “bonjour” means your trying to act fancy while saying hello 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
2023-07-19 15:08:18
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andone9d9
AndOne9d9 :
I always thought that tone was the best indicator of whether someone is being rude or not.
2023-07-17 22:39:59
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fatloona
tai 🔻 :
I do either ‘excuse me’ or ‘hi, sorry,’
2023-07-19 19:49:32
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ms_moddie
Ms. Mod :
Question: when shopkeepers are talking amongst themselves, should I still interrupt them to say bonjour when walking into the store?
2023-07-17 18:03:13
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dkinkc
DKinKC :
You just explained an interaction I had in 1993 that still bugs me on some level. NOW I UNDERSTAND.
2023-07-20 05:01:14
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virginiagracemill
Virginia Grace Mills :
I think in the US if you do say hi first and then excuse me it can be seen as rude because you didn’t ask for their attention before talking to them.
2023-07-17 21:27:24
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sysyl_or_syby
syby :
il m'arrive aussi de commencer une conversation par excusez moi
2023-07-17 17:08:05
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49taylorsversion
The World (Taylor's Version) :
Je comprends, j'ai vécu en Asie pendant 6 ans et j'ai perdu l'habitude de le dire et on m'a dit que je suis devenu impoli. Alors je réapprend
2023-07-17 21:25:41
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chitowneone
Chitowneone :
The point is if a French said hi in the US to an American we wouldn’t get all mad and think they are rude cause Americans are not rude like the French
2023-07-17 21:11:55
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winterlepel83
Winterlepel83 :
In South Africa we also start with ‘Excuse me’ when you want help in a store
2023-07-21 13:21:28
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notyouagain777
Burnt Champagne777 :
You’re right. In Canada, we also follow what our American cousins say to politely start a conversation.
2023-07-17 17:15:44
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humanscarfy
Merlsherl :
Funny you bring up “you alright?” As a greeting bc as an American it sets my teeth on edge. But bc I’m not a ding dong, I understand it’s a…
2023-07-17 19:21:46
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