Rini Spencer
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Friday 04 August 2023 14:48:14 GMT
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Amber ✞ :
I am healing my mother. No contact is forcing her to be alone and look within every single day. She can heal alone now 😅
2023-08-04 17:15:18
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Sha :
My mother wound goes so deep. anytime I allow contact with her I'm set back even further
2023-08-04 17:28:13
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KirC :
My mother recently asked me to help her understand. Noooo…I’m not doing that.
2023-08-04 16:55:31
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Mommy_Alex1993 :
Oh, no ma’am! My mother’s responsibility was to make sure I had a childhood I didn’t have to heal from, not the other way around!
2023-08-04 15:27:56
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Priscila :
Or an abusive sibling
2023-08-07 14:47:23
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Dannyarlla Marree :
thankyou for doing what you're doing. You are doing amazing at highlighting complex things abused children experience after they've escaped.
2023-08-05 14:36:20
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It’s_life_with_morgs🌈 :
It makes be mad that someone would leave this comment. Wow!
2023-08-04 15:11:13
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Cristiana | Marca Estratégica :
So right! And honestly I tried so many years, and it didn’t work. So, not worthy all the wasted years and trauma!
2023-08-06 15:30:19
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Live-and-Let-Live :
children DO NOT OWE anything to their parents. If they are willing and able to help them in old age - great. but that's a bonus.
2023-08-04 19:06:09
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Ashley’s randomness :
How is it our responsibility to heal what we didn’t break, we already had to do that with ourselves!
2023-08-04 15:32:17
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📚MeggyPeggy1619 📚 :
Whenever I talked about my feelings to my mother it would always lead to a fight.
2023-09-12 02:31:41
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tibbers :
if that worked my mom would be healed because she told me a LOT of stuff I shouldn't have heard. all because she needed a friend. I needed a mom.
2023-08-04 16:23:25
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Uuuu :
The way I was obviously abused for 18 years and no one helped me
2023-08-04 16:54:59
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Birdy ✌🏼 :
We are responsible for healing ourselves, and ourselves only 🙌🏼
2023-08-15 12:45:43
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Lissa :
And we can't heal them if they don't want it, or realise they should change/heal. 🙄
2023-08-04 14:57:40
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Glittergreigy :
It’s not my job to ‘understand’/‘heal’ her. I had every right to be raised in a happy/healthy environment. She should’ve healed before me.! THE END.
2023-08-06 20:21:11
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Lindsey :
I feel sorry for the people who think it’s their responsibility. It’s not our responsibility.
2023-08-04 16:11:44
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kirklandapplesauce :
Thanks for tagging sound credit I wanted to hear more this is really comforting thanks for saying the truth :)
2023-08-04 16:22:24
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Kristi Marie :
The pattern has been developed for years. You can’t undo damage or heal a parent. It’s up to them to seek therapy.
2023-08-04 16:04:29
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Bumblebeeee :
Yeah no. She’s an adult and can help herself! You can lead a horse to water but you can’t make ‘em drink!
2023-08-04 15:41:08
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samiig90🇨🇦 :
😳… can’t begin to tell you how much I needed to see this. I’m gonna go have an existential crisis now 😹🫠
2023-08-04 16:56:12
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Indigovioletaurelia :
Word. People take their own life because of abuse in the family.
2023-08-04 20:51:19
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