happiness has so much to do with your mindset. if you always think negative, ur not gonna be happy, if you are always rude to other ppl, ur not gonna be happy, if you are rude to yourself, you. are. not. gonna. be. happy. If you surround yourself with people who bring you down and make you make bad choices or make you feel bad about urself or in general, you arent gonna be happy. at the end of the day the only thing you can control is yourself. stop letting what happens to you determine who you are as a person. you are in total control of who you are. you say ur not happy but you let ppl in ur life hurt you and disrespect you and walk all over you. or ur always focusing on the negatives in a situation rather than the positives. if someone asks how ur day was, stop complaining about the bad things and try to look for the good parts! start looking at what ur grateful for in life and showing more gratitude. you can only control yourself in a situation, so why not control it in a positive way? If you really wanna be happy, you can be! you got this, love you all. (not disregarding anyone w mental health issues. ive struggled with depression and its no joke im not saying that you can just get rid of it but there are always ways to make urself at least a little bit happier and positive!) - @.ilovemyself_4