Caroline
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Tuesday 15 August 2023 22:02:06 GMT
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Tae_bae :
The first one isn’t an issue… tell me you need something and I’ll jump but otherwise I’m gunna leave you alone and not bug you lol
2023-08-15 22:16:03
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Ally CH :
The first one is valid though? How can I help you if I don’t know you need help?
2023-08-16 01:30:06
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🌻🖤Corvid🖤🌻 :
the village is a lie
2023-08-16 00:09:48
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Layla Anderson :
I am the friend, when you got your own life you got your own life. 🤷♀️
2023-08-15 22:05:23
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Cassalina :
Out of town family: we’ll stay with you and make you insane because your house isn’t exactly like our house. 😂
2023-08-15 22:12:39
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Brianne :
All these bad friends justifying they dont know you need help yet they probably visit and notice 101 that arent clean that usually are & ignore it 🤣
2023-08-16 13:57:37
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Dominick :
TOBACCO STAINED WALLS HELPP
2023-08-15 22:09:13
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Sandwichgoblin4228 :
I hate the “how to help a friend with x” and the advice is “NEVER ask them what they need, just do it” as if it’s not invasive as heck! Please tell me
2023-08-18 16:17:29
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youdontknowme :
I'm surprised by so many "you have to tell me what you need" comments. obvi no one is a mind reader but is anticipating the needs of loved ones not a
2023-09-05 11:35:59
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torigoesboom :
sigh.
2023-08-31 18:51:36
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Amanda :
ok, but sometimes the friend literally doesn't know HOW to help. like they don't want to make things more overwhelming with all the family and they
2023-08-16 00:24:42
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KairaHaruon :
There are so many parents with different rules and you'll be just as bad as the overstepping mil if you try to do anything. Just tell me what you need
2023-08-15 22:31:14
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layla xP :
im eager to help but only in ways that violate your boundaries as a parent 😁😁😁
2023-08-15 22:14:45
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Emilee :
I’m the friend that forced their friend out the house and helps convince husb to watch the baby! Momma needs adult time!
2023-08-15 22:18:14
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Kodi, Your stepdad :
Sneaking out the garage is somethin😂😂😂😂😂
2023-08-15 22:08:52
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Zee :
Am I the only one who doesn’t expect help? Help can be nice, but it’s not just expected. They are my job not everyone else’s.
2023-08-17 14:54:04
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Kaitlyn Russell :
My husbands family member tried to feed my 2 DAY OLD INFANT banana pudding and was offended when I freaked 😑😑😑
2023-09-10 15:24:13
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TamTam :
I’m the friend. Unless you tell me something specific where I can lend a hand, I’ll figure you/your mom/family have it handled and I’m not stepping in
2023-08-15 22:21:24
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apeculiarmushroom :
hehehe hi i’m so early
2023-08-15 22:03:42
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Vanessa Nicole :
Everyone saying the first one isn’t an issue - yikes 🙃 put some effort into being a good friend. Esp. if your friend is experiencing something big.
2023-08-15 22:55:46
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user692890016222 :
What are friends suppose to do come to the house uninvited and do the dishes ? 😂
2023-08-17 21:22:03
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Tigershanks :
THE FB CRIB PICTURE. The trauma 😳
2023-08-15 22:14:20
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Dace :
A lot of moms will have specific needs and if they don’t express them I trust their judgement and don’t overstep
2023-08-16 12:15:27
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Katie Jones :
The first one is especially valid if you’re the friend that never been a parent before. Like we truly don’t know unless you say something.
2023-10-01 12:05:03
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keri clark :
I mean the friend is valid. like idk if you want privacy or not you know
2023-09-27 20:21:07
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Emily Rhodes :
some women are insulted by help… and usually it’s the last time you see them is when you decide to help in your own way cuz you dont know how they rec
2023-09-23 13:28:42
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Dede the Character Maker :
I mean I'm kind of on the spectrum so I need to be told exactly what somebody needs
2023-08-17 16:14:49
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Sydney :
Friend is valid. Why would I just know how to help? And I can’t just assume someone needs help unless they ask.
2023-08-16 03:44:17
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🍑🍐🍉 :
don't forget: MIL wants a meal prepared when she arrives.
2023-09-24 16:08:38
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Kirstyn | ADHD Crafter :
As a friend, just check in. Really check in. Often. PPD you can feel fine one day and awful the next. It’s very sneaky.
2023-08-16 15:13:30
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Theo :
It’s so hard to help when you don’t know what new parents need, and they’re too exhausted to talk to anyone.
2023-09-08 11:52:20
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Ghost Girl :
catch me on that carnival cruise cause your baby is not my problem unless you ask ❤
2023-08-17 04:56:15
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Britt :
I'm the only childless friend so I'm def ok with them asking someone else for help before asking me lol like thats logic.
2023-08-16 07:51:05
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Anca Rotaru :
And all these people ditch you after they insist you have one.
2023-08-16 19:05:00
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•.Halle :
People ask me why I don’t want this life
2023-08-30 21:14:28
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Sloth Daddy :
Friends aren’t mind readers!
2023-08-17 18:02:25
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karissamatic :
My MIL was “sick for SIX WEEKS” she refused to help and after six weeks she told my husband she was old to help. She moved in w my SIL for 3 months.
2023-08-16 12:22:16
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Masked Millennial :
The first thing I do is wash the dishes. like you look tired and there's dishes in your sink, I'm washing those dishes!
2023-08-16 13:53:57
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cuddle punk :
I’m the friend also yr eyeshadow is so pretty I love a blurple
2023-10-08 13:20:41
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Breckords :
For all the friends in this comment section, there are low effort/low contact ways to help. Food is a big one.
2023-08-16 15:26:19
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Sam :
I’m the friend that will come deep clean your house a couple weeks before baby arrives. And then I don’t come by unless asked
2023-08-16 15:59:17
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📚 :
so thankful these weren’t true for me😭
2023-10-04 19:54:00
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braceletswithbooks :
so you have a baby and everyone else is responsible to help you? the father I get but everyone else isn't... sorry.
2023-08-16 03:29:08
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📖BookBitch📚 💙🌈🐈 :
I am sorry, but you decided to have a kid. Not my job, but if you are in a bad bind I will help. Only if it's an emergency.
2023-08-15 23:02:40
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BeccaBoo :
Some people want to be left alone tho. Am is supposed to be a mind reader
2023-08-16 18:08:53
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Shelley Walkup :
the mom &mil😫 my mom still to this day is only at their convenience
2023-10-03 22:59:21
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