@drbeckyatgoodinside: Here’s something you would never expect a clinical psychologist who specializes in parenting to say…it’s okay if you f!ck up. Why? Well repair is the single most powerful parenting strategy we have. In fact, repairing with your child sets a foundation for just about every important relationship pattern. If there is one thing I want you to take in from all that I share, it’s this: We all mess up. What defines us not whether we mess up, it’s what happens after. And.. It is not too late.
Dr. Becky | Psychologist
Region: US
Wednesday 13 September 2023 21:27:53 GMT
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erikaesq :
Those of us with boomer parents can only imagine. Literally. Our parents will never.
2023-09-15 04:06:22
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J o y✨ :
If I got a call like this from my mom I would be speechless. So glad the cycle ends with me and my babies will forever have a “repairing” mom
2023-09-14 06:34:55
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Mynnie07 :
I’ve said “I’m sorry” to my children in times when I know I struggled and was less of a parent than I should have been.
2023-09-16 11:12:27
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Judy Jetson :
As a person with an avoidant attachment, l couldn't believe a word without thinking there was a hidden agenda
2023-09-14 09:11:35
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Nikki Dinmore :
all I wanted was acknowledgement of the trauma my mother put us through. I'm sick of hearing "i did the best I could"
2023-10-07 22:53:39
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Tricia :
sadly i wouldn't believe my mother because she would flip it on me later somehow
2023-09-14 09:33:45
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Shortform Guides :
“I won’t listen to have a rebuttal…” wow. 💔💖
2023-09-14 19:37:21
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Hayley Erica :
because my mom never will, I make sure I do - everytime I get it wrong for my daughter I ask her how she felt. cause no one ever did for me
2023-09-14 22:34:25
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Tanya Froio Leonard :
I actually wrote a letter to my son for his 18th birthday, saying just that . He left for his freshman year of college 2 moafter turning 18 this yr.
2023-09-16 12:37:49
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Reneroo :
People laugh at me for the way I have always apologised to me 3yo if I've messed up or that I tell her I'm feeling overwhelmed and need a moment -
2023-10-08 05:22:11
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Nicki Marie :
I had an amazing childhood … and this still made me cry. And because I had an amazing childhood, I cry for those of you who didn’t. 🥺🥺🥺
2023-09-14 13:07:26
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SplooshWaffle :
No way would that happen. Not in a million years. It would change my life if it did..
2023-09-14 03:39:54
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Marebette :
I can’t even pretend my parents would say this to me. But I did imagine saying this to my kids. And now I’m crying 🥹
2023-09-14 18:22:25
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angelgaurdGENX :
I have actually done this with my kids a few years ago. 🥺
2023-10-07 06:20:10
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Josiah Land :
Protect this woman. This is such a poignant and beautiful message. 🥹 wow.
2023-09-14 02:02:34
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Juntos Therapy & Consulting :
This is so powerful you. I have learned so much from you! Your legacy is reaching a lot of people and I will share and share this ted talk! 👏👏👏👏
2023-09-14 03:36:19
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Mr.MB :
Imagine knowing how much this could help and also know neither parent would ever make that call.
2023-10-10 08:37:39
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Joan McCleary :
this! I have started this letter to one of my kids that won't speak to me at the age of 12.
2023-09-13 21:34:29
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Mg :
I cried watching this. More than I expected I would. 😢
2024-04-23 14:46:25
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skeep84 :
I’ll keep dreaming.
2023-09-15 02:46:59
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LPCumbie :
Till my mothers last day it was always what had been done to her. Never a word about what she had done or allowed to her children.
2023-09-15 23:55:55
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Style Me Something :
I cried instantly….and then your comment on that. And then reflecting on how I make sure to apologize to my kids for losing my cool/apologizing
2023-09-19 04:03:43
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Cassi7 :
I just sent this to my daughter and apologized.. thanks for giving me the words
2023-10-08 07:46:08
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S puzzo :
I’m hysterically crying right now .. my childhood sucked
2023-09-14 15:17:53
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Jess A :
Me remembering the times my mom waited hours, days, or even months harboring the rage she eventually unleashed on me. She wanted to inflict pain.
2023-10-08 02:35:46
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