@misshottievnnn: What stitches? You can't sit? But didn't you have a normal delivery? Ladies and gentlemen, this is a pictorial representation of an episiotomy, the stitches most women receive after "NORMAL" delivery. Now imagine being pricked with a needle in your privates, just once.... look at this picture again. Take it all in. All of this and caring for a newborn baby within the hour of their birth, not being able to sit because sitting puts pressure on the stitches and bathing, burping, diapering, feeding your little bundles of joy with all of it. Dreading all trips to the loo but cradling your little ones through the night as they adjust to the world outside. Imagine being lectured on how to care for your little baby when this is constantly pricking you down there, you can't even keep those stitches dry for quick healing because postpartum bleeding makes it impossible to keep them dry or clean. You eventually develop rashes because of how sensitive the skin down there is. Even if it has been long, talk to your wives about how they felt after giving birth, thank your mom for her endless, silent struggles. The society conveniently leaves all these details out in the name of "sharam and haya". Our battles are neither discussed nor celebrated, and we are arrogantly told to be grateful to Allah if it ever gets too much to handle. I can love my child with my heart and soul and still be miserable about my pain.The two aren't mutually exclusive. Shame to those people who talks a lot of shit to other women like " Hindi ko gusto maging ina kasi ayoko malosyang etc." " Hala! ang losyang na nya tingnan like EW! " Girl, hindi mo alam ang hirap ng pinagdadaanan ng isang ina kaya bago ka mang husga try to put your feet on their shoe. At isa pa ang sarap kaya maging isang Full time Nanay, yung nakikita mo sa araw-araw ang bundle of joy nyo, nkakawala ng pagod. Kaya ako forever kong e treasure itong bagong buhay na tinatamasa ko ngayon kasi sobrang bilis lng ng oras, at ang bilis lng din nilang lumaki🥹 Sobrang thankful ako kay Allah kasi binigyan nya kami ng bundle of joy " AND NOTHING BEATS THE GOLDEN KID-FIRST APO IN THE FAMILY😘👶" My 3Kg baby" To all moms out there! You are allowed to scream and you are allowed to celebrate! More power to you! #firsttimemom

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Tuesday 19 September 2023 10:20:17 GMT