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NUDE_NAILS :
This goes for kids too. They talk all day long, it can be exhausting. But if we ignore them, they will stop talking to us 🥲
2023-10-13 07:26:30
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walkintothelake
Jennie :
The number of times I have asked my husband if he heard me. It’s incredibly demoralizing.
2023-10-10 21:49:42
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peachyklean90 :
I didn’t even know this was a thing and that people don’t respond to their spouse or kids.
2023-12-29 18:47:03
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kookiecrumb
Kookiecats :
Ugh, my husband always says “I didn’t realize that required a response” I’m like, “at least acknowledge that you heard me” 🥺
2023-10-17 15:42:11
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uncommon_ginger
uncommon_ginger :
✨Emotional intelligence helps✨
2023-10-10 15:21:39
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donnelle1991
Donnelle :
My husband sometimes responds by talking about another topic. Like I hadn’t even been speaking. It really bothers me
2023-10-10 21:41:29
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mcsvt933
mcsvt933 :
Tbh it’s especially hurtful when you also aren’t interested in some stuff they say but still make an effort to listen and respond bc you love them
2023-10-11 15:49:01
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melissa_notw
Melissa :
I need the actual comment for a response. My husband will uh-huh me all convo and not hear a thing lol
2024-01-02 23:10:51
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ga.mama2
ga.mama2 :
I ask my husband all the time if he heard me. Like surely he didn’t hear me. Why else would he keep scrolling on his phone and act like i never spoke
2023-10-19 16:33:55
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eyeh8wind
Nikki :
My husband literally said “I listen when it’s important” and it still makes me cry.
2023-10-19 17:30:54
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tamago_macska
tamago_macska :
this makes so much sense. my husband always does this to me. it's so dismissive and makes you feel unimportant
2023-10-10 21:19:46
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bethquirk6
Beth Quirk :
My partner literally acknowledges every bit of useless info I give to him about my work life. Literally makes me feel so heard.
2023-10-13 08:51:48
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briannabanana_11
Bri :
yikes how sad is it how many people are saying their spouse does this 😞😞😞
2023-10-13 07:59:29
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amymadurastewart
amymadurastewart :
Finally I hear someone verbalize this!!!
2023-10-10 18:14:30
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muddypaws_77
MuddyPaws77 :
I immediately stop talking even if it’s mid sentence. Why bother talking to myself?
2023-10-23 20:30:44
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nourwerthtoday
Nourwerth :
This was how my parents treated me and it was deeply painful.
2023-10-10 16:46:10
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. :
he always responds but never engages. "oh, cool" isn't enough
2023-10-10 16:41:32
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theecologistcrafts
TheEcologistCrafts :
As an autistic wife that does this without knowing, thank you so much for the explanation and literal what to dos that is super helpful!!!!
2023-10-11 21:44:20
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peachqween0
💚🌿🦠❇️ :
Omg I thought I was crazy that this made me upset. I’ll ask if he heard me and he says yep and it’s like cool thanks for the convo 🥴
2023-10-10 17:43:26
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raeanncarn1
Rach :
When I’d ask my ex to acknowledge when I spoke he’d say “not everything has to be a conversation.” 🤡 then he was shocked when I left lmaooo
2023-10-21 13:16:00
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caseymarie256
Casey Marie :
yes and some of us need to do inner work, so we aren't exhausting our partners with constant connection neediness too😊
2023-10-20 13:23:18
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Shelby Polczynski :
Me and my husband talk about this. He told me one time, you don’t always ask about my day. And now I make sure I ask every day bc I don’t want him to
2023-10-10 16:22:37
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dingoandturd
antithetical dream girl :
I thought my husband was “dropping my bid” until we learned he’s autistic and he doesn’t recognize that as a “bid” for interaction.
2023-10-19 10:27:53
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klh624
Kara :
I’ll tell my husband about a shift change and put it on the calendar and he’ll say “you didn’t tell me that” it’s hurtful to know he never listens.
2023-10-16 15:40:04
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