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Tuesday 24 October 2023 05:57:20 GMT
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NoniMcd :
I think this whole boundary setting thing has gone a little far.
2023-10-24 20:40:49
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kellieoconnor1973 :
yes
2023-12-09 02:21:25
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julie kelly660 :
Send them to parents only
2024-01-20 11:01:32
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jas :
People acting like there baby is the biggest thing on the planet and the press would go wild if photos got out 😂
2023-11-02 22:54:08
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Kellie Miller Murphy :
it takes a village your choice to set boundaries but you need to understand the consequences of reducing your village
2023-10-24 08:14:38
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Reddirtgirl :
I sent a photo to my mum. She used it to announce my Daughters birth before I could. I had, had a traumatic birth experience and wanted to wait but
2023-11-01 00:57:57
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Natashaluvv :
I could never trust my parents not to send the pic to absolutely everyone they’ve ever met, even if I asked them not to. NTA
2023-10-24 17:35:34
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Julia :
Yes YTA 💯. Hope they say no to babysitting when you want some time out or go back to work.
2023-10-24 12:04:36
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Sezec2022 :
Not at all. Many people don’t understand how insecure their social media is. It can end up being places you would never want a photo of your child
2023-11-01 02:02:57
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Daylight :
We all managed before we could send photos instantly
2023-11-02 01:32:44
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ashyoverhere :
NTA the entitlement is staggering. Obviously these people have never had and boundaries set with them. If they won't listen about something simple,
2023-10-31 23:24:34
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alex armitage :
NTA I woke up from my c section with messages telling me how gorgeous baby was, I hadn't even met her yet 😐
2023-11-15 16:20:17
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Nikytime :
I don’t get the photo thing either especially the grandparents and close family who are excited.
2023-11-01 05:41:09
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Bec🇦🇺 :
Well done on setting a healthy boundary and not letting anyone force you to change your boundary.
2023-10-26 02:29:03
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rachysbrood :
If my daughter and daughter in law don't want to share photos of their babies immediately, then I will let them know I love them so much, that I love
2023-12-31 14:50:41
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Ariel Tonks :
NTA, I had the exact situation she described happen. sent a photo, and then family announced the birth before I got to. It doesn't feel great.
2023-11-26 10:11:13
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court.woody :
Literally insane how people get so angry about this when it’s not their own baby!
2023-10-31 22:10:24
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Banjo :
Yes you are being dramatic. A photo of a newborn is hardly an invasion of privacy. The baby will look completely different in a week. Why start drama?
2023-10-24 09:59:06
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Amanda :
Surely you trust your parents enough to give them a photo and ask them not to share it. Pretty strange really
2023-10-24 08:53:33
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cindy.norris13 :
Imagine being so entitled that you make your own child’s biggest moment all about yourself over a photo. Respect boundaries it’s not difficult.
2023-10-25 12:01:42
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LesbianLilith :
Grandparents are so cut up about not seeing a picture of the baby that they don’t want to have a video call to see the baby?
2023-12-31 16:27:31
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Whatif76 :
No! People need to just be respectful of others choices and decisions even if it doesn’t match their own!! 😳
2023-12-02 02:59:45
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Danni :) :
My son was boring during lockdown. My daughter couldn’t come to the hospital so no one got a photo until she met him when we got home 4 days later.
2023-10-30 20:41:57
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Sarah | FTM - Boy mum 💙 :
remind me again how the parents sent photos to their parents when the baby was born? oh, that's right it took days/weeks to get them developed off the
2023-10-25 12:34:48
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Ellie 🌸 :
Honestly we did a similar thing at first, we were very selective about who got photos and who got told we'd had the baby.
2023-10-25 02:31:11
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Alexis :
Nope. Your child, your rules. F* everyone xxx
2023-10-24 08:48:58
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KaylaDip93 :
NTA! Giving birth and having a new baby is literally the one time where you can set the boundaries and they HAVE TO BE respected! Not your baby, not
2023-10-25 04:35:34
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Kara Lawlor :
Your labour. Your baby. Your choice. I had similar with all family wanting to know our csection day and me wanting to keep to ourselves
2023-11-01 06:11:34
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Josh :
But they grew up in a generation where photos were exclusively physical copies? They should be used to this…NTA at all. Online child safety above all.
2023-10-25 04:04:34
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Kerri Judith🇦🇺 :
I didn't have a problem sending photos, my thing was I wasn't sending photos until my eldest daughter met my baby, I wanted her to be first.
2023-10-30 22:23:35
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Cass 🦄🦄🦄 :
We shared photos with immediate family and my sister-in-law posted on social media immediately. I was devastated and angry. She took our announcement
2023-11-01 19:16:23
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kim brodie :
love it ! ❤ we kept our sons arrival quiet (we were in hospital/ nicu for a month) and then family made a big deal because we didn't tell them 😐
2023-10-31 09:28:33
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Trevor Peters :
100 percent with the parents, the grandparents need to respect their daughter
2023-10-24 07:26:56
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Cissy1984 :
NTA. Your baby, your rules. FaceTime works just fine anyway.
2023-10-27 20:57:58
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Rupaul is fracking :
Pretty bizarre thing to be afraid of
2023-10-24 07:30:38
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Yo :
Way to over thought
2023-10-24 07:41:35
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Elizabeth :
Nta, they weren’t keeping the baby from her parents, and they FaceTimed as soon as she was out of hospital. There are creepy people online, wanting to
2023-10-25 00:43:20
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Lady_Apidae :
The parents reaction proves that you made the right decision. they would have been happy with a facetime if their intention was to not spread the pic
2023-10-30 22:57:59
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Duckie :
NTA because people send on those photos all the time with no respect to the parents wishes
2023-10-31 23:25:46
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Jaz ⭐️ :
YTAH- I’d be so upset if I was told this from my brother when he had his babies. I waited like a crazy women for my niece & nephews first pics. ❤️
2023-11-03 12:10:24
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bigred🇦🇺 :
my son was about 2 3weeks before we told the world we had him we sent ppl we wanted to knoe a photo n a info but told not to post anything til we did
2023-10-31 02:15:47
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SK :
No village for these parents and they caused this. A child does not belong to us. They are part of a bigger family and gain from these connections
2023-10-24 09:09:35
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Jen_k :
My MIL used my ultrasound on her Xmas card & even announced the name we chose. No permission from me to send pic of my uterus to ppl I have never met
2023-11-06 11:27:34
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Tenacious_Deeznutz :
Lol my partner sent a photo to his parents and they posted it straight away. I hadn’t even been stitched up yet before they announced my baby’s birth
2023-11-01 13:09:47
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Elisabeth_juliaa :
She is dramatic. But I can see where she gets it from 😏.
2023-10-24 11:59:52
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Kendra Jade 🇦🇺 :
This is absurd.
2023-10-24 11:40:57
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Bec :
Soooo dramatic.. ludicrous in fact. Yes YATA!!! Your poor parents!
2023-10-24 13:27:12
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Eldiamante :
The mums being the dramatic one, barely torture
2023-10-25 03:55:45
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user7077819972290 :
Your child your choice. Your parents don’t like your boundaries so they will never respect them. They never get a photo.
2023-10-24 07:13:06
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India Korine :
When I was pregnant with my first I had told my parents I was pregnant I wasn’t telling people so she posted that she was going to be a grandma on fb
2023-11-01 08:22:40
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