Jess- Your Boundary Big Sister
Region: US
Wednesday 08 November 2023 15:35:42 GMT
474967
6636
1819
638
Music
Download
Comments
Granny :
It’s always the sons parents that have the rules sad but true
2023-11-08 21:05:49
790
user618223663269 :
Seems to me the other set of grandparents likely showed respect from the get go, thus not needing said boundaries.
2023-11-08 19:32:35
784
arethaowens652 :
This is me it hurts so bad .
2023-12-27 14:25:31
1
X.Blessed.X :
It’s the sons parents who have the most rules
2023-11-08 19:43:40
427
MaryJai17 :
As a paternal grandma I felt this. I have 1 daughter so I’m looking forward to her babies
2023-12-29 12:09:12
1
Truthoverlies :
I have more rights than the other grandparent, but I stepped up day 1 and helped and now my grandbaby is attached to me
2023-11-08 16:24:58
96
CLRaman1206 :
Talk to your son alone for sure.
2023-11-08 16:30:06
11
Anna G :
Meh. At some point it is not worth it anymore.
2023-11-08 21:29:59
126
Della Wallace :
Crazy daughter in laws. I have one.
2023-12-27 21:45:56
39
LiminalCore :
Or I can choose to go no contact. My mother once said 'I'd sooner adjust my life to your absence than adjust my boundaries to your disrespect'
2023-12-27 09:15:19
93
Rachel Ace :
No this happens when you don’t respect the rules/wishes of the parents. We have the same rules for everyone but my parents never question us
2023-11-08 16:23:04
15
Amanda :
This happens a lot and ppl wonders why grandparents don’t get involved anymore.
2023-11-08 16:47:32
75
MayaBea :
I would think they need rules because there has been issues in the past. Plus a new mom will be more comfortable with her mom, not her husband’s.
2023-11-08 16:48:59
61
danielle (hozier's version) :
naw, other side of the grandparents follow rules/boundaries so they get more access. they don't get defensive to changes either.
2023-11-08 16:50:04
117
jessssssicah :
Dad’s parents have more rules because mom may want HER mother taking care of her- especially early postpartum. 1/2
2024-01-11 20:34:48
0
patsylittle2 :
Have no rules
2023-12-27 15:59:21
2
sissyscands7072 :
Parents have a right to set whatever boundaries they choose, but I wonder how many will remember to follow the rules when THEY become Grandparents?
2023-11-08 20:01:29
20
VintageDaisy🌼 :
because some grandparents don't make effort or are toxic
2023-11-08 20:17:06
110
wmcarrollinc :
Narcissistic MIL would say something like this
2023-11-09 15:01:59
2
Angie Tilley Morgan :
this has happened in our family. mom to the son. they've dated since they were 15 &16 she practically grew up in my home. and now we're just shut out it makes no sense to me. it's very sad when you
2023-12-28 07:28:51
0
🎶📚Krissie Pooh📚🎶 :
I would just keep doing what I am doing and not focus on the others. Just go on about my non-problematic way.
2023-12-27 15:09:26
1
Amber/SAHM/Chicken Tender :
You have those rules because you broke my trust. The response I got back was “well that hurt my feels”. 🙃
2023-11-08 21:00:48
51
To see more videos from user @mind_yourboundaries, please go to the Tikwm
homepage.
