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Dr. Angelica Shiels
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myownscrapbook
myownscrapbook :
It is so unfair for the other person to do everything in their power to make avoidants feel safe to end up being cruelly hurt and discarded by them
2023-12-02 20:40:06
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browneyedgirl814
BrownEyedGirl :
Divorcing an avoidant. He hated conflict, thought everything was an attack and would never tell me if he was upset with me for anything.
2023-12-02 21:28:40
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jellefsh
Je||yf|sh :
Say I commit to several agreement with my husband, don't follow through. He'll asks, what's up.I'll tell him nothing.My behavior doesn't change, he gets upset with me & criticize me. Makes me feel bad
2025-03-31 18:38:15
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samreed24
Samantha Serves 💁🏼‍♀️ :
Every time I try and have a discussion with my husband he says he doesn’t want to fight or thinks I’m attacking. I’m disorganized attachment. Help!
2023-12-05 21:08:44
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wowalanna
Alanna :
my husband is like this. im often begging him to understand when i bring things up i’m telling him my NEEDS. not that he’s awful for not meeting them.
2023-12-04 18:43:43
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postivelygrand
OnyxBrown :
Lady you’re saving lives
2023-12-02 20:07:18
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ztrglider
Andrew W. :
I'm avoidant and I wanted to scroll away so bad because this video felt like an attack... but then I realized that that means you're right.
2023-12-04 19:50:10
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ariesprincess1
ariesprincess02 :
im disorganized attachment but damn i’m a loner 😭
2023-12-03 00:45:26
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noellemoore76
noelle :
Does AA look like narcissistic tendencies? To me I’m anxious but it feels like emotional abuse in our marriage sometimes
2024-10-16 10:40:09
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holyeffword8
holyeffword :
debating on sending this to him and thinking.. he'll percieve this as an attack
2023-12-02 21:19:17
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tani_488
tani_222 :
it’s insane to me that we have to spend our whole lives healing ourselves because of the actions of other people
2023-12-05 14:16:24
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yellafema
YellaFema :
My husband is like this. He's offended by 80% of what I say. This is why I filed for a separation. The arguing became unbearable for me.
2023-12-03 00:05:39
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abannel
abannel :
Am I anxious-avoidant or do I ADHD with rejection sensitive dysphoria? I def perceive a lot of things as attacks but have anxious attachment
2023-12-03 14:53:18
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cc_anais
CC :
As an avoidant-ly attached person this is helpful. How do people like me create boundaries with others without sounding avoidant/impatient?
2024-01-19 14:19:31
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magickandmane
magickandmane :
Why are you attacking me with this? 😅
2023-12-02 22:54:39
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bluuuberrii
bluuuberrii :
this explains why in a relationship with an avoidant person anytime i express myself they get defensive like i’m attacking THEM
2024-01-01 03:57:32
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epicmom59
EpicMom :
My ex all the way. But, he never told me anything. Just stewed for years. Then, he blew up our lives with an affair. Said I controlled and criticized.
2023-12-03 19:43:44
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memory_manager
Your Memories Matter :
I dare not share this with my AA person. This would be an attack from me if I shared it. 🍀🌸🍀
2023-12-02 19:37:14
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im.adopted.thnx.mom
im.adopted.thnx.mom :
I’d send this to her, but she’d perceive it as an attack…
2024-01-25 03:03:59
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simp4baumd
HL :
I had a 12 yr friendship end w an avoidant attachment over one disagreement that she refused to “discuss further”.
2023-12-03 01:00:02
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yi18010907
Yas40 :
I tried to heal an avoidant since I fully understood how he felt and why. after 4 years I gave up.you can't cure them. they have to have the will
2023-12-03 01:32:52
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rosespeaks_
📚🎮🏕️ RoseGardenReads on IG :
Yeah. I’m not doing that anymore. I lack the patience to always be selfless, understanding, and deprioritizing my needs for the avoidant needs of someone else. It almost took me out
2024-02-04 10:22:19
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moira.jo
Moira Jo | Fearful Avoidant💋 :
Sounds like a Virgo seriously.. omg they all operate the same. They are often avoidant attachment style.
2025-03-26 02:11:31
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jeremy9to5
JC :
My gosh you are so right. I’m the ostrich avoidant attachment and even had the nickname ostrich in college bc of my fight or flight response.
2023-12-04 01:01:09
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nelliebellie77
Nina G :
It’s me, hi, I’m the drama. It’s me 😭😭😭😭
2023-12-20 22:13:23
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