@sergiotalks.podcast: The sugar baby era 😏

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Sunday 03 December 2023 18:03:07 GMT
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fayyistired
fayfayy :
'I was also'😭😹 its the way kharl whispered it for me.😹
2023-12-03 18:17:48
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egypt.o.rican
Egypt.o.Rican :
where are they from? I can't figure out this accent
2023-12-04 14:01:24
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wendini92
Wendini :
Kharl 😂 whispering it had me hollering
2023-12-03 21:36:28
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ashleyncabrera
Ashley Cabrera :
“I see it” was so real lol
2023-12-03 18:33:44
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carlynnandrewspro_mua
Carlynn Andrews :
"I was also, just a lil bit"
2023-12-04 18:24:59
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tex_nengi
tex_nengi :
My cute cute kharl😂😂
2023-12-03 22:31:14
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kay_daphne
🔪DAGADAPHNE🧨 :
KHAAAAAARRRRLLLLL, killed meeeehhhh 🤣🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀
2023-12-03 22:26:54
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valleylife0669
Valleylife 🇨🇦 0669 :
Okay we need more info on all your experiences 😂🤣
2023-12-03 18:21:59
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alvarado_mia
Minerva :
More info ? lol
2023-12-04 11:06:03
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justaparalegal303
Marilyn :
Share the tips lol
2023-12-03 18:07:27
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yayalamaravilla
yayathenailtech :
The whisper 😂
2023-12-06 16:59:22
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luvrtzii
🥷🍃 :
“just a bit 🤏🏾”
2023-12-03 18:09:11
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nativeyes
Katrina 🦅💚 :
A lil bit
2023-12-06 05:08:58
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henry3843
Henry :
I also need more information
2023-12-04 01:33:08
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jabriela_
Jabriela Rodriguez :
I need the rest of this
2023-12-05 21:30:28
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neenawh
neenawh :
had to watch the whole episode my crush on matt went UP
2023-12-06 07:05:16
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cynthiaciavaglia
Cynthia Ciavaglia :
lmfffaaaoooo 😂 I am dead
2023-12-03 19:14:40
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raquelvega671
Raquel Pena Vega :
hehehe the whisper clarifying "just a little"
2023-12-12 06:44:34
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ramonsitathedog
Val :
“ just a lil bit” sent me 😂
2023-12-07 19:10:18
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staygolden_x0
N :
😂😂😂 damn
2023-12-07 00:58:56
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makeupwithalexah
Alexa N Hernandez :
After it was said I was like…yeah
2023-12-04 04:31:43
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snowa_moria1995
♒ :
kharlll was alsooo, just a little bit 🥺 😂😂😂😂😂
2023-12-05 18:36:27
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lmsalinas
LM Salinas :
omgeeeee make THAT a series...Things I did for my Sugamama! 😳
2023-12-05 18:57:23
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lalorraine__
Lorraine :
3x is crazyyy
2023-12-16 11:53:20
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nitrix99
Nita :
Sergio 😹😹😹
2023-12-03 22:13:30
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