@cultivatingboldspaces: It can be hard to talk about individual elements of social conditioning because no one factor is totally independent of other factors. Boys and girls can be treated the same in one context, but then the wider context makes the impact different. #boys #girls #sexism #misogyny #patriarchy #internalisedmisogyny #parenting #raisingboys #raisinggirls #feminism #feministparenting #genderroles #women #men

Ell | Cultivating Bold Spaces
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stickssstones
Sticks :
My mom is also convinced that all guys in my friend group have to be in love with me. Like?? No??
2023-12-20 17:02:26
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0owo0sh
✨🌸🪼 :
Yep it doesn't help that so often male friends end up confessing it does make me distrust that kind of friendship
2023-12-21 03:30:24
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2024artideas
2024ArtIdeas :
This, perfect take 🙏🏻
2023-12-26 00:34:53
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theladynina
theladynina🇩🇰 :
I was msking friends with a guy in HS, everyone was like "ur gonna end up dating", i was uncomfy, he confessed a crush, our friendship died 😬
2023-12-20 19:06:46
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magica.fra.tryll
A. :
i had both M&F friends in kindergarten (my closest neighbour friends were M) but when i moved when i started school and had an entirely new environment where i had to make friends again, and while (1)
2023-12-21 11:53:58
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gaming.dealer
Gaming Dealer :
I thinks it's because we think of relationships differently. i would totally date my best friend (we are both men) if he was a woman...
2024-01-27 22:09:04
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santiagojoseveron
Santiago Verón :
I find it really hard to not fall for my woman friends - and most of my friends have always been women! What gives?
2023-12-21 03:52:25
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danny909m
Danny909M :
I have women friends and pretty mixed groups
2023-12-20 17:51:05
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nathangywqs
PubertPattinson :
one piece?
2024-02-15 14:04:52
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spiffingbritt
Lewis :
Most relationships began as friendships, mine certainly have. That's natural and its not a bad thing.
2023-12-20 18:01:17
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owl_ga
owl_ga :
I was so uncomfortable about being teased that I grew up having no male friends. Recently, I've almost lost-
2023-12-22 01:02:33
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meatboydan
Meatboydan :
Holy nuance batman, this take is fire
2024-02-13 00:04:23
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abadyar
PhoenixStorm07🇵🇸🇵🇸 :
I grew up in the middle east, in 1st grade(maybe 2nd) the teacher caught me talking with my friends a lot, so she moved me to the left row of desks,+
2023-12-22 14:13:54
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cultivatingboldspaces
Ell | Cultivating Bold Spaces :
Why other reasons for the great gender divide do you think I should speak about?
2023-12-20 16:51:40
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valentineplatt
Valentine Platt :
the power imbalance is important here though, all of my female friends have at some point been hurt by close male friends and don't feel safe to be/
2023-12-24 17:43:13
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acidrain1698
AcidRain1698 :
I had many close friends that were boys when I was little, but I stopped inviting them out and telling adults about them bcuz of how much I was teased
2023-12-23 03:11:36
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snakeshifter
📺TENNAS #1 FAN⭐️ :
I remember inviting a guy friend to my birthday, and my family teased me so much that I didn't even want to have the party anymore😬
2024-01-08 18:00:06
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madamphantasm
PhantomVibes :
it's gotten to the point where politeness is mistaken for flirtation often
2024-02-10 23:10:45
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jrbaxter6
J.R 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿🇬🇧 :
my 4yo daughter currently exclusively plays with the boys. thank goodness I and the parents of the boys don't say anything about "relationship". we just encourage them to get along and have playdates
2024-07-25 15:54:15
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karam_adr
Karam :
I think the reason is unrelated. I was never teased about it and had many female friendships over the years. All of them failed by now.
2023-12-21 12:14:21
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hexxdecibel
Hexx-Decibel :
I'm definitely better off without all this friendship and relationship nonsense.
2023-12-20 20:21:49
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0owo0sh
✨🌸🪼 :
I also think people mix up friendship feelings with romantic feelings! Like you like someone then immediately jump to feelings instead of platonic
2023-12-21 03:34:21
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a_keo
Aine 🍉 :
I was teased about having a male friend as a kid and then from 11 to 16 I was in a girl's school so didn't interact with a boy my age for YEARS. I did really struggle to talk to boys for a while
2023-12-21 12:16:43
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skurkefjes
atlas✨ :
I had kindergarten boyfriend and we also went to elementary together. He would get soo mad if I brought it up, even as a joke. It was kindergarten?
2024-01-01 02:29:24
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nindegalathiel
Nindegalathiel :
My mother never did that teasing. My siblings and I have no trouble making friends with any gender. Sadly our friends often need to work past it first
2023-12-20 21:25:43
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