@dr..angelica.shie: #anxiety #criticism, and #catastrophizing lead to #negativity and damage #relationships. #family #holidays #therapy #couples #marriage #friends #parenting
The people who need to hear this are not on this side of tiktok 😭
2023-12-21 03:27:06
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gsjdndjxk :
I struggle with this and put in a lot of effort. but like is there a line? say they got a new plant that is poisonous to their pet? Amazon really is violent to the world. so where is the line between
2023-12-26 21:20:00
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Melanie from North Carolina :
I tell my husband to be a person who says YES instead of someone who says NO. He always finds reasons why we can’t do something.
2023-12-21 02:12:51
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Greenwood Urban Homestead :
I mostly keep negativity to myself but how does one stop living in an “unforgiving and danger detecting, relentless” inner world?
2023-12-21 17:23:27
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Morgan :
I swear my family are the most negative people on earth 💀 I could win the lottery and they’d be like “but just think about how much you’re going to have to pay in taxes”
2023-12-21 02:54:08
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Boy mom :
I used to be like this until some ruined friendships & lots of therapy!
2023-12-26 01:59:36
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stephaniedanielle999 :
I am sometimes this person, I needed to hear this. Thank you!!
2023-12-21 03:18:47
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mojolove15 :
Do you find this is a common trait of the boomer generation? My mom does this constantly, so does mg mil
2023-12-22 06:47:00
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Cathy :
Please, Do a series on negative talk and thoughts.
2023-12-25 23:13:18
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Shelby Larkin :
A few years back I set a goal to read 100 books in a year & I achieved it. When I told my grandpa he looked at me & said “I guess you should have spent more time working out huh?”
2023-12-21 04:00:30
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CoachBranscum :
“It’s amazing you could cook all this with such a small kitchen” -my mom
2023-12-21 01:44:50
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Nattles 🫶🏼 | VSG :
I just bought a house. I’m so tired of hearing everyone’s negative opinions about how I want to decorate. At this point I don’t even want anyone over
2023-12-21 05:06:58
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Me :
I needed to hear this, thank you. I am a VERY anxious person. I don't do this to everyone, but I have definitely responded to my spouse with negativity without thinking. The question I have is (cont.)
2023-12-25 03:57:40
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Avery rose :
i do feel bad but i'm autistic and have no idea when i say these things that they're negative, it's simply observant
2023-12-23 04:50:09
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Bruxx48 :
I just learned something about myself for the first time in 57 years. I’m going to work on it.
2023-12-23 00:37:10
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KellyTaylor :
Next time someone is negative, I'm going to say, "I'm sorry you're having trouble with anxiety"
2023-12-21 04:11:36
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😶🌫️ :
Lol my Hispanic family… in my adult life I realized we all grew up where no one can just be happy for each other. We criticize each other so much. 😞
2023-12-25 19:06:10
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glonky :
ouch yeah that's me. got it from my mom and living a hard life. I'm gonna do better! thanks for the reminder 😊
2023-12-21 01:40:37
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lynnemb9900 :
When I told someone I don’t cook, she asked me how I got away with that?!
2023-12-21 21:23:16
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PebblesAndLizzy :
I’m pregnant (we did IVF, it was planned). I get a lot of unsolicited opinions.
2023-12-22 21:27:14
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Snackhammer40k :
I saw a quote that said “unsolicited advice is always criticism.” Sharing that quote in moments like these has really helped me stand up for myself!
2023-12-21 20:37:57
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CallMeMotar :
I grew up in a house like this, and I am guilty of doing it.The face palm when I say something and can't take it back
2023-12-21 04:13:45
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Katie :
1. Ooh I love your plants, how do you take care of them? 2. Good for you. 3. Nice do you have a color picked out? It’s that simple.
2023-12-21 01:33:35
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Amy :
Negativity like this makes the assumption that the other person hasn’t already considered the downsides/made an informed choice
2023-12-21 13:54:02
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Sugalicious :
I feel like the real problem is, these comments land on a damaged relationship already. if I can only react well to all you tell me, I'll have to lie
2023-12-21 10:21:22
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