@beonyourfeelings: One thing that is really scary is when you are with a pathological person for a long period of time, you learn to be desensitized to the bad things they do. You accept things you would have never accepted. But because they did it in a very slow process where they literally condition you to accept that behavior. You learn to allow things you normally would absolutely never allow. That is the thing about abuse that no one understands, be it physical, verbal or emotional abuse, you don't see it coming. It is done in such a calculating way that you find yourself at a loss as to how you got there. The key is to never allow people to desensitize you ever again, the minute a person crosses your boundaries, be very clear that, that behavior is unacceptable and will not be tolerated. And if it continues be prepared to walk away. No one is worth that kinda disrespect. #beonyourfeelings #brysontiller #selfrighteous