Simon Gilham
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Wednesday 10 January 2024 13:19:28 GMT
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UntamedPhogoth :
I always feel like the people around me hate me or are upset with me. And when I don't get answers, I tend to retreat into myself...
2024-01-11 09:13:55
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🛡️Sir Kvasir🛡️ :
There is actually a second possible cause here. If the person suffers from rejection sensitive dysphoria, it warps the way they see the world and they would also ask that constantly.
2024-01-15 16:27:14
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capture_the_daylight :
could be leftover from any abusive relationship, not just childhood
2024-01-10 20:11:23
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LadyW :
Yes. But IF you are actually upset with them do👏🏻 not 👏🏻lie👏🏻 and say you're not.
2024-01-10 19:14:18
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Janie Blanton :
Except they don't quit asking. my husband still asks me 2 dozen times a day for the last 11 years. It's hard to be patient!
2024-01-10 19:38:42
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Scooby on crack 🤘🏻 :
i’m sorry but i can’t reassure someone 10 times a day. they need to trust that i’m speaking the truth when they ask the first time.
2024-01-16 21:37:36
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hellosmilesss :
It’s important to realize that always being “emotionally monitored” by a significant other is difficult, uncomfortable, and often triggering too.
2024-01-12 18:40:44
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Faith :
what if I'm always asking "do you still love me? "
2024-03-04 08:11:52
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Christina ♡ :
My bf has never gotten upset, he always says “I’ll always adore you” and just hearing that lets me move on mentally within five seconds
2024-01-11 06:21:06
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Juliasmiles :
It’s freaking exhausting having someone ask that incessantly. Like I’m not any different than 5 minutes ago. I am not a therapist.
2024-01-15 00:11:40
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ricki :
put this on his fyp not mine 😭
2024-01-11 06:20:25
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Robin RStar :
I was the emotional monitor and my constant asking did not slow down or stop until my partner told me it was draining them. Eventually you have to just stop and trust your partner without reassurance
2024-01-10 22:15:11
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MyBelleMichele :
Not “growing up with” my parents were great. My previous relationships on the other hand were abusive.
2024-01-11 02:25:10
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LifeAs_Lissa :
Or sometimes it’s ✨ADHD✨
2024-02-09 03:37:51
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meyerjg :
true, but they have to be working on healing themselves from the trauma, otherwise they will do it indefinitely and never actually get better.
2024-01-10 21:06:48
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⚡🐬Nex🐬⚡ :
Tbh the comments are wild to me. Even if someone asks say, 10 times per day it takes seconds to type out or say something to reassure them.
2024-02-03 13:47:04
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AbsolutelyNot :
Sorry but I just cannot. They’re not in the wrong but we have incompatible needs. I just will not let a person in my life that’s like that.
2024-01-10 23:41:44
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LOGAN :
😏😏 it becomes tiresome providing the same reassurance constantly.
2024-01-10 18:33:29
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Kristen Phillips :
it's so hard to not get frustrated 😩
2024-01-10 19:55:25
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Wasatch Midwifery and Wellness :
Except when you have OCD and are compulsively seeking reassurances
2024-01-11 05:34:07
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