@kayandtayofficial: I hate this for her 😞 backstory ::: We didn’t talk about it much last year, but Kay has a few auto-immune conditions. There have been times that it has flared up, and gotten really bad for her. We used to have different medicines that would help, but she had to come off of those when she got pregnant. Luckily, pregnancy actually helped her condition and so for months she didn’t have any pain! Now the problems are starting to come back. 😞 This time though, she can’t use the same thing that helped before, because she is feeding Ellie and it isnt safe for her. She now has to make a decision between feeding Ellie or stopping the pain. It’s a hard decision, and Kay is the type of person that will hurt in order to help someone else. So she will likely continue to feed Ellie and hurt. 😞 #kayandtayofficial #couples #relationships #pregnant #postpartum

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Meghan :

Just remember. You can’t take care of anyone else if you’re not at your best. She needs you to be okay mama.

learningtoliveagain :

Oh Mama. your health is important. no shame in bottle feeding ❤️

Jade Sawney :

this breaks my heart I hate this for you😢

saramccully :

Kay baby needs her mummy to be physically and mentally well..... baby will pick up on ur pain.. she needs u to look after urself to be the best mummy u can be❤️❤️

astromorgyyy :

I have an autoimmune disease that I was diagnosed with during pregnancy (i’ve had since puberty but it flared during pregnancy) it got sooo much worse after i gave birth and i had to stop

sassypants90210 :

Please take care of you. Moms health is the most important.

Victoria :

honey, remember FED is best. what's best is best for the both of you. you need to take care of yourself, bean won't even remember the whole thing, love and take care of you first.

alexisgray649 :

Your health IS important. She will be happy /healthy either way. You need to be the best you for HER. Even if it’s not what you imagined you are doing

Erin Bartholomew :

please please don't ignore your health. I had to stop nursing to take my pain relief for my fibromyalgia otherwise I couldn't maintain enough energy

iris_ulloa :

My autoimmune symptoms went away while pregnant 🤰🏽 my first born also had a tongue tie and I was in pain but still breastfed for 16months but it took a toll on my mental health

Tik Toker :

please don't feel bad sweetheart. I started off breastfeeding. I was not expressing properly so had to switch to bottle. he is a healthy 6 foot 3 18

Crystall | Mama :

mom guilt is the worst feeling in the world😭

kellindrah :

the guilt that must be consuming her😔 its not her fault!! she isnt taking anything from bean. bean needs a healthy mom!!

Aclarkie4 :

I have an autoimmune disease and when pregnant I felt the best. The 4 months postpartum was the worst! Pain came back with vengeance

Chelsea Lynn Stokes :

My endometriosis was this way. Baby needs a healthy happy mama before anything else!

🖤Kat🕸️ :

I have endometriosis, my pregnancy was the only thing to relieve my pain. After my son, it almost immediately came back 10x stronger & I realized that

kathy6279 :

Something that's always been told to me. You can't be good to anyone if you don't take care of you. Your sweet baby needs you to be ok so you can take care of her. ❤

Destiny Smith🖤 :

I completely understand but if it comes to it, it’s okay to feed her formula. Feed is best and mommas need to be healthy too. I’ll pray about it for u

justerinashley :

From one autoimmune sufferer to another, take the treatment that you need. Being able to function as a strong momma will be worth so much more. ❤️

jennajohnson286 :

Your health is important too.

Forsakenneel :

I promise you that the vitamin D formula or baby formula is just as good I swear it. my boy had an underdeveloped stomach but with those he did amazing and is now an 9 yr old terror lol

djyeiu :

I'm so sorry but take care of yourself. Your mental health needs to come before anything. Fed is best. Don't be to stubborn to supplement if it will

serena :

fed is best is what a lot of people say and it’s very true ! but it is also hard to stop BF because of the connection you’ve developed but your health is just as important as baby’s health 🫶🏼prayers

Nikcole Smith :

I had to make a similar decision. I tried to stick it out but the pain became so much I stopped producing. Kay take care of yourself so you can be the best version of yourself for Bean.

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