@relationshipswithaly: Which would you like to hear from your partner? 1. Tell me more about what happened from your perspective. I had a very different experience so it’s important for me to understand where you’re coming from. 2. Regardless of whether or not we agree on the facts, I care about you and it is important for me to know how you are feeling and how this impacted you. 3. I feel this accusation is unfair and untrue. But I know hashing it out right now isn’t going to help. Can we take a break and then both come back and have the same amount of time to share our unique perspectives? Important note: This will not work on someone who is chronically using lying/blaming/exaggerating as a narcissistic or emotional abuse tactic. Disclaimer: IG is not therapy. This content is for educational and entertainment purposes only. This will not apply to everyone. #anxiety #relationshipadvice #communication #therapy #therapistsofinstagram #couplestherapy #couple #dating #marriage #marriageadvice #mft #MentalHealth #wellness #Love #problemsolving #negotiation #conflictresolution #conflict