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k4kris666 :
I love when people call me little pet names. But I can understand why people don’t like it
2024-03-04 14:10:33
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honeyminx :
I ignore people like that, because they think they will gain control of how I speak. so I simply no longer speak to them. I have boundaries as well
2024-03-04 21:18:30
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Your Neighborhood Creature :
thank you for this perspective. I love being called by terms of endearment. but I'm wondering, is it ever a power move for some? bc I grew up around girls who would "hon" everybody, but when I tried
2024-05-19 18:29:33
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Alexander :
My mom gets mad at my dad for calling people beautiful and I understand how people could feel uncomfortable. I tell him to say beautiful soul.
2024-03-05 21:03:22
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Leilani 🌻 :
I’m from the South, love, honey and sweetheart is my go to BUT also I’m bad with names however I respect boundaries so I try to catch myself
2024-03-05 08:41:19
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Mirissa :
From the South this comes naturally to call people sweetie, honey , baby. I do understand the other side though
2024-03-05 18:55:38
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Delta Marie :
To me a nickname is personal. Babe, love, etc. It makes me uncomfortable. But I know the people saying it are coming from a good place so I try to work through my own discomfort. It’s my issue…
2024-03-04 13:54:27
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Gluteus Maximus the cat :
I have lots of kiddo neighbors. I called one hon and she clarified that wasn’t her name and I respected that. Her brother clarified he liked “hon.”
2024-03-05 23:39:41
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xiv_kiara :
I’m southern it’s a bad habit smh 😂
2024-03-05 14:48:05
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LazyHooper :
I associate BIG childhood trauma with being called “Pumpkin”. No one knows that until they call me Pumpkin. I explain, they stop. It’s all good. 👍
2024-03-04 23:25:58
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isthat_tyra :
Exactly! Beautifully said 👏🏽
2024-03-06 06:28:52
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Wicko :
“Honey” “cutie” “sweetie” etc. from a stranger is NEVER a compliment.
2025-01-14 20:04:13
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gotchakatcha :
For me it feels like a forced intimacy thing
2024-03-04 12:41:05
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Ðårk Èñ†ï†¥ 🔪 :
the same goes for me but with "honey" or "sweetheart" i know its just being nice but i dont like it. 😖
2024-03-04 14:47:40
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a.leo.sage :
💯 I had a coworker who would call me “sweetie” or “hun”. It felt like she was talking to me like a child & she didn’t say it to male coworkers.
2024-03-04 17:04:23
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silverrainOG :
her reaction was rude and unprofessional. she should have immediately apologized and instead she doubled down. she'd lose my business fr
2024-03-04 14:41:19
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M :
I use ‘friend’ a lot with strangers, tends to go over better. BUT some people are just NOT open to connecting, and they’re who typically object.
2024-03-04 13:58:39
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Jenny :
It could trigger some sort of childhood abuse too. And the name makes them feel shame or disgust
2024-03-04 10:56:42
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EllyMess :
Working in retail as a manager, I had to learn that lesson. It isn’t my job to understand why, my job is to just respect it.
2024-03-04 16:44:56
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Intuitive Nicole :
Yes. It's just a matter of empathy & consideration 💕
2024-03-04 13:35:41
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Thee Spicy Taurus :
My ex boss use to call the entire team “kids”. I made it clear that we work together and are not her kids….I became a work target😭
2024-03-04 16:25:57
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Tasha :
I live in the south so I understand that it can be cultural. If someone said they didn’t like it you should apologize and not argue that everyone else is fine with it
2024-03-04 13:11:31
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Smashbie :
My husband got rid of a friend of his bc he would not stop calling me babe/baby. Hubby took big offense to that and friend couldn’t stop.
2024-03-04 13:07:06
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Jbaby :
I get it. You never know what those pet names are connected to. We my see it as something nice but it could be something completely different to them.
2024-03-04 17:24:29
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' DanniThaGoddessBabe ✨🤩 :
i just think people are too sensitive nowadays 😒
2024-03-04 14:26:47
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DarlingNikki :
Yeah unless you’re my husband please don’t call me any pet names. I’m not your boo, your honey, darlin or love.
2024-03-04 07:56:58
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The trash man :
My manger told me to stop calling women “my dear” or “my love” because he thinks it could be seen as belittling
2024-03-04 15:40:01
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CHOMMY :
The comments on that vid are so scary
2024-03-04 18:18:59
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themoodymuva1234 :
Some ppl don’t understand boundaries
2024-03-05 00:14:54
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Refuse To Regret :
This is such an important message! 💐👑
2024-03-04 12:38:25
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𝐒𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐧𝐚 :
how I get so happy when somebody working calls me hun or babe is unmatched
2024-03-04 13:52:36
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par_baked :
I get “babe” and strangers randomly touching my shoulder while at work. Top 10 worst experience for sure so I feel for the customer
2024-03-04 16:36:18
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lyraphim :
I appreciate this. I HATE pet names and terms of endearment unless we’re close friends or fa
2024-03-04 13:07:51
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wcnaintmything :
I love casual greetings that create warmth in me, prevalent in the South. I also fully agree with the objection. We humans are tricky
2024-03-04 16:52:13
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Sweetsoul901 :
It’s so many cultures sometimes we just need to chill
2024-03-04 10:02:08
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Flower Blossom :
I’ve noticed that people who don’t really like me use my full name friends and people who like me usually call me a nickname. In hs I would tell people I didn’t like to call me my full name only 1/2
2024-03-03 22:56:55
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Heidi Beyer :
To me “Love” means they think im stupid 😭 like a “bless your heart” type of thing
2024-03-04 13:23:12
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Thelma30 :
I used to have a clinical supervisor mind you we had the same role. She was just my clinical supervisor not my actual supervisor. She used to call me sweetie.
2024-03-05 20:16:30
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rosedead7 :
Pet names lack professionalism in my opinion
2024-03-04 16:31:52
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Jeweledbottle :
Using any name not offered can come across as condescending. It’s unfortunately quite common.
2024-03-04 14:21:33
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eboni💕 :
I had a stylist who called me by a pet name that only my close friends use and she got mad when I asked her to just use my name.
2024-03-04 14:40:53
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vinnnd1001ci :
I get called babe and honey a lot by coworkers and it feels very demeaning like they don't take me seriously
2024-03-05 05:27:15
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By Way of LA :
I hate being called love
2024-03-03 23:40:35
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SR :
My bff prefers to not have a nickname at all.
2024-03-04 13:20:11
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Ari :
If someone asks me not to call them that anymore I just say, “Oh, I’m so sorry about that! I won’t anymore.” And then move on ✨
2024-03-04 17:01:49
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MzBklynDiamond :
I don't like it at all. It gives a familiarity that does not exist
2024-03-04 16:58:00
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Maria197180 :
I once had a hairdresser try to get me to pray with her. No ma’am. I can be friendly but just no.
2024-03-04 14:40:33
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Druwu :
She responded to her clients boundary with “but everyone else is okay with it”, SO not appropriate
2024-03-05 17:39:34
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🌚 :
I'm not into the little side names, myself. I'm proud of her for setting a boundary
2024-03-04 22:42:04
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allyourlabswerenormal :
I get uncomfortable with Love only from strangers or acquaintances, bc we don't know eachother and it feels fake to me. But that is my experience not yours so I get it
2024-03-04 12:50:58
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lola 🍋🟩 :
i called a starbucks customer buddy like “hey buddy welcome back” he was HIGHLYY OFFENDED
2024-03-04 15:40:22
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❤️💚WitchyKyaitah625💚❤️ :
I’ve had to stop calling ppl darlin and honey bc of this. I’m from the south. I meant no harm but I don’t know everyone either.
2024-03-03 23:04:04
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Emeeemememme :
I love that your intention is to spread love over people. I aspire to the peace and giving nature in my life.
2024-03-04 13:15:19
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🎃 :
This got me cus my mom and some family would call me Alejandra but my name is Alexandra and they would tell me is the same and I would be mad and they would be like why are you mad it’s not big deal🤪
2024-03-05 17:22:52
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wormy🪱 :
There is a very specific pet name that my abusive father use to call me. I will always tell people I don't like it and its often not respected.
2024-03-05 04:47:00
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