Low maintenance friends are the best. You can reach out whenever and everything is cool even if it has been years. 😊
2024-03-10 00:00:19
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Carmen :
ah yes the avoidant attachment
2024-03-10 13:22:45
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𓂀𝕐𝔸ℍ𝕐𝔸𓂀 :
actualy as adhd when i am pasion with somthing even 😂😂😂i forget my best friends 😅😅😇
2025-03-16 16:52:26
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📸🍆 :
avoidant attachment? nah I got that object permanence and that applies to people unfortunately. out of sight out of mind, I literally just forget and I do have real issues with it.
2024-03-11 10:25:28
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hagelfox :
I'm like I know I forgot you exist for 20 years but if you knock on my door literally no time has passed and I still remember how you take your tea.
2024-03-10 09:24:17
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J :
explaining how object permanence applies to people when you have ADHD is so difficult sometimes
2024-03-11 06:50:41
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👽WraithBait🪐 :
I lost my best friend because I’m a low maintenance communicator and she is high maintenance. And I am the villain in her story as to why we don’t talk. 😢
2024-03-10 21:46:45
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Noxxarian :
I mean, i get it, but why is the low maintenance friend's angle more valuable? So the high maintenance friend MUST accept that? How about a compromise
2024-03-11 08:41:01
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Donna :
I will send random tiktoks and memes. But they won't see me for months. But I'm 100% there if they need someone
2024-06-03 13:46:02
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Amba :
i had a friend like this and i just walked away. if you’re my friend you should be there if a family member dies. i’m sure she still thinks we are best friends 😂
2024-03-10 02:10:36
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21remedyy :
"in my heas we are friends" sounds like "it doesn't matter what your needs are, that's how i am so deal with it". ok in MY head i moved on
2024-03-11 06:16:16
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Chanyeol'sBathTowel🫧🧼🫧 :
These type of people (yes, me too) are very loyal friends. They usually don't have many friends, so they are dedicated to you more. They won't leave you even if you don't reach out for a year.
2024-03-13 13:11:26
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circes :
I'm a low maintenance person who's been forced to try and be high maintenance by friends who demand I always make the effort because it's what they expect, it's hard bc they always get upset at me
2024-03-11 05:08:40
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Nora :
I had a friend who passed away when I was in my low-maintenance friendship phase and I regret it immensely. That’s why I slowly started to be more in contact with my loved ones on a more regular basis
2024-03-10 11:37:46
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lydiajsen :
I stopped initiating the convo/meetings and we havent talked in 2 years. Which hurts cause I still care for them but they dont seem to care for me.
2024-03-11 00:27:03
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Millennialial :
Out of sight out of mind. We can each be in each other’s sight and be best friends immediately though. Exactly.
2024-03-10 16:43:57
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Sōtēria Clothing :
Found my people, I mean are we dating or something😂
2024-04-08 09:25:34
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melalowee :
It’s not ideal to be like this as a girl…..in my experience. My friends always think I’m mad
2024-03-10 19:57:54
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Chantal Noordeloos :
I’m either a low maintenance friend or a non malicious love bomber. I have no in between 🤪
2024-03-10 09:47:37
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Hypocrite.ink :
Phones and the internet have ruined our minds. This constant access to each other thing is not healthy
2024-03-12 02:09:28
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g0dsend :
being able to accept this type of friendship means you understand that not everyone can be everything you want them to be. this is why its good to have different kinds of friends
2024-04-05 00:14:49
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Småland Cosplay :
True this, but if you regularly send something, and the person in question doesn’t respond in like over 3 months. Choices have to be made
2024-03-10 17:02:22
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Mother of pets🐈⬛🐶🌻🇩🇰 :
You need cactus friends and not roses friends. Cactus= low maintenance. Roses= high maintenance 🌵👍🏻🌹👎🏻
2024-03-10 06:17:46
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Real Rosè :
Seeking Low maintenance friends 😝
2024-04-07 15:26:53
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