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Or we’ve been with “nice” guys who are hiding a whole personality and they can’t be trusted
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AngelaSeraphina :
It also means they don’t feel you will stand up and protect her. If you are nice, accommodating, etc. you might be a push over that is scary.
2024-03-21 16:22:21
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Mel :
Safe love feels wrong when ur use to toxic & u haven’t healed yourself to understand this. Saying that nice needs to be someone who can set boundaries, say no & not a people pleasing love bomber.
2024-03-22 02:30:51
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tracypaget :
I personally think there’s a massive difference between a masculine energy who’s kind and someone who’s nice
2024-03-21 13:30:46
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Jessica Greene :
Nice can also mean a lack of identity.
2024-03-21 14:48:32
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ziggyzaggyn :
The “nice guy” I dated for 3 years was actually a Narcissist behind closed doors & abusive. But everyone thought I was the “lucky one” 😩
2024-03-22 01:15:47
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Emma C29 :
There is a difference between a nice guy and a good man— a nice guy needs recognition for being “nice” his kindness always hinges on an exchange — a good man is good and kind because of his values.
2024-04-10 00:19:37
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WipsAndChains :
Probably going to get some hate for this, but I'm going to offer a somewhat different perspective. Nice is transactional. Nice people do nice things to get something from someone else (1)
2024-03-21 13:17:46
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libbywilliams543 :
or nice guys are actually placating or are artificial.. and we detect their lack of authentic person
2024-03-22 16:07:26
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jacc_ofalltrades :
Or ‘nice guys’ end up treating you worse in the end
2024-03-25 14:23:48
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Krystal G. :
OR… unrequited love exists
2024-03-22 19:37:07
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Lisamyd :
My therapist told me yesterday that the reason I'm constantly scared in my new healthy relationship is because my brain thinks being in toxic, abusive relationships is 'normal' for me. So being in (1)
2024-03-23 16:03:45
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InkDrinker333 :
Semantics aside - I wish I understood this 20 years ago. 💛
2024-03-22 15:43:10
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Sandy :
It has more to do with not really being yourself. No one is nice all the time
2024-03-24 21:52:48
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David Christopher :
The nice that means no boundaries toxic. Kind and strong is good
2024-03-21 19:12:52
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Gita :
what is if i don't like bad boys? only good guys?
2024-03-21 22:19:49
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smalltownitaliangirl :
They are saying they do not see themselves as worthy of being treasured. I need to earn it and just getting it is uncomfortable
2024-03-22 01:17:49
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CC :
Respectfully, nice doesn't always mean non-abusive or sweet, it often means they don't excite in all the right ways
2024-03-21 22:19:38
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Jill Elaine :
This stuff should be taught in school
2024-03-24 17:23:27
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Lisa-ann Connor :
I shouted at a guy because he walked me to my car when his was the opposite way. This is so true
2024-03-22 19:56:03
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Kell :
Very much seeking a kind, gentle man
2024-03-21 15:59:28
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Mama_J_Graham :
Nice can mean passive or not a good leader.
2024-03-22 16:50:27
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