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lisetteruperto
lisetteruperto :
Or we’ve been with “nice” guys who are hiding a whole personality and they can’t be trusted
2024-03-21 15:50:15
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angela_reconnected
AngelaSeraphina :
It also means they don’t feel you will stand up and protect her. If you are nice, accommodating, etc. you might be a push over that is scary.
2024-03-21 16:22:21
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melhalden
Mel :
Safe love feels wrong when ur use to toxic & u haven’t healed yourself to understand this. Saying that nice needs to be someone who can set boundaries, say no & not a people pleasing love bomber.
2024-03-22 02:30:51
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tracypaget
tracypaget :
I personally think there’s a massive difference between a masculine energy who’s kind and someone who’s nice
2024-03-21 13:30:46
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jessicagreene418
Jessica Greene :
Nice can also mean a lack of identity.
2024-03-21 14:48:32
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ziggyzaggyn
ziggyzaggyn :
The “nice guy” I dated for 3 years was actually a Narcissist behind closed doors & abusive. But everyone thought I was the “lucky one” 😩
2024-03-22 01:15:47
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emmc888
Emma C29 :
There is a difference between a nice guy and a good man— a nice guy needs recognition for being “nice” his kindness always hinges on an exchange — a good man is good and kind because of his values.
2024-04-10 00:19:37
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wipsandchains
WipsAndChains :
Probably going to get some hate for this, but I'm going to offer a somewhat different perspective. Nice is transactional. Nice people do nice things to get something from someone else (1)
2024-03-21 13:17:46
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libbywilliams543
libbywilliams543 :
or nice guys are actually placating or are artificial.. and we detect their lack of authentic person
2024-03-22 16:07:26
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jacc_ofalltrades
jacc_ofalltrades :
Or ‘nice guys’ end up treating you worse in the end
2024-03-25 14:23:48
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yesitsmehun
Krystal G. :
OR… unrequited love exists
2024-03-22 19:37:07
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lisamyd
Lisamyd :
My therapist told me yesterday that the reason I'm constantly scared in my new healthy relationship is because my brain thinks being in toxic, abusive relationships is 'normal' for me. So being in (1)
2024-03-23 16:03:45
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inkdrinker333
InkDrinker333 :
Semantics aside - I wish I understood this 20 years ago. 💛
2024-03-22 15:43:10
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sandy.angela
Sandy :
It has more to do with not really being yourself. No one is nice all the time
2024-03-24 21:52:48
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skybluesooner
David Christopher :
The nice that means no boundaries toxic. Kind and strong is good
2024-03-21 19:12:52
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jurgita.43
Gita :
what is if i don't like bad boys? only good guys?
2024-03-21 22:19:49
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smalltownitaliangirl
smalltownitaliangirl :
They are saying they do not see themselves as worthy of being treasured. I need to earn it and just getting it is uncomfortable
2024-03-22 01:17:49
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b.l.u.e.947
CC :
Respectfully, nice doesn't always mean non-abusive or sweet, it often means they don't excite in all the right ways
2024-03-21 22:19:38
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jillylane80
Jill Elaine :
This stuff should be taught in school
2024-03-24 17:23:27
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lisaannconnor
Lisa-ann Connor :
I shouted at a guy because he walked me to my car when his was the opposite way. This is so true
2024-03-22 19:56:03
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kaaaay.bee
Kell :
Very much seeking a kind, gentle man
2024-03-21 15:59:28
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mama_j_graham
Mama_J_Graham :
Nice can mean passive or not a good leader.
2024-03-22 16:50:27
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