@sommertothill: Replying to @sophenia_marie let's stop teaching girls that their bodies don't belong to themselves and they are objects to be looked at

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heyyoungbleed
💛newt💛 :
i wasn’t allowed to cut/dye my hair until 17. i’m mid 20s now, it’s been short/dyed (buzzed or crop) ever since. not having control over my appearance was dehumanizing
2024-04-10 00:51:30
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stardust.meatsuit
stardust.meatsuit :
My mom controlled my hair. She made me grow it out, cut it, perm it, highlight it on her own whims. I left home at 17 & colored my hair red & didnt
2024-04-10 06:48:22
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quelaracat
Quelara :
My mum broke the cycle thankfully and let me choose my haircuts. It was very weird to me when friends and strangers gave opinions on my hair though
2024-05-03 02:10:52
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gothqueenvaltheria
GothQueenValtheria :
My parents never let me do anything to my hair. I wanted to dye it. Now At 28 I was able to dye it green, it was fantastic and freeing.
2024-04-10 02:49:19
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graytornado
Bentley🇨🇦 :
Having been restricted as a kid, I now pretty much let my kids choose but I ask they think on it for a week before we proceed lol.
2024-04-09 21:03:34
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lenawrlch
lenawrlch :
My poor mom went through all my blue, red, black, bleach blonde etc hair phases with me even though she was getting so many hate comments from other moms! But she always supported me 🥰🥰 Bless her!
2024-04-16 06:38:45
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coffee.pumpkin
coffee.pumpkin :
I took my girls to get haircuts to get their DIY toddler dos fixed. The stylist was mad they wanted to go short! Went to a different salon & the new Stylist was all for it!
2024-04-11 20:07:57
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naurclaur
I have a glock :
I like long hair now, but for a long time had the shortest bob to try and separate myself from femininity that I felt was being forced on to me
2024-04-10 19:13:35
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dieanaluna
dieanaluna :
I’m so glad my mom was a cosmetologist. She cut my hair as short as I wanted 😭
2024-04-10 06:09:26
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stingslikeabee_
sweetlikesugar :
I've always allowed my children to choose anything they want in regards to haircuts. My mum loved long hair everyone in our house was made to have long hair even my four brothers. My brothers were bul
2024-04-09 22:23:54
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kokana2424
Kokana :
I let my kids do what the want but as a parent it's ruff when they go for a big chop. Kids can be fickle and not grasp how long it takes to grow it back. We've def shed some tears a few times.
2024-04-10 00:04:49
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outer_lemons
outer_lemons :
I had the opposite, my mom worked exceptionally hard to make sure we did not look feminine at all, it was also very toxic. My daughter gets to choose how she looks always.
2024-04-10 00:01:39
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align.111
Align.111 :
I was only allowed to get blonde highlights. I couldn’t darken my hair until I moved out
2024-04-17 10:03:18
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goinwiththeflows
Ashley :
my dad said I shouldn't cut my long hair bc my face was too round so I cut it myself and everyone including myself loved it- he didn't say anything about it for a few days
2024-04-12 19:08:52
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salty_life_oz
Salty :
My mum convinced me to chop my hair into a short bob with short fringe, I hated it and I cried. She did it because I had beautiful hair and she couldn’t have that
2024-04-10 02:07:51
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banditlikeher
Liza (taylor’s version) :
I’ve been trying to convince my daughter to cut hers, but she refuses. It’s the opposite problem here 😅 but I’ve let her keep it long as that’s what she wants, even though it’s painful to manage 💀
2024-04-10 00:13:42
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ramengoblin
🌼🐛Ramen Goblin🐝🍀 :
1/2 wanted to donate my hair. i wanted them to get as much hair as they could so i wanted to go buzz cut short. mom told me i wouldnt be let back in the house if i did because she didnt want me to
2024-04-10 02:27:19
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sarahdavidson2204
Sarah🪩🖤🪐 :
Love this
2024-04-09 21:13:50
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starsmadeofglass
starsmadeofglass :
Buzzing my hair off was one of the best decisions I ever made. The amount of headaches I get is down by like 99%. I can get ready quicker, which means more sleep. And no hair ties my cat will eat!
2024-04-10 15:29:23
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daisieschained
Lark :
I totally agree. My mum forced me to get a pixie cut as a child and I hated it. My daughter has had short hair, long hair, fringe, no fringe.
2024-04-16 03:32:59
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mermaid_pants
Mermaid_Pants :
i can't love this more!
2024-04-09 20:51:19
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case.gunn
Case 🇦🇺🍉 :
My mum cut all my hair off when I was 3. I was devastated. I had always wanted long hair and it was always cut.
2024-04-12 08:14:14
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tonyplaysthemambo
tonyplaysthemambo :
I had the opposite problem wheee my mom kept giving me the Dorothy hamil/ princes di bob because her own hair was too curly for it. I tend to keep my hair long now
2024-04-10 01:34:59
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pri__vega
Pri :
My parents did the exact opposite when I grew up, my hair was always super short and no longer then shoulder length “so I could look young” , I wasn’t allowed to grow it out until I was 15
2024-04-10 03:38:32
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downbytheshayyy
downbytheshayyy :
This. My parents refused to let me try anything that they thought I might regret… I wanted to chop my hair and they told me no because I wouldn’t want to look like a boy🙃
2024-04-10 02:13:01
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