@pamelawurstvetrini: The secret unwritten rules of white women and their female friend groups. This is what you have to sacrifice to belong. Not a doctor. Not a therapist. My personal observations…
This was validating, being biracial & having a yt mother/aunts/in laws. The complex damage this did to me before hitting my 30s and finding boundaries that firmly reject their “rules” is WILD.
2024-04-12 08:40:56
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Krystal :
You’re cooking with this one 🤌🏾🔥
2024-04-12 18:35:53
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queen_joeleen :
🗣💯👏🏽AT 👏🏽EVERY 👏🏽SINGLE 👏🏽JOB 👏🏽I'VE 👏🏽HAD... This is NOTHING but FACTS & I now feel SO VALIDATED by your breakdown! 🙏🏽 #ThisMakesSOMuchSense 💯
2025-10-22 20:49:06
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mvmzzzs :
Always outcasted by previous “friends” for addressing and voicing conflict. I’d get ghosted and gossiped about but I second guessed it for so long this was so validating
2024-04-13 02:42:11
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ariesprincess02 :
i just left a toxic job w/ the worst coworkers i’ve ever had. this was so validating
2024-04-12 05:46:03
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Melina Benches :
Grew up in the SE but parents r middle eastern and I’ve struggled so much to understand social rules here bc I can’t stand the passive aggression & lack of sincerity. Lacks honesty & integrity imo
2024-04-12 13:35:02
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greencinder🇨🇴 :
This is deeply validating, thank you
2025-06-24 02:38:53
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Danielle Bayard Jackson :
ok now this is interesting
2024-04-11 05:18:49
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MsJarJar :
This makes me think about Tamra and Vicky relationship on RHOC, well the whole show. Interesting
2024-04-12 05:14:31
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Kanise :
You hit this spot on!
2024-04-12 09:22:29
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rawren.nicole :
I feel like this was a free therapy session!
2024-04-13 20:35:37
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lorens.lens :
You ate this
2024-04-12 18:46:02
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Sailor Malia🌙 :
This makes me think of mean girls lol
2024-04-16 22:48:42
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Susan :
This! Why I never got too close to the ‘mom’ groups when my girls were younger. I made excuses to not come to their ‘jewelry parties’ etc 😂. They were merely acquaintances. Had 1 true bestie💕
2024-04-14 12:15:59
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Faith In Nature 🧿 :
This was such a minefield for me to navigate with neurodivergence.
2024-04-20 22:14:02
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CantPrayMeAway :
This was my whole life as a Mormon. It’s so hard to unlearn 🥺
2024-04-23 19:47:10
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rochelljameslewis :
GIRLLLLLL 🙌🏾 You are so on point!!
2024-04-12 15:10:04
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echodoesradio :
This explains my corporate experience so, so, so much. WOW!!
2024-04-15 21:36:16
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kimbo :
I feel seen
2024-04-11 12:19:06
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𝓐shᥫ᭡ :
I’m laughing at the accuracy of this
2025-08-19 15:13:47
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brindadiata :
This is literally my experience in the entertainment industry. An unnamed top agent just treated me w silent treatment and I couldn’t possibly understand why but you’ve helped me get it a little more
2024-04-14 17:21:45
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s :
Wow. Thank you for articulating this.
2024-04-21 23:29:40
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