i cant imagine my new step mum only being 5 years older than me.
2024-04-20 17:29:34
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Pumpkincake :
Stop pouring into people who are not receptive to your talents. STOP! Keep your time & energy & invest in yourself & your man. They don't deserve your kindness.
2024-04-20 17:18:02
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Monica Briscoe :
Lot of people here uncomfortable w/the age gap. But the older you get the less it matters. My 65 grandma dates 87 man. 20 yr difference.
2024-04-23 00:51:02
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Gxld :
the lack of responses when she extends an olive branch means she’s never wanted the help. leave her alone
2024-04-20 17:37:51
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H Aucoin :
she contradicted herself sooo many times. maybe that's why she's not getting responses.
2024-04-20 20:38:47
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XueYing :
Well intentioned perhaps, but feels like overstepping.
2024-04-22 07:21:49
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Mizjae🇿🇦 :
I think someone said something to Ella that has turned her against OP. If they were fine all along now the change
2024-04-20 19:21:15
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renzonari | BTS ARMY💜🇿🇦 :
sounds like the mom said something to Ella. she mentioned not wanting drama between s/mom n mom, which seems to not make sense to the s/mom
2024-04-21 00:05:02
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Rachel K :
I don’t think she didn’t want a relationship with the dad’s girlfriend. I think her mom was jealous of the dad’s girlfriend and felt like she was trying to take her place.
2024-04-21 05:44:07
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Kalei S :
I like to do nice things for others and go out of my way to make sure they feel loved, I have found many people dont trust the niceness, they thing there is ulterior motives. thats sad. 😢
2024-10-19 16:11:44
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Zay Nay :
I would just leave it alone and move on with my life. She just saved you some money. I wouldn’t worry about it too much. Or take it too personally.Let her figure out.
2024-04-21 17:31:00
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Kat Dimmel :
Don’t cross oceans for people who wouldn’t jump puddles for you.
2024-04-22 22:48:02
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Paula’sKid :
Girlfriend is over stepping granted its with good intentions but just relax & let them figure it out.
2024-04-22 20:09:33
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Tatiana Marie :
I think the most shocking part is all the exs being so long ago and everyone still caring 😂 like time to move on now
2024-04-21 14:03:36
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Elio 🍉 :
that's... that's not a widow??
that's a widower
2024-04-30 19:53:00
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Kitty Akara :
Ok I got confused but OP shouldn't bother helping if they don't want her around in family events right now.
2024-04-20 23:17:17
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M2 :
Fall back from everything! Ensure the BF goes, but stay away. It also means falling back from assisting with anything in the future
2024-04-22 09:46:12
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Beyond Monroe :
😏😏😏
2024-04-22 20:37:40
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amie 🌞 :
😂😂😂
2025-07-02 16:28:09
0
seabikoalepe :
🤭
2025-06-14 07:32:27
0
mjay_868 :
🙂🙂🙂
2024-04-22 18:21:50
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maxannewood :
No response is a response.
2024-04-21 00:13:55
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maybe em :
Here is a different take. It sounds like Ella’s mom is the problem & shes trying to protect OP
2024-04-20 18:41:13
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Heather :
lol they definitely do not like her bc of the age unfortunately
2024-04-20 18:50:35
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Jo :
It sounds like the daughter and no one else likes her. If I'm wrong some info is missing
2024-04-20 17:07:48
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Brianna Ornelas :
Dating my dad for 10 months isn’t enough for me to invite you to my baby shower and especially not watch my baby. You can be polite and respect your parents relationships but not want one yourself
2024-04-20 17:11:22
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♥︎ Micaela ♥︎ :
OP is 33 and the eldest daughter is 28? Plus you’ve only been dating the dad for 10 months?? Babe chilllll 😂😂, you’re reading too deep into this and tell the father to be there for his daughter 😂
2024-04-20 19:28:01
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Chinieeee ❌⭕️ :
Well I didn’t hear any planning
2024-04-21 05:16:54
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Pat’s Pouty Lip :
OP sounds like she was trying to be helpful. I don’t think anyone is the AH but I think uninviting her was really rude.
2024-04-20 17:18:45
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annabelle :
You too pushy.
2024-04-20 23:32:39
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Valentine :
Wait...she was never throwing the shower. OP offered, but Ella didn't accept. The whole premise isn't accurate 😕
2024-04-20 18:53:30
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LCWA :
She’s offering but the daughter isn’t taking her up on it. Let it go and stop making the offers.
2024-04-20 21:51:27
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Sue B :
When she didn't respond? that means no. I learned this one. 💯
2024-04-21 15:46:42
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ellielylu :
So sounds like BF's ex of over 28 years is jealous of his new gf? That's the only reason I can think of.
2024-04-20 17:27:47
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martin19762004 :
She didn't really plan anything though. She just offered to. Ella didn't give her the go ahead. I also don't think Ella likes her as much as she thinks. Getting along yes but probably barely. 😂
2024-04-21 15:40:50
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SonceriáDior :
😳😳😳
2024-04-20 18:03:48
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Belethedheliel 柏骊 :
Saying “I can do X for you”’and the other person ignoring it doesn’t mean you had an agreement. It means they didn’t agree 🙄
2024-04-21 02:00:05
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B :
Did I mishear or did she offer to host the baby shower, not set anything up, the daughter called for details *months later* and she just said “don’t worry about it”? Bc that would be off putting to me
2024-04-20 21:22:20
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Moss :
So op is only 5 years older than her boyfriend's daughter? Ugh. I wouldn't want anything to do with them either. And she never actually planned the baby shower, she only ever offered to do it
2024-04-20 18:31:17
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Noneya :
Sounds like op made lots of offers but didn’t do any actual work all while Ella was telling her she was stressed nothing was moving and then got told that op still didn’t have a theme or ANYTHING
2024-04-20 19:52:45
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TZ :
I wouldn't watch Ella's kid.
Ella is clearly someone who takes & isn't inclined to give anything.
Also, keep a polite distance.
Less drama that way.
2024-04-20 18:09:39
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MrsDerbalicious :
Is that a bad friends tshirt?!
2024-04-20 17:06:35
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Mommaof8 :
Sorry wasn't listening cause your shirt with Bobby Lee is so damn distracting....gotta buy me one. 😆
2024-04-20 19:01:23
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RudyVegas :
Way too much drama. She's pregnant, her Mom is putting pressure on her. Just let it go. Skip the shower & be kind by being the calm ones. She's freaking out, be patient
2024-04-20 21:28:29
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40❤️🩹 :
The new girlfriend is probably the same age as his daughter, and also, 10 months and you acting like a wife to him, fall back. Not your monkeys, not your circus.
2024-04-22 14:39:37
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Mocha Beauty :
The mom would do everything…including watching the baby for the summer
2024-04-21 05:34:33
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tdballgirl :
You can have more than 1 baby shower
2024-04-20 17:36:18
7
KathyTravels🇨🇦 :
It’s not about you. It is the existing family relationships she has and you are just an added complication she can’t deal with at this time. 🥰
2024-04-20 18:40:17
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drewizzle :
It’s widower if it’s a male
2024-04-20 17:59:22
6
tinkme88 :
this story was too confusing lol 😂 the dating time line confused me
2024-04-22 20:20:47
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TeaDragoness :
OP is 33, daughter is 28. 🤨. 😂😂😂 Of course she’s no having OP plan the baby shower!
2024-04-21 11:15:43
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Memyselfandiplus5 :
ppl tripping over the age and how long they've been together🙄Ella's accepts free bb sitting from someone not considered family.op this family is drama,treat them as such and stay away from them and i
2024-04-20 18:40:57
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Raq Reams :
I’ve been there. Just leave. He’s got too much baggage. You still have time to date again.
2024-04-23 08:23:50
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user8217249109054 :
I want to hear the other point of view so bad! It sounds like there's a lot more going on
2024-04-22 20:34:02
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Redhead1977 🆘 🇺🇸 :
Sounds like Ella was always being nice to OP for the sake of her father, but in reality she doesn't want any help with her baby.
2024-04-21 12:54:49
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v :
since when is it normal for guys, other than the dad, to go to baby showers ?!?
2024-04-20 23:11:50
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