@relationshipswithaly: Making judgments is not always a negative thing. We make judgments all the time about things that are good for us and things that are bad for us. Especially when you are dating to marry someone, it is important that you make judgments about the set of unique issues that this person will bring into your life. You will be legally bound to them, it is important that you have your eyes wide open going in. Some people feel that it’s not their place to judge, and I agree with this on all counts when you are talking about HUMAN WORTH. But the responsible thing to do before getting married is to make judgments about COMPATIBILITY based on the signs you have seen. Disclaimer: IG is not therapy. This content is for educational and entertainment purposes only. This will not apply to everyone. #communication #therapy #therapistsofinstagram #couplestherapy #couple #dating #marriage #marriageadvice #mft #MentalHealth #wellness #Love #problemsolving #negotiation #conflictresolution #conflict