@claireauden: 3 signs that guarantee you are not the narcissist. #narcissism #narcissisticabuse #narcissisticrelationship #narcissist #narctok #narctokadvice #narcissistbehavior #npd
I’m a very empathetic person but I’m so worried about being a narcissist cuz I unfortunately really crave external validation:/ I put so much energy into creating a certain image for myself and trying to appear as “the coolest person in the room” and sometimes I even find myself getting these intrusive slightly judgemental thoughts about other people and I hate it, it’s exhausting, I want to stop but idrk how to and I fear it makes me a bad narcissistic person:((
2025-06-22 18:46:23
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Luna :
I usually keep in mind “If I’m worried about being a narcissist or hurting people; I’m not a narcissist” 😅
2024-04-22 07:59:38
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samuelbanks40 :
ok thank you this helped me immensely
2025-04-29 10:12:48
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🏳️🌈 ThatGayMatthew 🇵🇸 :
I was terrified that I could be a narcissist because I grew up with one, but I really just want to have mutual understanding and support in my relationships. I don’t want to make anyone feel less than because I know what that feels like
2025-05-16 23:39:30
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joanna 🌸 :
He’d want me to take accountability for stuff HE was doing…. I’m too stubborn and it ended up with him apologizing to end the conversation NOT actuallly meaning it. I’ll take accountability when it’s
2024-11-30 16:35:44
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Jason :
Well I'm finally sure that I'm NOT the narcissist, but I wonder if it's possible to show this to my ex so she'll see that she's the narcissist. Can narcissists be self aware? Can they be fixed?
2024-05-14 02:22:34
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Sade🇳🇬 :
Is gaslighting yourself also something? Sometimes I think “Did this Actually happen, or am I just making it up”. Idk why but it’s like my brain is trying to block it out?
2024-04-22 09:38:47
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💌🦢 :
The problem is that I'm borderline and they also have black & white thinking
2024-04-22 07:22:11
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Fennella ❣️ :
(2) I take accountability for my actions but at the same time I never blame myself for their actions but that doesn't make me a narcissist I just have logics
2025-01-05 22:11:51
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JessicaOldham :
He lied to me and messaged girls behind my back but I keep worrying that I was the narcissist because I would argue with him so much which I feel so bad about I hate that I caused him damage
2024-06-30 10:52:45
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tastsynatnut :
Black and white thinking is also BPD so this is a tricky one
2024-04-22 13:57:29
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Tom Tom :
like dr jekyll & mr hyde
2024-04-22 21:30:38
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Kitty :
seriously thank you so much for this video, put my mind at ease so much I have been going back/forth/up/down in my head for the past month since the relationship ended
2024-04-22 07:57:57
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StockBro :
I thought splitting was a BPD thing.
2024-04-23 01:42:09
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🔻La Reina🔻 :
I kept wondering and researching if I'm one. This is a relief. Although I believe that some Narcissistic traits are in me
2024-04-22 15:07:43
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djrts :
I’m glad I passed !!
2024-05-02 10:08:44
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leeleemm :
also, if you start to notice even one of this traits in yourself (you may develop this as a self defence mechanism/coping/trauma response) you should LEAVE immediately...a narcissistic person is 1)
2024-07-04 05:28:33
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Shannon S :
Or what if it’s love bombing every few days or a week after periods of being mean then stonewalling?
2024-07-20 05:29:12
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Chloe Humphrey :
Is it possible for someone to be so influenced by a narcissist that they act as one but actually aren’t? For example narc. Mother influencing son ?
2024-04-22 08:24:57
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Emzi!! :
is a narcissist even teachable to treat someone else better
2024-07-16 13:21:06
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Grace :
I genuinely learned something new today— thank you!
2025-04-03 02:06:58
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🪷 𝘚𝘩𝘢𝘳𝘰𝘯 𝘘𝘶𝘪𝘯 🪷 :
A narcissist will sleep soundly while u cry 💯
2024-04-23 10:04:24
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✨ C O R R I E ✨ :
Makes me cry to hear this… 😔
2024-07-15 18:40:12
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Cherish :
this made me cry out of relief. I have been so worried that I am one. I am still trying to tell myself he isn't one. 😞
2024-06-13 02:52:42
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