@lorelco.mulzac: Wifey didn't look forward to taking out her braids because she knew it would take FOREVER. So, I stepped in to help her out and make things easier. Even though it took a lot of time, I'd gladly do it again just to spend more time with her. What I've learned over the years is that serving my wife has benefits. See below: 1. We grow closer together. Serving together can help you grow in intimacy, trust, respect, and appreciation for each other. 2. Our relationship turns from me-focused into we-focused. Pride is a relationship killer so removing ego helps your spouse to feel more loved and valued. 3. We become less stressed. Sharing tasks and responsibilities can reduce stress and make both partners feel more capable. 4. We're able to better communicate our needs, expectations, and preferences which lead to better understanding and compromise. 5. We create a culture of service in the home. When one spouse consistently serves the other, it can create a positive cycle of reciprocity. If you don't know what to do to serve, check these out: - Support your partner's goals - Open the door for your wife - Give more and receive less - Offer freedom - Say "I love you" often - Be honest - Communicate your needs - Ask questions about her - Show up when she needs you most - Smile often - Give what you'd like to receive - Actively listen - Be mindful - Include your spouse in your plans Serving shows that you are willing to invest time and effort to make their life easier and more enjoyable. So serve! It always pays off. #marriage #marriagegoals #marriedlife #tips #lifelessons #serve #couplegoals

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