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just attract a secure partner and save yourself the headache
2024-06-19 23:03:53
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🇬🇧 Soraya Ji 🦅 ✨ :
I was secure…he made me insecure with lack to anything really…it had to be all his way…I was not allowed to have feelings or needs…left him and I’m back to secure
2024-06-18 22:52:44
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Lindsey Hinds :
What’s frustrating is saying “communicate that you need space and some time, let me have reassurance that I’m still safe and I will give you whatever time and space you need.”
2024-06-20 20:04:40
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Mushball :
my FA and I had few conflicts if any but I initiated kind loving conflict resolution that worked. He STILL ran from me.???
2024-06-18 21:29:00
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Cassie Kaye Pearce :
At some point, they don’t deserve us to wait or understand
2024-06-26 10:28:58
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⁂༒ ⁂̩̩͙͙ ⁑̩͙̩͙ ⁎̩͙ :
I initiated no contact it’s been 19 days ….
2024-06-19 03:32:56
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Katie :
I lost him because of the chase. I’m wondering if he will return.
2024-06-18 19:44:39
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Jess :
I stopped chasing. He said he doesn’t feel wanted anymore. I chase, it’s too much for him. It’s a lose-lose for me. I can’t find the middle
2025-03-07 23:45:36
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Rachel Mae Leatherberry :
My avoidant Fiance is hell bent on leaving because he doesn’t want to keep hurting me. What do I do??
2024-09-11 17:27:34
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Hannah 🦋✨✈️🧿 :
I have to disagree because I have anxious attachment from this relationship
2024-12-02 12:25:58
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But y’all ok supporting this :
Don’t date an avoidant. Got it.
2024-07-15 17:32:36
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Rookie Master :
my bf is avoidant to me,but he is so afraid of him mom and kids, also ex wife🥺
2024-07-22 15:09:53
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haathim :
so I have thus girl who loves me a lot but as a friend and when I proposed her she said she doesn't look me the same way and we don't talk much nowadays so I wanna know what I should do effectively
2024-08-09 15:19:19
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Jonnie Cakes :
This behavior makes a secure person become insecure. The avoidant creates a miserable dynamic and their own pain.
2024-07-17 00:01:12
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Claire 🌻✌🏻 :
What if I already chased my ex fiancé for three months and finally with no contact but exactly how you’re describing how he would feel is exactly how he felt. Will he come around?
2024-07-15 18:10:49
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Tiffany Christine :
Hes supposed to come down next weekend but I know he won’t.
2024-07-16 01:50:15
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Michael D :
Really good video. Ive had 5 years with an avoidant in the picture, unless they want to look at their own behaviour, it's never going to change. I've done this get close cycle then they run so many
2024-07-09 07:12:29
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🦇killa_k4t🦇 :
How do you shake the anxiety that they are going to do something to sabotage the relationship or hurt you when they run ? When they put their walls up and you’re doing the right thing on your end 1/2
2024-07-07 15:17:44
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Carla :
I chased so bad and he blocked me.. I wish I’d known about AS at the time. He’s know found flaws to justify leaving me but it’s left me feeling like he hates me 😞
2024-10-11 08:16:22
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Harrison Noble :
I was mainly secure and sometimes anxious. I would bring up normal things to communicate in secure ways and my avoidant ex told me I was too emotional. Ex never brought up any emotions ever.
2025-01-20 00:22:56
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Aaaaaaaa :
1 and a half yr of no contact, still a chance?
2024-07-22 18:20:57
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Candace Carmack :
Yep, i expressed some feelings and he wouldn’t speak and would not react to any of it. He didn’t talk to me for a month and I didn’t contact him. he finally texted and said sorry and ghosted me again
2024-06-18 20:59:02
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Nkhoxi :
what if u wait patiently and she doesn't come back
2024-07-18 16:50:50
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Jen A :
I chased my da for months and it made things bad but we still didn't want to get rid of reach other. I stopped and he's been sweeter and less anxious towards me
2024-06-20 03:10:28
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