@pdxpaperdaddy: Just a brain dump. Ive been thinking about this non stop for the last 2 days. Ideal situation: we both dont have jobs but we’re super rich 🙌🏻
you so real for this, thank you. The SAHM isn’t for everybody hahahahaha
2024-07-02 03:57:37
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Tatiana Maria 🥀 :
Disabled people watching this: 👁️👄👁️
2024-07-02 22:05:31
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morningmatcha_ :
I’m working on my forensic psychology degree and I was dating someone who said I want to be a stay at home husband i never limped away so fast.
2024-07-03 22:56:11
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Rx3_xo :
Me watching this as a sahm👀
2024-07-02 03:28:04
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Aimee Williamson :
I just want the option of staying home lol but I could never just not work
2024-07-02 01:48:05
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Emmily :
I was the breadwinner in my last relationship & I stayed way too long bc I had the responsibility of taking care of her
2024-07-02 05:09:22
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sadxlove_ :
I think that’s a great way to think and to hold that standard. You know they are in it fully for you and same for them. That you are continuing to pick each other every day. Not stuck or forced.
2024-07-02 01:16:09
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Lilith Lee🍒 :
I completely love and support your perspective💚 My exception I think is if your partner is disabled. Mine is & we have had many very honest open conversations about what a relationship would look-
2024-07-02 01:45:45
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Angel Smith :
I’ve been on both ends of that and it was terrible both ways lol I like to take care of myself and I only want a partner who can do the same. Yes things can happen and I get that but going in,
2024-07-03 03:46:28
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jesssssss🖤 :
Life is soooo much better with two incomes truly.
2024-07-02 14:00:31
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Bobb :
Yes! I was sahm due to disability and everything you mentioned was an issue. it ultimately was a big factor in me leaving. And Leaving was more difficult too, like you mentioned.
2024-07-02 16:53:11
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HelloKitty :
what if they make money w out working tho?
2024-07-02 04:02:00
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saviwieland :
I’m a stay at home but work from home lol
2024-08-20 14:22:36
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EmmmmmaaaaaaaaJL :
Yesssssssssss! Wants us not needs us
2024-07-06 10:11:52
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sapphicgaze86 :
What if they are millionaires and don’t need to work
2024-07-05 16:05:27
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2024-07-03 16:54:45
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Elyse Sweet 🌈 :
I view sahm as a straight view relationship vibe and I’m not for it.
2024-07-02 18:34:31
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savvi wilford :
Oh absolutely you’re 💯 on point
2024-07-02 15:31:37
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Chanel Trinnier :
I was miserable working so staying at home is mutually very beneficial 😂 But i totally see your point
2024-07-02 05:09:33
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erikuh🦝✨ :
Having been the one who was financially dependent in an abusive relationship for 7 years, I never want to be dependent on someone in that way (and vice versa) ever again.
2024-07-02 04:43:54
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DispiritoDust :
I have such a hard time explaining Things and Maam This is exactly Spot on How I feel. Also Like If I can be independent I exspect my partner To be also.
2024-08-30 21:27:07
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Kimberly DeLange :
Until my name was printed on a business card it just wasn’t enough 😂🤷🏻♀️
2024-08-27 03:59:36
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Lacey cannon🏳️🌈 :
sameeee
2024-08-24 10:32:29
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Mellow Plays :
I am a straight married woman (as if it matters but some could say "see, the lesbian hell awaits" or smth) you give very valid points on my internalized thoughts, ty.
2024-08-22 07:42:00
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brookeann0054 :
I’m a sahw that works (work from home artist). And it’s not by Choice, I have Ehlers Danlos and it’s actually painful for me to have a job and I’m not exactly reliable to be able to function everyday.
2024-08-22 05:37:51
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Zerah :
Luckily me and my fiancé both tried it out. We both hated it…life needs balance LOL
2024-08-20 00:55:06
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Marbie Red :
As a SAHP there is definitely the underlying “am I allowed” and it does suck. My partner hates that I feel that way but idk how else to not lmao
2024-08-18 21:39:53
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Ana 🇸🇻 🇦🇺 :
my mom survived financial abuse and I totally get this.
2024-07-29 08:12:03
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Moni :
Im autistic and would love to be independent and have a job and sometimes I feel Im not wanted as a partner because Y would probably would not want but need to be a star at home wife and feel bad 🥺💔
2024-07-13 12:11:30
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VixeninVelvet :
and that's on maturity. ❤️
2024-07-13 01:56:45
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Kay :
No because I make jokes about being a stay at home wife… bbbuuttt I see it this way to I don’t want them to feel like a need them or they need me I want to be wanted and I want them to know they are wanted rather then needed!!
2024-07-12 10:50:16
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Stefania :
I had work burnout a year after my father in law and my father's death and covid hit and I'm a SAHW right now. I am so glad my partner supports me and I wasn't afraid to tell her.
2024-07-12 01:25:43
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Following Jellybean :
I work from home
2024-07-11 21:33:48
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The Wild Poppy :
yesssss!!!!!!!
2024-07-10 07:47:41
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J.Lee :
I’m a SAHM and I never needed my husband until we had a child. It’s definitely stressful at times but honestly no power dynamics. If anything if he wants clean clothes and food I’m the boss 🤣
2024-07-09 15:14:40
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Mack :
I was stay at home mom and fiance with my ex I was going to school at the time. Never again. Whole reason I picked my carreer so I could ve at work while kids were at school.
2024-07-08 16:54:49
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RIP :
Are you in Oregon still? Should let me take you to Dinner 👹😬
2024-07-08 02:30:33
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clementinemoon87 :
I don’t know why anyone would be a stay at home wife, but when you have them kids someone’s gotta do the 24-7 care. So that’s why I am a servant to these kids at home and outside the house.
2024-07-07 17:09:40
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idontcharis :
THIS.
2024-07-05 22:27:46
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@mleathers661 :
What is what I told my ex …… I don’t need you and she never got that
2024-07-05 08:20:08
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yosoyjessicaleann :
I literally can’t stay at home I tried to and I absolutely HATED I need to have a job
2024-07-04 19:29:24
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Samm ⋒ (Taylor's Version) :
Tbh it's so hot that my wife wants to be successful enough to support us both so that I can raise our precious babies and take care of our home. 🥰 I've never wanted to work just to survive.
2024-07-04 01:50:28
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Hunterinalaska :
SAME! ✨ It is so true.
2024-07-03 19:43:17
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CW :
100%. If people want that, great, but not for me.
2024-07-03 15:47:02
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Taylor Elise :
Also have something they’re passionate about and work hard at outside of a relationship!
2024-07-03 02:21:34
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