@breannefletcher: As a defense mechanism, you may have stopped sticking up for yourself or expressing your opinions to 'keep the peace' in your household growing up. Your sense of self and value may have become tied up in validation sought by others. It is common for many people to unknowingly bring this habit into adulthood, manifesting itself in people-pleasing and being 'agreeable'. In the process, the self can be lost, and so can taking care of it. . . . #healing #healthy #complextrauma #complextraumarecovery #complextraumaawareness #addiction #addictionawareness #addictionrecovery #cbt #timfletcher #fy #fyp #MentalHealth #MentalHealthAwareness #mentalhealthrecovery #recovery #timtalk #narcissism #codependency #safespaces #TFSafeSpaces

Healing in Plain Language
Healing in Plain Language
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likeavitrine
jenn 🇨🇦 :
are we distracting ourselves or is it a survival response yo those around us not being safe?
2024-07-04 17:48:37
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lifeis706
Undercover :
My ex-husband said I was boring. I realized he’s right and I’m OK with that. Putting myself out there was so much work it exhausted me. I’m good with being still and not exciting.
2024-07-07 15:16:12
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wally275btw
Dj-Stanton275 :
I know who I am 👌
2024-07-12 13:00:06
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renelqzv7fm
Heather.Jones :
This exact feeling? It’s what What the Silence Tried to Say put into words. I didn’t know a book could do that.
2025-06-24 07:32:15
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collateralbeauty75
Christina :
Currently going through this. Who am I ?
2024-07-05 10:28:23
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fakeituntilyoumakeit33
Nunya :
Ouch
2024-07-22 12:57:21
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adopteedesigns
AdopteeDesigns :
I have no idea who I am, what im capable of, and I see no reflection in the mirror.
2024-07-05 11:48:56
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tonic444444
SemiCharming :
Lately when I hear myself in a conversation I feel like I don’t recognize myself and don’t like what I say. Yet part of me feels I need to accept myself
2024-07-04 17:57:00
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nicehouse80
NiceHouse :
Without seeing a professional therapist, are there resources to begin this kind of knowing?
2024-07-04 17:26:25
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likeavitrine
jenn 🇨🇦 :
“they use people’s needs to keep distracted from themselves” no. they are forced to cater to the needs of those around them to stay alive
2024-07-05 19:03:50
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bekindanddogoodalways
WisdomWeaver :
Trauma survivors often develop coping mechanisms that disconnect them from their true feelings, needs, and desires.
2024-07-08 18:14:38
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joniballif
joniballif :
This is me. Hearing it out loud brought me to tears.
2024-07-10 22:01:19
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ohhfaye
Faye :
Where do I start?
2024-07-10 12:29:56
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ts_blue
Kat :
The thing I hate most is the problem is pointed out but never the solution. 👎
2024-07-08 21:23:20
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anselthetherapydog
Ansel :
When you’re in survival mode 24/7, it’s hard to look at yourself and your place in this world without distraction 💕 one step at a time
2024-07-08 19:57:05
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phayon121
J.A. Conklin :
what time scale is "coming out of". cause I'm sitting on 25 years.
2024-07-09 21:14:04
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seanmccarthy5
Sean McCarthy :
What does that question even mean? Is it talking about characteristics? Is it talking about hobbies? Overall life??
2024-07-08 01:42:20
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scottb5484
ScottB5484 :
Some of us have no “you”.
2024-07-06 06:00:31
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hettiiry9cf
MelissaLarson :
Not everyone’s ready for it. But What the Silence Tried to Say finds you when the noise finally stops.
2025-06-24 07:47:38
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consueaptch
Kimberly.Jackson :
Not everyone’s ready for it. But What the Silence Tried to Say finds you when the noise finally stops.
2025-06-24 07:46:20
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aylahigjn5l
Veronica.Stewart :
Not everyone’s ready for it. But What the Silence Tried to Say finds you when the noise finally stops.
2025-06-24 07:44:02
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tamargid0f8
DeborahAnderson :
Not a self-help book. More like a mirror. What the Silence Tried to Say by Alira Sennel changed how I sit with myself.
2025-06-24 07:39:46
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kaci3154etz
Catherine.Blankenship :
I wasn’t expecting a shift. But this book didn’t ask for permission. It just exposed the silence in me.
2025-06-24 07:36:16
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emilyluscombe
Emily :
Realizing at the age of 29 that I had absolutely no idea who I was… that was an incredibly difficult pill to swallow. But the path to finding out what I love has been a beautiful journey ❤️
2024-09-29 13:58:05
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ruthcharlie103
ruthcharlie103 :
Yep, I am 50’and have no idea, this is a super hard part of healing.
2024-09-18 09:29:52
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joannedawson5
Joanne Dawson ❌ :
That’s what I have spent the last 4 years of healing to do know Me 💜
2024-09-17 14:14:02
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missykitsune
zsarstar0 :
Yep
2024-08-23 06:05:58
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simplyselfhelp
Sally-Anne | Therapist :
Love this - I’m a therapist & I burnt out 9 years ago - this was the most important part of my burnout recovery to get to myself
2024-08-04 01:20:04
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03mimid
mimiD :
I talk to my inner self everyday.It's not easy very difficult with lots of pain. Prayer does really help. Now I know who I am. Always remember you are enough and forever will be enough.
2024-08-03 18:14:37
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betwixtdark
sam :
I have no idea who I am, I'm a little frightened mouse
2024-07-28 20:00:03
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wyomingmade
chelseam1988 :
It’s also a painful and Very Lonely one…. You HAVE to be committed to the looses u Will face!
2024-07-27 17:52:31
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jiayuedea
jiayuedea :
sup traumatised fam, strong recommend buying a children's scrapbook project and doing it about yourself. it asks you things like your favourite movie, favourite color etc
2024-07-27 09:55:56
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nicolebasinger988
Nicole :
but how? how do I find myself?
2024-07-26 22:56:25
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servicewithasmyle
Serena :
Sadly, I gave myself away for so long now I’m a single mom living under the poverty & now have no time or money for healing. 😃
2024-07-26 21:10:54
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slap.him.i.will.pay
slap.him.i.will.pay :
😳🥺yes
2024-07-26 02:08:28
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kalon88888
Kalon :
😢
2024-07-24 21:46:45
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indigoessencess
Michelle Louise Monet ©️ :
It’s a hard job. It really is your only purpose in life
2024-07-23 10:11:05
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thee_amanda_
𝑨𝒎𝒂𝒏𝒅𝒂 :
“Tell me about yourself”…😬👉🏼👈🏼
2024-07-23 00:44:57
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369tiffany963
369tiffany963 :
I’m beginning to not like the way this man calls me out everytime I see his face. 🤭
2024-07-21 17:45:20
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shwizz
Shwizz :
I'm no one bruh
2024-07-21 03:39:45
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andreajo502
user7208836897755 :
Still struggling with this
2024-07-21 01:18:36
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roseannastar
Colleen Holbrook :
Wow. Me either
2024-07-20 21:32:48
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cheriskow
cheriskow :
HOW????
2024-07-19 17:26:37
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bobbyjoheart2.0
Bobbyjoheart2.0 :
@Bobby Jo
2024-07-19 13:41:34
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elizabeth_9216
Elizabeth_6432 :
ouch
2024-07-18 02:27:04
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starsantacruzrealtor
Star Santa Cruz :
Truth
2024-07-18 01:16:19
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eric_faster
Dog_dad_FL :
Hate that I instinctively adapt to ppl around me, working hard not to do it anymore
2024-07-17 01:16:50
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melanieraposo
heyitsmemel🇨🇦 :
it has taken me 13 years (after being in a BAD relationship) to remember and understand my beliefs and value system. 13 years of limbo and, insecurity, darkness and self abandonment
2024-07-16 12:46:31
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