Nta. Clear boundaries were set. Everyone involved knew and understood them beforehand. You stood up for yourself and protected your wellbeing.
2024-07-09 17:35:24
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💕🌸⭐️🌈 :
This is proof you always need to know the story before you judge. I would have gone to the funeral though
2024-07-11 03:29:58
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★ᒪᗩᑘᖇᘿᘉ★ :
In my opinion,I say yes because you could atleast go to the child’s funeral and plus you didn’t have a child at first so you wouldn’t be neglecting anything really but that’s my opinion
2025-06-04 01:50:58
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phos112 :
That's tooooough. He needs therapy though.
2024-07-09 17:25:28
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poopoopeepee :
NTA. he was neglected, watched his sibling suffered & died. he didn't want his kids to suffer the same fate as both the healthy and especially as a sick child.
2024-07-09 17:14:49
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kkmomma703 :
NTA but my gosh I feel horrible for him. He needs some therapy to help him through this trauma he endured. I wish I could give him a hug.
2024-07-09 17:26:26
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Rosi_Gribouilli :
For me he set a boundary and his ex didn't respect it, though she made her choice, and he made his.
2024-07-13 09:42:38
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EthMusieye :
Okay, so the guy and his ex-girlfriend had discussions about having a baby and they both agreed that if they weren't having a healthy baby, they'd terminate.
2025-03-07 11:06:54
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Darson :
He’s been traumatized. He needs therapy ASAP. What if this child or his wife has a debilitating accident. What is he gonna do leave?
2024-07-09 17:29:55
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Jeremiah :
NTA. Why do people over step others boundaries and get mad once the consequences are enforced??
2024-07-09 18:41:21
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Beth :
Would he leave the relationship 5 years after the child was born healthy, but then came down with serious illness like cancer or cystic fibrosis? How is it different?
2024-07-10 01:06:11
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Ty :
Definitely TA for not at least going to your own childs funeral .. that’s cold AF.
2024-07-09 23:37:41
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Mabulous :
Short answer, yes. Hard things in life get thrown at us, but that does mean run or that you are excused because of past experiences. He could have been different from his parents.
2024-07-09 21:23:28
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AlexalikeAmazon :
I think he’s the AH like yall do know diseases can come later which makes me think he’ll abandon his child if they got cancer because it’s “too much”
2024-07-09 18:05:54
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SlappyP :
Definitely an AH he did to his child exactly what his parents did to him.
2024-07-09 18:43:28
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Nat Smith :
"My parents neglected me so instead of learning from it I decided to abandon my own kid." The ableism is so awful all around.
2024-07-09 22:07:01
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lalee.0_o :
nope. they had an agreement they would terminate the pregnancy if the tests came back positive. she went against it.
2024-07-09 22:27:13
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Roxana C :
Nta i understand, he just wants peace now, you can’t blame him
2024-07-09 17:17:09
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Vile Avatar :
not going to the funeral is an AH move.
2024-07-09 22:51:26
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veggiegirl23 :
I think nta but that wife is taking a big risk on him, he’ll run when things get tough. He honestly shouldn’t have kids at all
2024-07-09 23:55:23
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FullMetalTuna :
Life is not fair. For anyone. But abandoning your child is probably the worst thing I can think of.
2024-07-10 10:07:43
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