@okstorytime: AITA for telling the bride I don't want to wear the bridesmaid dress chosen for me? #reddit #redditstories #redditreadings #reddit_tiktok
This is why you go to Home Depot get color swatches and tell them this is the color I want and let them find a dress with a specific fabric.
2024-07-27 13:04:47
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No tak :
😂😂😂
2024-07-27 10:01:00
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Rachel Berry :
I wouldn’t wear something I wasn’t comfortable in. Would’ve in my 20s, would’ve sucked it up, but not in 40s!!!
2024-07-29 21:44:52
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TalNaernihae :
I'd try on the dress in front of the bride, let both her and OP see what it actually looks like, instead of letting her anxiety win
2024-07-26 21:34:25
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em.erald :
The bride is sooooo in the right
2024-07-26 21:15:15
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Carra Bennett 💜 :
This is why I’m having my girls pick the dress they want but the color I want. I want everyone comfortable ❤️
2024-07-27 00:20:39
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Cow :
I feel like she doesn’t want to try it on at all
2024-07-26 21:48:04
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☆ Vibra Sucia ☆ :
Just show as a guest 😐
2024-07-26 22:24:47
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HarleenKitten :
I don't think Mister Anti Fence has heard of DustyThunders scale of Ahole lol. I like his 4 point scale, I wouldn't say she's a full ahole, but could of done something
2024-07-26 21:34:26
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myra hope hayden :
tell the bride you’re too insecure to be a bridesmaid and move on. It’s her wedding no one is looking at you
2024-07-26 21:34:25
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Amy G-Rex 🥊 Pro Boxer :
When I was bridesmaid, I let the bride decide and I would wear anything she wanted even if I didn’t like it… it’s her day not mine.
2024-07-27 12:37:52
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Tina Ditter :
I picked the color and store and allowed everyone pick their own dress
2024-07-26 21:22:45
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Roxanne🆘️🇺🇲🗑🔥 :
ESH, OP should've tried on the dress before putting her foot down and the brides message was suuuper aggressive. Glad they both came to their senses in the update.
2024-07-26 23:01:14
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julian89745 :
How did they order the dress without everyone trying a sample? She said it she’s fluffy and every is skinny. Makes a big difference.
2024-07-26 21:16:03
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Crystal :
a clear cut a hole 😅😅😅😅
2024-07-26 22:59:31
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erindanielle14 :
This is the brides day. If op didn’t feel comfortable in the dress the bride wanted, she should have taken herself out of the bridal party and attended as a guest.
2024-07-26 21:43:47
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nancypb5 :
It’s good she dropped out before if she wasn’t comfortable
2024-07-27 04:08:14
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Adam :
She seems a lotle self conscious, but "she just looks good for her age," is a punch below the belt.
2024-07-26 22:50:38
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LaLa6514 :
I went to David's bridal and they had a collection of dresses I think it was like 5 or 6 different dresses that were similar in some ways or the same material and I let all my bridesmaids pick
2024-07-26 22:36:57
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Maria 🇮🇸 :
I get not liking the dress and even suggesting an alternative, but once the bride said no OP should have backed off. That being said her comments on reddit feel very odd so I think she might be TAH.
2024-07-26 22:08:54
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🩷❤️AndreatheOG :
When I was in my friend's wedding she said this is the color I want pick what ever dress you want as long as it is the color!! it was awesome!!!
2024-07-26 21:45:29
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bunchofletters :
the bride is nta
2024-07-26 21:27:25
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lesmaul :
it was really important to me that everyone was comfortable and felt beautiful with me on my wedding day. that bride sucks.
2024-07-27 11:52:45
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ghost :
she's absolutely not the ahole, wth. y'all clearly have no idea what it's like to have insecurities. i also have those, i'm fat and there are types of dresses that i know i would never be 🍓
2024-07-27 05:04:39
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MannyP :
she should of gone to help pick them out and made point before it was bought...
2024-07-27 04:54:24
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Lisa Em :
It’s the bride and groom’s day and vision. It doesn’t matter what OP prefers. Stepping down sounds like it’s the best option because of her insecurities. The day isn’t about her.
2024-07-26 22:54:25
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yvonneD123 :
I think she's a bit of both
2024-07-30 19:48:26
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Uncle_Ankh :
OP should reply “in this case I will not be attending at all, and our friendship is over - you said it yourself they are there to see your husband and you, so me not wearing the exact style dress
2024-07-28 19:55:47
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📚 Ashley 📚 :
As someone who’s plus size, this shows that you don’t get it. I can tell when a dress isn’t going to work for me. I have done exactly this and the bride worked with me immediately.
2024-07-28 12:04:10
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90s ADHD'er 🇺🇸❤️🤍💙 :
i think OP is letting her insecurities get in the way if the fact its not her day. i get not being comfortable but just wear the dress or step down if bride wont let you pick a dress.
2024-07-27 21:53:13
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BSue 🌹🌻🌹 :
Not a purposely an asshole. Op should have tried on the dress. Also why couldn’t OP get up early and go to the dress shopping? Also the way the bride reacted makes me think there is something else
2024-07-27 20:13:01
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user7319817405438 :
she can wear spanx and self tan and you can change right after but Op is ta. She was too lazy and wanted to sleep in instead of making a sacrifice to
2024-07-27 15:30:23
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user9140916842537 :
as someone who's bigger, older, gas fibromyalgia and uses a mobility aid, trust me literally no one is comparing what you look like but you.
2024-07-27 15:06:39
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La Mexicana :
Everyone is a little bit of the AH.. if OP can get a same color dress then I don't see an issue but also OP is projecting her insecurities which isn't fair to others
2024-07-27 04:51:09
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The beagles that own us :
She is right. We don’t want to look ugly
2024-07-27 02:06:58
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Dani 💖 Noel :
I sent pictures of our colors to my bridal party (multiple tones/shades that work) and said go nuts just show me. I don’t get why ppl want to dictate that so much. I want them to feel comfy
2024-07-27 01:24:27
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23459876 :
You’re young. Wait until you’re much older, being compared to young women in front of a crowd. Of course she’s insecure.
2024-07-27 00:58:17
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Cassidy :
She went to “I’m too old” to “she’s older than but she’s skinny” girl….
2024-07-27 00:48:36
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madamebloodworth :
I feel like this turned into a problem that wasn't necessary. try on the dress and if it doesn't fit well just be a guest instead of hurtful comments back and forth & ruin the friendship
2024-07-27 00:16:38
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