All of the above but I’m more so afraid of the fact that I have a lot of unresolved trauma and don’t want to pass anything down 😬
2024-07-29 19:06:50
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toad :
i feel like some people have kids cause it's a status thing, like it's something we're supposed to do. the scary thing about that is i feel like people don't have any idea what they're actually (1/2)
2024-07-29 18:45:04
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Kass🪩🦋 :
This is so real. I’ve been saying this for a while
2024-07-29 18:47:36
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maria poenaru :
i don't see any reason to have kids? i feel like it's selfish to have them at this point in time- we're literally running out of resources. like what is the benefit?
2024-07-29 20:27:51
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kalyn :
This is my inner monologue every day and I’m almost 31 lol
2024-07-29 19:36:07
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mayday :
Having a child? In this economy? 🫣
2024-07-29 18:54:01
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BriLambo :
Its more selfish to have kids you dont want! Dont feel guilty or selfish
2024-08-01 01:14:29
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Bri :
I'm glad people are starting to think about this because it's a lifelong decision
2024-08-06 17:55:12
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Internet Curator :
I love to visit with kids and then hand them back to their parents. I am fully aware I am not built for that life but I admire and appreciate those who are :)
2024-08-01 22:51:01
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testingoutnames :
not having children for any reason isn't selfish, bringing children into this world before you're ready is selfish
2024-07-30 01:11:26
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EvanAlmighty_VB :
Nobody is ever truly “ready” to become parents, just so you know. We’ve all been there driving away from the hospital with our newborns like: “wtf do we do now?” But it is a gift like no other.
2024-07-29 22:44:32
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Matt B :
People out here bringing life into this world regardless of the quality of life/care/resources that child will have…
2024-07-29 21:31:26
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stasia :
fit
2024-07-29 19:00:42
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abbie | wfh mom :
an arguement for kids that i think people can lose sight of because of being young is once you get old. if you don’t have kids the only family you will have is siblings if you have any.
2024-08-16 22:52:50
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Gabby McCarthy :
I’m right here too and I’m turning 30! A lot of people don’t think about this and make stupid decisions and the kids suffer. I believe we’re making a strong generation this way! Good job! 👏🏻❤️
2024-08-12 18:36:18
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charlottedelarte :
I don’t want kids but I do think it would be fun and interesting to see who they become as a person and instill the lessons I’ve learned so they won’t struggle
2024-08-12 13:38:47
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little-goblin :
As a 31 Woman, I think we should normalize not having children as as acceptable.My co-worker asked if I was even a "woman" because I didn't want children.😔
2024-08-08 17:30:23
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MarkInspiresGrowth :
Yep. All true. Kinda glad we had you. 😂
2024-08-03 20:18:17
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crown_mebrown :
I straight up don’t want them for every selfish reason you can think of. And that’s ok..
2024-07-29 20:31:22
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Rice + HotDog :
My hubs and I talk about this a lot. We’d be great parents but know it’s a lot to handle and would rather not for now. We treat it as an ongoing convo rather than 1 and done.
2024-07-29 20:29:11
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Ophelia :
I'm glad you're thinking about it instead of rushing into any decisions. for me I'm doing a take it or leave it. so if I get pregnant I'm keeping it and I'll have unprotected sex if I'm married
2024-07-29 20:24:08
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thelastspoon :
it's not selfish, it's your life, do what you want. My parents shouldn't have had kids. they did it because "you were supposed to". they would've been happier without us
2024-07-29 20:08:50
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Tia :
I’ve been thinking this too and I do think it’s kinda selfish but not in a bad way. Like this is my one and only life so I should be prioritizing exactly what I want to do with my time
2024-07-29 19:27:03
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