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You see her struggling and your savior complex kicks in. You swoop in with solutions she never asked for. Advice she doesn't want. Fixes for problems that aren't broken. You think you're being helpful. She experiences it as condescending. You think you're showing love. She feels like you're treating her like a child. Every unsolicited solution is a knife twist that says:
You see her struggling and your savior complex kicks in. You swoop in with solutions she never asked for. Advice she doesn't want. Fixes for problems that aren't broken. You think you're being helpful. She experiences it as condescending. You think you're showing love. She feels like you're treating her like a child. Every unsolicited solution is a knife twist that says: "You're too incompetent to handle this yourself." "You're too emotional to think clearly." "You need me to rescue you from your own life." And she doesn't want a rescuer. She wants a witness. She doesn't want your solutions. She wants your presence. But you keep trying to fix what isn't broken... While breaking what can't be fixed. Here's how to support without suffocating: Step 1: Listen without launching into fix-it mode What to do: Ask "Do you want my thoughts or do you just need me to listen?" When to do it: The moment she starts sharing a problem or frustration Why it works: Most of the time she just needs to be heard, not helped Step 2: Validate her experience before offering perspective What to do: Say "That sounds really frustrating" before giving any advice When to do it: When she's emotional and you feel the urge to rationalize her feelings Why it works: Feeling understood comes before wanting guidance Step 3: Trust her competence unless she specifically asks for help What to do: Assume she can handle it and only offer assistance when requested When to do it: When you see her struggling but she hasn't asked for support Why it works: Competent women want partners, not parents The advanced skills to be supportive without being patronizing, and how to know when she actually wants your help versus when she just needs your ear? That's the emotional intelligence we develop in the Total Breakthrough Academy. Contact us about the Total Breakthrough Academy and grab our free resources so you can stop being her unwanted savior and become the supportive partner she actually needs.

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