Jimmy Knowles
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Stef :
Ooph this one hurts
2025-02-18 18:51:06
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Ashley Hudspeth :
most givers do ask for what they need directly, but it is ignored or changed into what the other person wants to give vs. what the giver needs/requests and they guilt themselves into accepting that
2024-08-08 12:31:54
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Figaro :
The flipping of that switch is real
2024-08-08 12:54:25
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Jennifer Wilt :
As a giver, you are spot on. I feel like I am constantly considering others needs and sacrificing for them, but no one in turn is having any consideration or sacrifice for me. It’s a lonely place.
2024-08-08 13:35:44
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Mrs. Giggle Queen🌼 :
It’s weird MY love language is words of affirmation but when it comes to show my love its through giving
2024-08-08 12:16:55
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Rejúanique_ :
Being a giver/people pleaser is genuinely my default setting. I’m wired to serve, it’s something that brings me joy/fulfillment to give and give. BUTTTTT it’s rarely ever reciprocated or appreciated
2024-08-09 01:56:00
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HiMissA :
So true!
2024-08-22 03:52:41
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Spitfire_1983 :
You just described me. Unfortunately, I attract the narcissists who love to take, but refuse to give. Im made to feel like I’m the problem, I’m selfish for wanting at least the bare minimum.
2024-08-08 13:26:15
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magpiesontheroof :
Yup! It’s weird but this fight 6 months before about how I wanted my ex to bring me a cup of coffee was the straw that broke the camels back. 9 years of asking for the bare minimum, it was too late.
2024-08-08 14:56:19
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alice silver queen :
This is exactly what happened to me, the switch was flipped and he could not understand what happened.
2024-08-08 14:57:34
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PGB :
Recovering people pleaser. 🙋♀️. I also had to acknowledge that no one can read my mind, and it’s very important to let people know how they can show up for you. ❤️Love your content.
2024-08-08 18:27:39
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JoJo.Low-Key :
This sooooo true! I try to remember the mantra. “Givers have to set boundaries because takers never do.”
2024-08-08 14:28:02
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EmiGM :
Most times, no one asks and when I’m done, I’m done.
2024-08-09 01:25:56
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The Knit Wit :
I did this for so long. I quit tolerating it this year, and now I am putting me first to fill my cup.
2024-08-09 23:49:22
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ADH :
We end up getting hurt the worst because we love way too hard...
2024-08-20 21:05:50
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laurentomtenphoto :
This resonates so much.
2024-08-08 12:50:55
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Delusional Laudez :
People pleasers are dishonest, passive and passive aggressive. Nothing is genuine about them giving.
2024-08-09 02:40:59
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Veggie Lady :
NAILED IT! This is me a T. Put up with mistreatment for 10 years in a marriage until the switch was flipped. There was no going back.
2024-08-08 12:57:47
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thedeath_master :
I’m not even a people pleaser, but definitely a giver. It’s a massive problem when you’ve made it extremely clear what it is that you expect/want & they STILL can’t even do the bare minimum.
2024-08-09 16:25:06
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NettleStings :
ONCE YOU INVALIDATE THEIR FEELINGS TO THE POINT THEY DONT EVEN FEEL SAFE TALKING TO YOU ANYMORE 👏👏👏
2024-08-09 18:20:00
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Fourleafclover🍀 :
This! and you always get the people that say "people don't owe you anything"....um no, we're in a relationship, the bare minimum is respect and love....good lordddd 🙄
2024-08-08 14:37:45
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January :
Most givers give because they came from a place of nothing. They give because they know it can make other people happy and feel appreciated even though most times it doesnt get reciprocated.
2024-08-09 00:45:41
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Matt Odell :
as a Giver this hurt to hear
2024-08-08 14:41:18
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Cris An :
Usually people treat you the way they want to be treated. If they give a lot, they expect a lot from you too. If they help you when you need it, they expect you to help them when needed, etc.
2024-08-08 12:56:41
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