Now I gotta look up tone policing. You learn something new everyday.
2024-08-08 15:24:40
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T.X. Watson :
kinda peripheral but it's fascinating which things people have moral intuitions for and which things they have to learn & apply intellectually, it seems to vary so much across individuals
2024-08-08 16:01:55
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Howin Garside🇨🇦🏳 🇵🇭 :
TARGET AUDIENCE DOES NOT CARE
2024-09-27 15:00:35
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Joshua_Gabriel0817 :
how to Tell my needs?
2024-11-03 13:33:56
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marmo7ade :
Yea I don’t need to explain basic needs. Empathy, humility, communication, emotional intelligence are default requirements.
2024-08-14 21:26:18
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Jade Brown71 :
on the subject of not communicate your needs, I always go back to a phrase I heard. closed mouths don't get fed
2024-08-11 10:21:31
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gerrimeath :
if you don't want to educate someone you don't care about them
2024-08-11 04:13:28
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roboticselkie :
"Basic to you. That doesn't mean it's basic for everyone." 👏👏👏
2024-08-09 00:58:34
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Adam :
if she actually liked him she would want to help him be better
2024-08-17 21:50:29
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Rolfeir :
If you get annoyed that a partner doesn't know something "basic", you still need to tell them about it.
You don't need to teach them, but they need to know that there is a gap in their knowledge
2024-09-11 14:54:05
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Abaia of the Eels :
communication is key
2024-09-11 19:34:25
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chriswedemann :
If this was a concern, and you don’t know he cares, why are you with him, exactly?
2024-08-17 03:56:38
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just_me :
I just want to know if you finished painting the roses red
2024-08-14 12:17:17
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Jyxxe :
Everyone has different things that they value. Expecting others to automatically value the same things you value is unrealistic. Learn to teach people your values and to understand theirs
2024-08-13 14:20:27
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Orphen Sorc🏳️🌈🏴☠️🦝 :
and people can have seperate reasons for having issues with the tone of a conversation that they also may need to work through before that education can land.
2024-08-11 14:43:22
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Scottygroundhog :
I feel like anticipation of needs is a cherry on top but should not be expected
2024-08-14 17:53:31
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Crusci :
This is one of the best vids for this I've seen, covers both sides well
2024-08-11 05:31:26
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Agdaimon :
Gotta speak up..
if you wanna be heard..
2024-08-11 16:02:45
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nobody.important99 :
damn, acting like soothing someone's anxiety isn't constant emotional labor
2024-08-11 01:25:59
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Tales From Arcania :
this video is unironicly also tone policing
2024-08-22 14:53:59
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YodaLayHeWho? :
hmm sounds like someone is overly sensitive and needs to perhaps be more aware of their own insecurities and emotions. Like a f*cking adult, instead of being condescending AF.
2024-08-11 10:42:23
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RawxToast :
If you aren't learning from failed relationships, that's a failure on your part. Not theirs.
2024-08-11 09:33:35
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Wes Darvin :
Nothing is obvious! I have walked away from so many conversations about "common sense." If you can't be bothered to say what's up, I'm not gonna bother taking shots in the dark. Sick of this shit...
2024-08-11 08:20:39
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NeonGhost :
if you never learn anything about relationships from any of your ex's maybe you're not listening
2024-08-11 07:16:01
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