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Wednesday 14 August 2024 18:17:54 GMT
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HyperFocus_Exploradora :
The best tip I got from inmates, the most charismatic men are the sociopaths 😭
2024-08-15 00:29:29
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Jensuiz :
This is why I always have silent beef with the most charismatic dude in the room. It’s like the mask slips when we make eye contact and they know that I know.
2024-08-15 10:16:04
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RACHEL :
My ex-husband was this way, super charming, very charismatic. He definitely emotionally abused me never physically, but he was a classic narcissist trolling all the things behind closed doors.
2024-08-15 13:49:01
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✨MJ✨ :
Yes. It’s the transactional kindness to a perceived authority.
2024-08-15 04:35:05
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bouzoukibb :
I once heard "charming is an action not an attribute and you should be alert to the reason why someone is trying to charm you"
2024-08-15 16:45:48
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SCONE🏴 :
so Johnny Depp
2024-08-15 21:10:46
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Katherine Swanson :
DV attorney and this is true to a T
2024-08-14 21:07:13
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butnooneasked :
Guys in sales are always a red flag bc of this too
2024-08-17 18:00:41
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Vivielou :
my ex husband was like this. When I left him, my family tried to convince me to stay. It made me feel crazy.
2024-08-15 11:42:51
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Kathryn Lewis :
true in my case 🙃 my therapist once said that she finds charm/charisma "inherently suspicious". She feels that way for a reason, and now so do I.
2024-08-15 12:56:33
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Bouldernubianbabe :
Yep, I’m a DV survivor, my ex is in prison and people still ask me about when he is getting out. I’m a horrified every time it happens.
2024-08-15 00:44:58
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bryanthomw :
Ryan Reynolds, perhaps??
2024-08-16 07:24:59
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maryhumphrey237 :
My dad was one. He was talented, charming, goofy, and friendly, with just a dash of dorky. No one would have guessed. No one believed us.
2024-08-15 03:56:18
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Zoya :
My dad was such a “fun guy” this checks out.
2024-08-14 22:15:34
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Thesecretworldofalexmack :
God you described my ex… he made a best friend out of every customer. He ran to help friends and strangers but couldn’t help his gf, me, disabled af. He’s trying to reconnect. Thanks for this.
2024-08-15 03:05:49
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yunggmamii :
So true, my ex was a comedian … he mastered how to charm people but in reality was super abusive and hated women
2024-08-15 10:11:58
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beechikeene :
This is my ex husband except he’s not even that charming just “helpful” to the point that it’s weird
2024-08-15 01:03:14
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Sarah_curtis :
My ex was charismatic AF, made friends instantly (hindsight red flag he didn’t have long term friends) emotionally and physically abusive to the point of needing to escape…
2024-08-14 21:44:13
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sultrypeacock :
I posted mine on don't date and a female commented she remembered him from school and he's a "sweet kid" 🙃 luckily the state of tx agreed with me that he's not.
2024-08-15 06:19:53
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kelss🌺 :
This is why i always gravitate AWAY from the loudest in the room.
2024-08-15 14:47:22
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hexbudofky :
Literally my ex. So friendly, so helpful but yet still so violent and abusive
2024-08-14 23:30:17
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🄱 🅁 🄴 :
Fellow social worker here, oh its a red flag alright. IMO it could show the innate need to be liked and needed. Along with a possible fear of abandonment, being disliked,
2024-08-16 21:29:50
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meanie :
Yup, like why do they NEED everyone to like them? What are they building up the social currency for?
2024-08-14 22:10:56
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Jo ✨ :
My ex husband! Kind, charming and generous. A completely different story with me and the children at home 😒 No one believed me during the divorce.
2024-08-15 08:00:14
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