@autisticayla: i try not to only talk about my own experiences but its how i show i understand and care 😫 #autism #actuallyautistic #audhd #autismawareness #autismacceptance #neurodivergent #neurodiversity

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hailstorm0929
Hailz :
I literally don’t know how else to maintain a convo 😭
2024-08-15 23:06:26
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imjustlikedamnits7am
🌸 :
i realize it sounds like i make everything about myself but truly i’m just trying to show you i’m listening by sharing similar stories
2024-08-17 15:32:02
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v4mpyrf4e
⭐️ :
Lost a friend over this even though she ALSO has autism
2025-02-20 18:52:47
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toniomichopper
༻✩ E.T. Minx ✩༺ :
IT TOOK ME SO LONG TO REALIZE PEOPLE DO NOT LIKE THISSSS😭😭😭
2024-08-21 23:27:43
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tiktokher758
Tiktokher|Lifestyle :
I’m trying to stop this lol. It’s so hard
2024-08-16 01:20:05
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_alyxia.cos_
Alicia :
NO BECAUSE HOW ELSE ARE YOU SUPPOSED TO HAVE CONVERSATIONS?!
2024-08-16 20:00:47
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shannonlovesfood
Shannon Kendall :
Omg it’s so refreshing talking to other neurodivergents where we can just share our related experiences and everyone feels uplifted instead of stripped of their spotlight 🥹
2024-08-17 14:55:58
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maibaby1998
Maditb98 :
No cause anecdotal conversations is all I know how to do thank god everyone I know also has ADHD
2024-08-16 02:27:22
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t.starbroken24
Star :
I thought this was an everyone thing- I'm that autistic😭
2024-10-03 22:48:32
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idkwh333
E :
i literally don’t know how to communicate. I feel like I always make it about me but my autism and adhd just can’t comprehend how to respond to people normally
2024-08-15 22:00:07
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bivigilante7
Nicki (saw Ateez 7/17/24) :
Yes and then I worry that I’m making it about myself
2024-10-05 18:39:23
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s4678s4679
u7362968 :
1/2 Cheat sheet: ‘I know what you mean, I’ve had a similar experience! How did you feel about X?’ Now you’ve related but allow them to continue. Then when they’re done you can say
2024-08-16 12:02:12
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aatmosphericc
hmmm :
when they think you’re making it about yourself 😭😭😭😭😭😭 IM TRYING TO SAY I UNDERSTAND WHY YOUD BE UPSET BC THAT MADE ME UPSET TOO!!!!
2024-08-22 00:07:42
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ryancier2222
Ryan Cier :
it sucks that like having bad social skills and being an a-hole have like a huge intersection cuz... yeah I don't do great out here 😭
2024-08-16 15:05:50
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vannydevitto
Vanny :
Oh god stop calling me out
2024-10-05 02:16:02
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bradmiller690
bradmiller690 :
are we not supposed to do that?
2024-10-03 23:48:44
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r.ampage
MJ :
I have to keep telling myself in my head "it's not about me right now" to avoid this
2024-10-03 17:15:16
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kenziesspam_xoxo
kenziesspam_xoxo :
I’ve never understood why people don’t like when you relate to them. Like I’m telling you I understand how you feel and giving you advice. What else can I do?!?!😭
2024-10-03 01:08:29
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bad_3dits4u
Nikolai 🦝 :
dont have autism [i might] but so real like how am i supposed to respond like. people tzll me i talk about myself too much but how do i keep the conversation going without my own relations to my life
2024-10-02 02:20:23
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dperk100
[email protected] :
It doesn’t make you a bad person for wanting to relate or share an experience but it doesn’t make it any less hurtful or invalidating for the person on the other end NT or not
2024-08-23 19:50:36
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meanylinguini
meanylinguini :
I have no idea how to show empathy without doing this. Do they honestly feel supported if people just say "Oh, that sucks." That seems so disingenuous
2024-08-15 07:01:34
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mystic_artemis
Mystic 🌙 Streamer :
I've had to learn to actively go "hmm yes I understand" and STOP THERE 💀 Thankfully my fellow autistics don't mind 🤣
2024-10-05 01:19:38
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foxjoseph30
Joseph :
It took a long time to stop this for me. What made it easy is when I realized most people only care about themselves and pretend to care about others. So I just stopped caring about most people
2024-10-04 00:15:34
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