@tiyechambers: #boundaryup when a person pretends as if nothing happened after doing you wrong, it’s more than just a desire for you to move past it — it’s a deliberate attempt to cause you inner conflict. 🤔 Do you call them out? Do you go along with the ruse? After all they are being nice. This is manipulation! While you’re in conflict with yourself, they’re protecting their image and making you carry the burden of their actions. It’s ok to stop that behavior in its tracks by setting a boundary of communication. “I’m not interested in engaging with you like this, given the history of what was done.” — this puts the burden of their behavior back where it belongs, on their shoulders. It’s never rude to protect your peace by refusing to participate in chaos. #boundaries #encouragement #toxicrelationship #gaslighting #healingtrauma #selflove #selfrespect #youdeservebetter #iamenough
The worst part is when they say “I don’t remember it that way.” Or try to convince you that it never happened.
2024-09-04 00:50:33
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slim._.m :
Gaslighting
2025-04-29 18:45:48
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Ashley Brookshire :
Old me used to tolerate a LOT of BS. New me walked away from a friendship I previously considered a "ride or die" over it.
2024-09-02 22:46:16
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Avuyonke Klaas :
"It's not rude to protect your peace by refusing to participate in chaos"
2024-09-03 15:15:25
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Preetyqueen :
Boundary up
2024-09-03 00:44:27
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868nailpalace byLovey :
it felt so good.
2025-07-04 04:21:51
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sherridee865 :
thank you so much for this information. I am trying to get over the internal war after getting out of a relationship like that. I appreciate knowing it was manipulation, after feeling crazy
2024-09-04 06:36:13
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EstellaElla_GoldRush :
Yes 👍🏽 it’s commonly called “ Narcissism “ & Covert Narcissist to be exact 😳🤗
2024-09-04 03:19:20
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BahamianEmpress👑 :
Offering an apology don’t always justify accountability. Theirs a difference
2024-09-03 12:05:36
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Unmasking Love :
The greatest peace is walking away without expecting an apology from someone who will never accept accountability for their actions.
2024-11-10 18:09:17
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alwayskyuudou :
I had 6 months of this. I blew up...and got the blame and the aggressor narrative got placed at my feet.
2024-09-03 05:17:52
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S 🧿 :
I'm surrounded by these types of people. I've never understood why people don't address their behaviour and apologise when warranted. Thank you for the education
2024-09-03 10:56:00
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franobano :
mu sister exactly like this, 👍
2025-06-16 17:25:53
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PRINCE_PAUL🔱👑✅ :
I was a victim. but not anymore
2024-09-02 22:16:57
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Pepper Ann✌🏾 :
I am now no contact with both of my parents for this exact thing. I simply don't answer when they call, or reply when they text. I am done with their chaos.
2024-09-04 06:13:13
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New chick here :
My family does this. I have 3 narcissistic family members. They manipulate and they triangulate back and forth. It all is more than I can take. I’m only hanging in with distance for my 91 yr mom.
2024-09-03 11:39:45
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Oriana Santos :
Next thing; when I express how I’m feeling he says things like; “yeah what about how I feel?” Is this just not gaslighting?😅 I feel like this isn’t healthy.. am I wrong?
2024-12-03 21:18:45
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pendoh :
it's not rude to protect your peace, this💯
2024-09-03 09:27:03
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A F :
Why not confront them if they are family?
2025-01-29 17:23:07
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Dovies :
The nerve of these people.
2024-10-30 17:13:11
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Islin Inspire :
if you ever encounter this type of person, RUN AWAY from them
2024-10-15 13:58:02
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