@tiyechambers: #boundaryup when a person pretends as if nothing happened after doing you wrong, it’s more than just a desire for you to move past it — it’s a deliberate attempt to cause you inner conflict. 🤔 Do you call them out? Do you go along with the ruse? After all they are being nice. This is manipulation! While you’re in conflict with yourself, they’re protecting their image and making you carry the burden of their actions. It’s ok to stop that behavior in its tracks by setting a boundary of communication. “I’m not interested in engaging with you like this, given the history of what was done.” — this puts the burden of their behavior back where it belongs, on their shoulders. It’s never rude to protect your peace by refusing to participate in chaos. #boundaries #encouragement #toxicrelationship #gaslighting #healingtrauma #selflove #selfrespect #youdeservebetter #iamenough
"It's not rude to protect your peace by refusing to participate in chaos"
2024-09-03 15:15:25
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Fadia Aspinall :
The worst part is when they say “I don’t remember it that way.” Or try to convince you that it never happened.
2024-09-04 00:50:33
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Alice Valentine :
I have a family member that does that to me but no more
2025-10-08 02:11:08
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🙌👏🙌 :
No response is a response👏👏👏
2024-10-30 20:59:57
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pendoh :
it's not rude to protect your peace, this💯
2024-09-03 09:27:03
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Sara Makin, MSEd, LPC, NCC :
The most frusterating thing everrrrrr 🥲
2025-10-11 23:34:13
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Wanda❌️White :
You had better preach.
2025-09-25 00:57:03
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Kahiki Lani :
Your voice is sooooo soothing. ♥️🙏♥ Preach my friend.
2025-10-09 22:34:30
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PRINCE_PAUL🔱👑✅ :
I was a victim. but not anymore
2024-09-02 22:16:57
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Islin Inspire :
if you ever encounter this type of person, RUN AWAY from them
2024-10-15 13:58:02
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Becks in the City :
My mum used to do this all the time. As a child; it’s difficult.
2025-07-24 10:49:11
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alwayskyuudou :
I had 6 months of this. I blew up...and got the blame and the aggressor narrative got placed at my feet.
2024-09-03 05:17:52
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Dovies :
The nerve of these people.
2024-10-30 17:13:11
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S☆ :
I'm surrounded by these types of people. I've never understood why people don't address their behaviour and apologise when warranted. Thank you for the education
2024-09-03 10:56:00
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Brandon Endzone Chil :
@Brandon Endzone Chil: I’ve been making this mistake where she didn’t want to give closure, and her knowing that’s all I need, so I’ve been chasing for answers, and reacting. Now im being blamed. But all it is, is to keep me confused and blaming myself. I forgive myself now, and healing now.
2025-05-28 16:01:07
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BahamianEmpress👑 :
Offering an apology don’t always justify accountability. Theirs a difference
2024-09-03 12:05:36
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Ashley Brookshire :
Old me used to tolerate a LOT of BS. New me walked away from a friendship I previously considered a "ride or die" over it.
2024-09-02 22:46:16
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Unmasking Love :
The greatest peace is walking away without expecting an apology from someone who will never accept accountability for their actions.
2024-11-10 18:09:17
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Hawi 🇰🇪 :
💥💥💥 I experienced this last week and here I was feeling guilty for shutting them out.. boundaries up
❤️❤️❤️
2024-09-03 16:39:15
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franobano :
mu sister exactly like this, 👍
2025-06-16 17:25:53
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Raimi Oluwadamilola :
What if these people are your boss at work?
2024-11-23 18:02:49
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EstellaElla_GoldRush :
Yes 👍🏽 it’s commonly called “ Narcissism “ & Covert Narcissist to be exact 😳🤗
2024-09-04 03:19:20
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Bread of Life Ministries!! :
Yes. There are people like that, unfortunately. And MANY of this come from so-called family members.
2024-10-12 20:52:14
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