Stop working on yourself, you’ve done the work…now try enjoying yourself and find other outlets for community and companionship that doesn’t involve a relationship ❤️
2024-09-04 11:02:13
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rosyposypuddingandpie :
Somthing I tell myself on the daily is that “you can’t say or do the wrong thing to the right person” ♥️feeling like this is completely valid but “finding” love is all luck. It doesn’t matter how
2024-11-04 07:13:50
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UncleTimo🌈 :
I thought I'd never meet the ONE but I did and I wasn't even looking as I was going through a Divorce. now almost 8 years married 4. he's out there for you I promise
2024-09-04 05:21:18
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Blahdittyblahblahyaya :
You’ve articulated what SO MANY PEOPLE THINK. MANY paired off individuals are compromising and putting up w/ a lot just to have that sense of unity. Coupledom is often a mirage. Know U R LOVED 💖
2024-09-04 05:20:29
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dammitron :
i’m on the same boat! it’s really hard to find your person!🥺
2024-09-04 06:08:49
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Melinda McCormick902 :
Honey. I see you. You are lovely. Can you be that person for yourself? Maybe you are the person you are needing the most. 😘
2024-09-05 08:16:41
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Michael Wang :
I just turned 37 a few days ago. This resonated with me too hard.
2024-09-04 12:24:26
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craftingcomedycart :
I’m also a bereaved partner. Dating has been a nightmare since his passing. I’m always getting used and dumped/cheated on 😞 I hope things turn out better for us ❤️
2024-09-17 21:22:43
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Amar T :
U r so speaking my truth
2024-09-04 06:27:37
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Ty :
1000% this!! Working on yourself great (and necessary) but at the end of the day, it’s no substitute for genuine companionship. There are no guarantees. 😔…
2024-09-04 14:43:47
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RockyDogSF :
I found the love of my life when I was 38yr . we're celebrating 25yrs together this year. you'll find someone
2024-09-05 02:59:15
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AndyBandy :
I'm 38 and going through the exact same also as a gay man. it's so hard out here. I just want my life to feel full and fulfilling with someone who never wants to leave my side.
2024-09-04 12:46:43
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etherealomega :
I’ve had a similar journey. I’m 40 now and didn’t really find my soulmate until 37. It’s ok to date someone for the vibes and if they aren’t there step away. Support and compromise goes both ways.
2024-09-05 19:21:02
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bookerQ :
“How much better do I have to get?” oof, I felt that and I’ve thought it many times. You seem really great, I hope things change soon for you.
2024-09-04 14:22:03
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Mitsu :
This truly hits so close to my heart because I’m going through the same exact thing as you are. I don’t know what to do anymore. It’s just so hard out here.
2024-09-18 20:05:12
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EP 🏳️🌈 :
This is so well stated
2024-09-04 13:59:23
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Ron Perry :
53,widowed after 30years,now assume I will die alone
2024-09-04 14:23:17
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gorditopapi :
Are you a Libra 😩? Because this is me 🥹
2024-09-04 14:56:52
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Rosswa :
I’m sorry 😞 I understand that feeling too
2024-09-04 05:31:45
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Joey :
I'm 47 single. Had numerous relationships that all ended badly I'm tired of dating I'm tired of giving my energy to people who do not deserve it
2024-09-06 02:32:45
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Wanger1978 :
Don’t shrink yourself so that the other person can be comfortable. Someday you’ll find a person who’s willing to let your light shine just as much as theirs. Don’t give up on love.
2024-09-04 14:33:39
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supermari01up :
“I don’t need my needs to be met” no! Your needs are extremely important! I get the challenge of finding a safe person a safe space to be your authentic self. Finding your person is a journey, but
2024-09-06 01:51:25
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user5990792435606 :
Never dim your light babes. You’re a burning star.🥰
2024-09-04 04:59:22
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Brynn :
Thank you for sharing this. I’m 28 and went through a lot of these things. I have been wary of dating ever since. Thank you for being vulnerable. You are important and deserve the world dude
2024-09-04 06:18:54
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