I crave community with neurodivergent people, I hate being misunderstood and when I explain myself they think it’s an excuse
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mightymicah36 :
The most infuriating thing is people telling YOU what YOU meant
2024-09-18 17:02:58
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Alejandra :
i feel you a lot :(
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Hello :
It sounds like you’re communicating really well and it’s the people around you being too reactive and not listening or trying to understand you that’s the problem with the first example I can kind of
2024-09-18 14:16:30
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leo🦎✨ :
“you know what you said/did to make me upset” I LITERALLY DONT.
2024-09-18 15:54:35
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max :
literally everything you said made sense, you are being logical, considerate, and informative. its almost like THEY lack the trust to believe you, or their own trauma/experiences tell them otherwise-
2024-09-18 01:45:05
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Thorvald :
I am autistic and what you described has always been my life. Now I am surrounded by neurodivergent people and, incredibly, the communication problems have disappeared.
2024-09-19 14:13:25
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🦑elijah loves squids🦑🔻 :
this is a lot of guilt and sadness for one person to take on i’m so sorry
2024-09-20 14:22:50
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Daniel Selders :
Im neurodivergent too, and I’ve found that everything needs to be overexplained. They say that’s part of my problem but literally if I don’t, everyone misconstrues what I’m saying.
2024-09-19 13:48:07
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apurpleplatypus1 :
I wonder if it’s because they ARENT considerate and mindful so in their head the only way they’d ask questions like tht is to manipulate ppl. It’s not you it’s them
2024-09-17 19:26:42
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sharky :
He’s intentionally misunderstanding you 😞 you don’t deserve that
2024-09-17 19:46:13
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eli / evie ★ :
I started crying with you oh my god
2024-09-18 14:42:16
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minnie :
i feel like we have to start being assertive and just telling them straight up DON’T PROJECT YOUR INTENTIONS ONTO ME
2024-09-18 04:03:32
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VictoriaRochelle :
the worst thing in the world is having the most kind & genuine intentions & someone starts an argument telling you what you “really were doing” ☹️
2024-09-18 09:25:21
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Howsitfeel :
I HEAR you i understand
2024-10-10 02:55:33
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paparovits :
From one autistic AFAB to another ,you genuinely sound more socially articulate than most people I've met. it's sad cause while it's a "natural code" to most ntypicals we have to literally study them
2024-09-18 23:45:52
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lvl..94 :
I’m sitting here crying cuz I understand this concept to such a degree, it’s insane. It’s a happy cry cuz it made me realize that I’m not alone on this topic and maybe I’m not actually a bad person
2024-09-18 04:49:34
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Tisa37 :
as a neurodivergent I feel this so much- I am trying so hard to be kind but people get so suspicious and get like annoyed, j absolutely hate getting into arguments because idk how to fix the issue but
2024-09-18 13:48:03
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Orion :
nah, break up with those people. As someone that had to take years to realize it wasn't my tism but, the people I surrounded myself with. It was a part of my toxic cycle
2024-09-18 15:02:20
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JDanny :
Is not your fault
2024-09-18 17:31:35
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jhobi :
I’m so sorry that that happened to you. It honestly sounds like you need better, more understanding and supportive people in your life. It can be hard for someone who is neurodivergent to find people
2024-09-17 18:54:55
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Pippen :
Youre the one communicating correctly. Considering others and the greater picture. If after clarifying they're still upset the problem isn't you. I promise you theres ppl who arent reactive like this
2024-09-17 18:55:48
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Boo-boo and Butt-butt :
Honestly this is why I stopped talking to people. I’m sorry you’re going through this
2024-09-17 18:10:01
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Isabel :
I am known for “never being able to put the shovel down” and it’s always when I’m trying to get a grasp of the conversation or situation
2024-09-17 19:29:47
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