@greatcompanypodcast: Alain De Botton blows my mind analysing the attachments style of me and my wife 🤯 @theschooloflife @jamie #alaindebotton #greatcompanypodcast #jamielaing #theschooloflife #attachmentstyle
They NEED to be teaching attachment in schools. Attachment disorders are a pandemic in society
2024-09-24 23:07:15
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Chelsea :
He is one of my favorite writers
2024-12-07 17:23:12
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skimnotskims :
this is actually dead-on. Your baggage has to compatible/makes sense.
2024-09-24 20:57:34
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Palesa :
The response is deep
2024-09-24 17:13:44
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user2917297456907 :
I think she rejects him because he’s seeking validation from her, not comfort or affection
2024-09-25 12:47:55
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Ems❤️🌎❤️ :
Wow that sounds scarily accurate. But a bit unromantic
2024-09-24 18:27:20
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Art of Getting a Job 🇰🇪🇨🇦 :
her rejection of a hug doesn't mean she's avoidant. He's definitely anxious though.
2024-09-25 07:01:47
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Mickeydee :
Ong. Great analysis
2025-01-23 14:10:58
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paperface :
I have a secure attachment and reject bids for affection when my partner has been avoiding doing emotional work for himself and is looking for a "mother" response from me
2024-09-25 08:53:36
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Sophie Morphey :
It’s also very common to experience RSD (rejection sensitive dysphoria) alongside ADHD which could be a contributing factor 🤷🏻♀️
2024-09-24 21:06:12
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Natalie :
A beautiful, yet such a perfect response ❤️
2024-09-24 18:09:48
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Chef :
I experienced warmth and love as a child but I’m anxious in relationships because I want that same kind of love as an adult. It’s terrifying but non of these theories explain this 🤷🏾♀️
2024-09-25 09:19:41
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Manders :
I thought the same with the rejecting of affection. Most securely attached people wouldn’t reject their partner’s need for affection unless perhaps they were overstimulated, stressed, etc
2024-09-25 03:54:16
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CherryMerri :
Love Alain de Botton
2024-09-24 19:44:31
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sleepingwomenn :
The love of your life would never push you away. Regardless of how perfect the relationship with parents are.
2024-09-24 23:20:11
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LotteLdn :
His book is so good
2024-09-24 19:29:54
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ImJudgingYou :
The fact that his wife was "loved", but rejects him, doesn't make any sense.
2024-09-24 23:38:30
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Meg :
Listened to this podcast today. Was gripped every word. Would love
2024-09-24 19:16:43
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anabananapijama :
sorry someone explain
2024-09-24 19:59:10
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Nicole :
you can see thats she has been indulged you are so funny loving and fun and you look great too.......👏
2024-09-24 17:30:14
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Shama :
we all need a 1:1 with Alain about our love life
2024-09-25 01:39:28
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Bops1969 :
Boarding school syndrome. look into that, opened my mind & understood myself more
2024-09-24 20:42:39
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Jamie :
Alain has very wise looking eyes
2024-09-24 19:31:56
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Emily Grimshaw :
Is this the guy from school of life?
2024-09-25 20:28:03
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