I do this too. They’re definitely my friends but it took 30 years to find them. So the trauma from the 29 years prior makes me doubt them being friends even after 5+ years
2024-11-12 09:24:59
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Kitty Vessel :
I could be having a pleasant conversation with someone and then afterwards be like “did I talk too much about myself? Did I ask enough questions? God I shouldn’t have said that one thing”
2024-10-01 10:20:40
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shaylo 💉💒🦋 :
like I have two and I'm struggling to remember to text them because I'm burning out
2025-06-30 08:59:59
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🌸scootjoreo🌸 :
the object impermanence of friendships goes crazy. i live with 3 of my friends. every day i go to work, i worry they hate me, i come back home, we all hang out, and the cycle repeats. It’s bonkers
2024-10-02 12:27:22
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Max :
I feel so disconnected from my friends. Even though they’re kind and loving I can’t help but hope I find others that are truly “my people”. I fear they don’t exist or I’ll never find them
2024-10-02 06:37:53
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yamama'sbooty :
I feel this in every social interaction with anyone that isn’t my family. I feel like I can’t hold onto friendships because I always think they don’t like me or I’m too much or I did something wrong.
2024-10-03 12:15:45
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Jidz🏴 :
You’ve worded this so so well. I am constantly apologising or seeking reassurance but have always managed to keep even a few friends. I am constantly in fear that everyone hates me
2024-10-01 10:43:26
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N :
Because what if they change their minds
2024-10-08 20:06:56
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user500211055703 :
Me never texting anyone back because i think they’d be happier if I didn’t and that I’m doing them a favor by disappearing
2024-10-04 22:27:05
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fook yu :
i say i have acquaintances because to me a friendship is something so much deeper than just hanging out here and there. idk..maybe thats my issue. i just feel too intensely
2024-10-03 07:46:36
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🫶 :
I’ve always had friends because I wanted to keep my reputation to at least good that’s why I also tried to fit in and no one ever knew I had a special interest I hid it from everyone 😭😭
2024-10-01 04:15:45
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★; maya :
& the whole 'too different to ACTUALLY fit in but not different enough to belong with the 'weirder' crowd' so u just dk what/where ur place is
2024-10-01 14:17:33
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nini🧸🎀 :
oh ... read me a lil too well[smile]
2025-01-07 20:59:07
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Hafsalund :
ah, better add that one to the list of things I won't address because it scares me
2024-10-08 20:12:39
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sterling :
all of the friends i have now either approached me first or were introduced to me lmao
2024-10-25 23:58:18
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schtink {COMMS OPEN} :
I have rlly been trying not to self diagnose bc I'm afraid what that might mean if I'm right but idk this hit a little too close to home
2024-10-03 03:24:25
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☆•Jonesy•☆ :
same man 💔 I know how it feels. then there was that one time I looked back and I was like oh those people I thought I was friends with (much younger) were making fun of me/ just being polite
2025-06-27 12:51:26
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lily :
How much is too much overthinking 😭 i be having many neurotypical friends so it makes me feel out of place when other autistic ppl say it’s hard to keep friendships with them 🥲🥲
2025-04-22 10:26:02
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hipposlippers :
I've been in therapy for years and I'm just starting to realize I've never figured out how to maintain friendships, when smth goes wrong I have no clue what to do to fix it, so I get anxious and ghost
2024-10-14 12:21:39
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lonchbox :
oh dear this one's a bit too specific man 😭😔
2024-09-30 22:34:13
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shaniematty :
💕💕u always have me zii even if ur thousands of miles away
2024-10-01 11:08:00
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aspen🍸 :
This !! I struggle with friendship, I've just been fortunate enough to have people in my life that Get It and don't give up on me. I think it's part of why I feel so brave for my friends- i'm v lucky.
2024-11-01 16:48:40
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. .-.. .. .- ... :
Yeahhh then there was the realisation that my group of friends were all people the OG group had brought it. None of them were originally "my friend" I just followed them from friend to friend
2024-09-30 22:46:54
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