nta. she used that to get a pass, but tbh you said you THOUGHT you could forgive her. the wording does not PROMISE that you'd forgive her.
2024-10-15 18:05:21
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Scott :
No it’s not manipulation. Who gives a free pass to let their partner cheat? Smart dude
2024-11-08 13:50:20
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Mistgun D. Wijaya 🍉 :
"i forgive you. this is the divorce paper btw"
2024-10-15 22:42:26
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copequake :
Calling it manipulation is irony max.
2024-10-15 19:10:12
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Gilka 🇵🇷 :
She plotted 😩😩😩😩
2024-10-15 17:07:12
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Wholesomebaddie🌈🧚🏽🇵🇸🦋 :
NTA she started the convo with the talk not guilt for cheating
2024-10-15 17:13:45
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Baby Bubbles 🦋🌙 :
YTA for the manipulation but NTA for leaving. M
2024-10-15 22:04:25
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newbiesalwaystoast :
She was playing checkers and he was playing chess.
2024-10-16 15:39:33
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Aura 🇨🇦 :
To add extra to this, ppl's feelings change abt things as they have new experiences. To expect him to have the same answer 5 yrs later is naive, even if he was honest in the first place.
2024-10-15 18:43:11
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Elbie85 :
Tell me right away, and if it only happens once I think I could forgive you is not permission or a hall pass.. 🤔
2024-10-15 18:28:45
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aprilthomas1020 :
None of us know how we would react until we’re in the situation.
2024-10-15 17:23:40
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caml963456 :
Yeah they’re both wrong. Lying about boundaries is weird
2024-10-15 17:17:04
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MoroccanPete🌺🙍🏽 :
No…what she did was manipulation…did she forget her vows…. Honor your marriage forsaking all others…
2024-10-15 22:16:11
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Lois McKinney825 :
No. That just means if you told her you wouldn’t forgive her she would not have told you.
2024-10-15 19:50:08
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Manferdio :
is it manipulation is it ????
2024-10-15 17:07:42
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Will :
NTA but never say stuff that, I saw a study that theres a psychology trick that can potentially plant the seed of making them think it’s okay to do utilizing a similar type of language
2024-10-15 21:51:30
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Ninja Rivers :
ESH. He lied but she really thought that gave her a free pass 💀
2024-10-15 18:54:02
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Adam Lee Mendoza :
Hes not the ahole but it is his fault for sayin hed forgive her once you tell your spouse youd forgive em its gonna happen
2024-10-16 15:32:47
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Monay 💜 :
What I get from this whole thing is, he said that to see if she would do it and she did and did it bc she genuinely thought that her breaking a commitment with something like that would be forgiven.
2024-10-23 15:11:35
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Sims :
He never said when lol
2024-10-15 18:31:06
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Madison :
NTA. Even if you did mean it when you originally said it, you still have the right to change your mind when that level a betrayal actually happens. Especially after years because people can change
2024-10-20 17:19:55
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ColdMagnet :
Nah, she felt too comfortable!
2024-10-15 17:24:26
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