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MonicaRachelle :
The problem with avoidant people is that they are usually love bombers in the beginning. Giving an anxious person a lot of attention and then suddenly withdrawing will never work .
2024-10-25 19:28:25
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supersaiyansony :
everyone shitting on avoidant people like being clingy and co dependent on someone is normal.
2024-10-29 20:06:17
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Isobel ⭐️ :
Why do I feel like I’m both? Is this bad
2025-06-25 04:10:12
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Catarina😽 :
Oh I’m definitely ANXIOUS
2024-10-23 18:22:19
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Jackie🪴🍄🤍 :
me when i’m both
2024-10-23 20:40:40
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GwnDer :
Anxious = Dedicated Avoidant = Unsure
2024-11-19 00:56:57
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Vincent :
I think some of the people in the comments aren't understanding that BOTH are toxic, not just the avoidant.
2024-10-30 19:08:30
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debbo :
Avoidants aren’t worth pursuing. Let them act how they choose to and swallow the hard truth and move on
2024-10-25 02:54:51
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luvlybrit._ :
…. With some people I’m avoidant with some I’m anxious. My brain won’t decide which one to be- 😞 I try to control it but it’s such a struggle
2025-07-27 19:39:03
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mela💌 :
im anxious and its so annoying bc my partner is avoidant and i feel like im asking too much when i want reassurance bc i want it so often… and he likes his own personal space but i want to be with him
2024-10-24 04:09:01
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Nsl_fx :
That makes me understand so much more. My bf has an avoidant attachment and i have anxious one
2024-10-23 18:00:08
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nyop.ysik :
i cant tell if im avoidant attachment or just aromantic, because even people i like, i never like them as much as they like me. they just move way to quick and its suffocating.
2025-05-08 20:06:59
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eryn :) :
avoidant people are really good at giving attention on THEIR terms which confuses someone with anxious attachment because one minutes it’s all, next it’s nothing.
2025-01-11 02:32:22
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najah :
But yk what, the person that said the avoidant person is usually the one who love bombs first is soooo mf real.
2024-10-27 05:39:41
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Nick Walker🎭/🐇🦑 :
being avoidant is underrated, it's so hard bcs it makes me feel like I'm not doing it right or that I don't love the person bcs I don't love the way they do.
2024-10-24 21:40:20
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sophi <3 :
okay now tell me how to fix it
2024-10-23 21:26:36
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0.m31l :
Why does this describe my relationship rn
2024-10-24 01:01:28
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chuno :
I’m avoidant and I do NOT lovebomb what the hell? 😭 in the beginning you literally HAVE to talk and get to know someone in order to get into a relationship be so fr obv later in the relationship
2025-02-12 05:15:22
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🤍 :
So hey guys, BOTH of these are bad. People are so quick to attack avoidance attachments but fail to realize that anxious attachments are also bad. We all need healing
2024-11-03 18:44:22
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bracefacebaby :
Anxious people make you feel like nothing you do is good enough for them
2024-11-19 19:43:24
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kindkatboy :
learning a lot from just know attachment type i am and they are
2025-05-04 18:22:13
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Jacky Wacky :
Avoidant people love bomb a lot at random times which makes the Anxious feel cared for and then the cycle continues bc Anxious feels like there is hope because Avoidant at random times gives attention
2024-11-06 02:32:17
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𝑀𝒶𝒾𝓏𝑒𝓎 :
Avoidant is the problem. The absolute problem.
2025-03-16 02:20:51
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Baby plut0🩵🛸 𖣂︎ :
Sooo I’m an avoidant 👋🏽 and from what yall are saying I’m toxic 😭 but I have a different perspective. I don’t want to be the pillar for my partners emotions and be responsible for their happiness..
2024-11-17 02:15:17
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