Not gonna drag you, I gained 60 pounds each pregnancy and pretty sure I was 200 pounds before delivering my third 😅 I’ll forever feel unhealthy but my husband loves it 🤷🏽♀️😂
2024-11-05 00:30:28
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Liv 🍀 Lucky Charm 365 :
Completely in the same boat! Two boys (M names 😉) Same reason why I'm considering not doing it. Plus costs because if I have 1 girl I'd want to try for a 4th (2 girls). Sending you all the best!
2024-10-27 03:45:31
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Gabby101 🧚🏾♂️ :
Not selfish at all. It takes a LOT mentally and physically to grow another human.
2024-10-23 23:36:57
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SprucewoodBoys :
Mama, that is NOT selfish at all! Your mental health is important for those kiddos!
2024-10-24 00:00:41
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THIAB 3L 3MIRI :
Not selfish at all. I feel this in my bones.
2024-10-23 23:01:39
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Yara :
No that’s so relatable
2024-10-23 20:31:41
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CocoLaurent :
Not selfish at all!!
2024-10-24 22:36:37
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ruby cantu :
girl SAME!!! the body dysmirphia is so bad for me during pregnancy 🥺
2024-10-24 00:39:44
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Brianna B :
Unpopular opinion this is the exact reason I wont be having a 3rd I can’t start all over again
2024-10-23 21:43:40
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destiny. :
I think I’m 2 and through due to the overstimulation 😂
2024-10-25 14:54:27
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danni_ek :
Thank you for being honest. This is ME!!
2024-10-25 00:43:15
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jaydelynnnnnn :
I felt thisss I was so disconnected from my body after having him 😭😭😭
2024-10-24 02:54:40
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Julie M. :
I don’t think you are being selfish, I completely get it. My son is 4 years old and I haven’t lose all rhe baby weight
2024-10-23 21:08:47
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Amy Gomes :
Thank you for sharing ❤️no kids here but that doesn’t sound selfish at all
2024-10-23 20:45:34
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Nish :
So valid, literally me too
2024-10-23 23:55:18
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Cammi Byrd :
Makes sense to me!!! Girl I went to the doctor today and baby that scale!!
2024-10-23 20:41:23
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Kristi Louque :
Not selfish! Pregnancy is so hard on a woman’s body. You have every right to feel the way you do. 💪❤️
2024-10-23 20:38:57
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kameronh07 :
It’s really not selfish at all. Women get it lol
2024-10-23 20:31:43
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TikTok Monster :
The mental weight is why I don’t want more. I can barely handle two. No thanks
2024-10-25 22:58:27
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Kayla Fisher :
This is sooooo relatable😭😭😭
2024-10-25 20:27:33
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Christine | first time mom :
The things are body goes through is insane 🤯
2024-10-25 00:22:22
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Kat Ávila :
No way! That’s so fair!!! 17 months postpartum and I feel that
2024-10-24 02:59:59
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Melissa | Outfit Inspo over 30 :
I feel this 😳 I also want to travel with my kids and 5 people vs 4 makes everything more challening
2024-10-24 00:01:39
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psalmwhite :
So real 😭 When I found out I was pregnant with my second I was devastated because I was not mentally prepared to gain weight have my body change again. Even though I REALLY wanted a second baby.
2024-10-23 23:09:39
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Dani V :
Having children is,at its core, selfish. It’s something you want. So stopping is no more or less selfish that starting. Also kudos to having more than one bc Im trying to have 1 & i think thatll be it
2024-11-04 14:14:02
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JReynoso23🇩🇴 :
Darling!!! I feel you!!!! I had my baby two years ago and now when he’s about to be 3 is when I’m feeling like myself!
2024-10-31 20:37:44
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Pao Jeri :
not selfish, my body changed completely I gained como 30kilos ! 😅
2024-10-31 02:17:58
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Nia Jones :
Currently pregnant with my second. and will not be doing this again
2024-10-30 14:58:31
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SRMM :
Nope this is so valid and losing the weight can be so hard 💚 and lowkey kids are expensive
2024-10-30 11:14:05
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Kimmdurann :
Exactly
2024-10-29 15:51:38
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Faith :
This is me!
2024-10-27 23:06:45
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Rebecca :
Also nobody talks about the expense of changing sizes every freakin year
2024-10-27 03:00:27
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Rebecca :
I also don’t want to crawl over seats to strap in a car seat
2024-10-27 03:00:04
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shante_1 :
Not selfish at all
2024-10-27 02:39:52
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Gigi :
Girl so relatable, currently there 🫣
2024-10-26 18:12:29
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Isabel :
Omg same 🥺
2024-10-25 19:41:33
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Angiee🇪🇨VidayTrabajoEn🇺🇸 :
I feel like my third kid aged me like 10 years in 4 months lol I am currently struggling with how my skin and hair looks! I felt so good before being pregnant... but I know I am going to overcome this
2024-10-25 15:51:58
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41Ohhcampos :
Not selfish. Verrrrrry fair because I’m in the same boat!
2024-10-25 14:59:49
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Chelle | Running Mama :
I just told my husband this when discussing a third. Took me 18 months and I just ran a marathon for the first time since having kids. I finally feel like me again.
2024-10-25 14:27:14
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Nikki O.O. | Soft Life Mama :
Very valid reason 👏🏾
2024-10-25 02:52:00
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Tiana Young :
This is the most relatable thing ever. I’m like I don’t want to gain the weight and don’t want to be cut open again😂
2024-10-25 01:49:02
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Rachel Ashley :
I only had 1 baby and I feel the same way 😅I JUST started feeling like me again 😩 do I want more babies? Yes. Do I want to go through all of it again? Well… 😅
2024-10-25 01:40:12
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jamietoddlermom 🤎 :
I feel this sooooo much! #1 reason I’m waiting as long as I can 😫
2024-10-25 01:18:34
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Raini :
Complete valid
2024-10-24 19:52:03
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Lili Pareja :
That’s one of my main reasons to 🥺
2024-10-24 19:50:40
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Melanie :
Girl I hear you though. I’m still struggling ughhhhh
2024-10-24 17:52:14
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dkdszs :
Not selfish at allll I feel the same way😭😭 I don’t want a second for this reason. At least not rn.
2024-10-24 17:47:11
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Anna :
I got in the BEST shape of my life after my third cause I knew he was my last. I wish I could get back to that now hahaha
2024-10-24 17:43:02
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Anna :
It sounds selfish but in reality it’s not, cause it’s more about mental health!!
2024-10-24 17:42:34
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Heyy Dani :
I’m 5 months pp after my second and it’s not like when I had my first at all. 🥺
2024-10-24 17:34:33
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