@claimslife1: Alright peeps, this is friendship now! Like obviously my page is really geared towards my job and thats cool, but the raw version of me? This is it. I’m just a person, with feelings who’s doing life for the first time & trying to be a genuinely good human being. But, i have feelings too & im sharing them with you (for now until i wake up and realize the whole internet can see this 😂) okay, love you, byeeeeee
I always say they are an ex for a reason. I hope you can make the right choice for you. 🥰
2024-11-02 13:13:15
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Michelle :
As a fellow sober person I know exactly how you feel and I always say if they wanted things to work they would try and you shouldn’t be the only one trying. I match energy with my own energy
2024-11-02 06:36:41
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Shea :
Never be anyone's second choice or let them make you feel like it.
2024-11-03 16:22:37
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Parabellum 🇨🇦 :
Oh if he is seeing someone really talk this out with your therapist.
2024-11-02 14:39:18
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mallory_exe :
Life is short but it's also too short to let yourself be treated in a way you don't deserve. 💖 sorry you're going through this queen
2024-11-02 07:30:50
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🇨🇦 Noelle 🇨🇦 :
I think you should focus on breaking the trauma of being someone’s second choice. Don’t ever settle. Sounds like may just be in love with the idea of him. The right one will come along 🤗
2024-11-02 06:03:50
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Deyzilla :
girl noooo we've all been there, but you dumped him!! Rember why you left
2024-11-02 05:59:04
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bjamin :
do you really miss him, or the idea of what could be? our minds are dangerous and often more hopeful then reality. but girl, you don’t know if you don’t try? it’ll either be magical or lesson learned
2024-11-03 18:10:35
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Lynn :
Is he back with his ex whom he seemed to still carry feelings for?
2024-11-02 13:37:32
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thisjourneywecalllife :
work on yourself find the friends and things that make you happy. no dating it muddies the waters. heal yourself first
2024-11-02 11:02:09
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Lindsay K :
I think everything you've just told us, you need to tell him.
2024-11-05 01:10:49
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Ashley Engel :
Honestly if you feel this strongly about him I would reach out. If you don’t then nothing changes but if you do then you have a chance of being very happy, but there is also the chance to get hurt
2024-11-02 14:17:07
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Shadowwolf2371 :
I would say talk to him and see where his head is at. If he wants to talk, talk. This is not my story though. The best you can do is listen to the council of others, but in the end this...
2024-11-02 13:47:37
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Defend6 :
I thankfully never felt like a second choice to my parents…BUT I have felt like his option instead of his priority in my last relationship. I went back and it hurt even more to still be his choice.
2024-11-02 11:11:24
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Coach Colleen 🇨🇦 🥰 :
I hear you! As long as you let yourself long for him, you'll never get over him.
Instead, get ANGRY because he didn't see how F#$%$ amazing you are!
If he's the right one, he'll move heaven and ...
2024-11-02 10:00:53
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Laura M. Cavada :
I'll tell him for you. I was w a guy in high school, he moved and we reconnected 13 yrs later. It felt like a 2nd chance but then he passed 8 yrs ago. I miss him everyday & wish I got to tell him
2024-11-24 06:04:17
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bean :
You are my favorite creator. First, it’s ok to cut loose. Secondly never be second choice, you are soooo worthy.
2024-11-05 22:16:02
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Bri 🪼 :
I say be excruciatingly honest with him. Tell him all this. Even if it doesn’t go great, you’ll have an answer and hopefully a step closer to closure. Either way you’ll have an answer and peace. 💛
2024-11-04 02:24:13
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🆘🇺🇸Wildflower🏳️🌈🇵🇸🇺🇦 :
As someone who kept going back to an ex and ended up getting pregnant and abused by him, leave the past in the past. It hurts, and I’m so sorry. But there’s a reason he’s not in your life anymore. ❤️
2024-11-03 15:27:44
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Ellie Wenker :
Hahahah Drink that drink lol 😂😂😂
2024-11-03 02:54:31
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Blair :
It never hurts to reach out. I pushed someone away I wished I wouldn’t have. I wasn’t in a place to be in a relationship mentally and I regret it but never hurts to try.
2024-11-02 14:49:20
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Beth 🤍 :
I have so many thoughts but my biggest one is: The love of your life is YOU. 💗
2024-11-02 11:42:38
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Amitch728 :
Remember why you left, sometimes the good times are what you remember and muddies your feelings. You should never feel like a secind choice love
2024-11-02 11:18:24
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