@raysefah: ✨ “Boundaries are a form of self-respect. Don’t be the ‘go-to’ for people you can’t go to yourself. Protect your energy and invest in relationships that are mutual and uplifting!” Here are some practical steps to help you set boundaries and recognize one-sided relationships: 1. Reflect on Your Relationships 🧘♂️ Ask yourself: “Are there people in my life who come to me only when they need something? Am I able to lean on them when I need support?” Recognizing patterns is the first step to setting boundaries. 2. Start Small with ‘No’ 🚦 Practice saying “no” to small requests first if you’re someone who finds it hard to refuse others. Boundaries don’t need to be harsh—they can be simple and kind but still protect your energy. 3. Communicate Your Needs Clearly 💬 If someone regularly takes without giving, it’s okay to kindly address it. Use phrases like, “I need to be able to count on you, too,” or “I’d appreciate it if we could make our relationship more balanced.” 4. Set Emotional Boundaries 🛑 Remember, you’re not responsible for solving everyone’s problems. It’s okay to be empathetic without taking on someone else’s stress. Protect your peace by creating some emotional distance if needed. 5. Observe How People Respond 👀 Notice how people react when you begin setting boundaries. The ones who respect your space and appreciate mutual support are the ones who genuinely value you. 6. Invest in the People Who Invest in You 🌱 Spend your energy on the relationships that give back. Relationships are healthier and more fulfilling when they’re reciprocal. “Have you ever felt drained by being everyone’s ‘go-to’ person? What’s one boundary you’d like to set for yourself?” Let me know in the comments below ⬇️ . . #inspirational #inspiration #inspirationalquotes #motivationalquotes #motivation #motivational #quotes #quoteoftheday #Love #inspire #mindset #life #success #successmindset #successquotes #instagood #positivity #quote #positivevibes #art #entrepreneurship #Fitness #lifequotes #quotestoliveby #thoughts #gym #quotesdaily #quotestagram #gymmotivation #gymtips Click link in bio to apply for coaching
I disagree strongly, true service is serving someone who will never repay you...otherwise we're lending services to collect later.
2024-12-05 06:04:56
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Mimi :
That just hit me! WOW! 💯
2024-12-15 06:19:45
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blessedtodome4 :
Deep
2025-03-08 04:13:49
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Dee :
deep but very profound.
2025-01-08 09:26:00
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𝐺 ♡ :
How do you stop?
2024-11-29 01:20:44
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rachelkarungi315 :
I met a guy getting married soon be so surprised that I said no to him..infact he called me hurtless 😂
2024-11-17 17:11:27
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Aj :
That was deep and an amazing reminder 🤌🏾👏🏾
2024-12-14 18:24:26
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user1876445877447 :
Bruh that’s so deep!!!!!
2024-12-31 22:11:44
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Carrie :
Noted📝
2025-01-04 08:03:52
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___Soul___ :
I can’t cause that’s where I feel seen even if am being used 😔
2024-11-29 11:25:07
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userfdmmlub10c :
ok...so I stop talking to them?...what do I do? I have a friend like that
2024-12-04 08:14:52
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TheWholesomeHome :
I realized this at the beginning of December. 2025, I’m setting boundaries and cutting people out.
2024-12-31 03:05:58
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SharonJ :
Wow 😮
2024-12-05 20:36:34
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Jennifer Baker290 :
I love this!!
2024-12-16 00:18:48
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Queen :
Gurllllll💃 that hurt my heart 💜 because I just wanna love Amen 💨💨💨💨💨
2024-12-06 00:00:16
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ACee_WorldWide 🌍 :
basic summary of self worth 101 but if you're acting out of healthy bounderies you can help people but don't expect anything back from them....it's unconditional 🔥
2024-12-01 14:19:17
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DeMichael Moss :
It takes time but it’s worth it 🙏🏾
2024-12-06 14:16:51
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notsopicky :
Just know once that happens be prepared for those people vanishing out of your life.
2024-12-04 14:46:59
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Margret De Bruyn :
Love this it’s so true
2024-12-19 06:17:49
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HoneyBlinkz Alabi :
sometimes you still have to be the bigger person as God blessed you.. You do what you can and wait on God to return the favour
2024-12-01 23:12:45
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🦋🌷Lana-Beauty🌷🦋 :
Damn I needed to hear this because I am that person. 🤦🏾♀️th
2024-12-05 22:45:52
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@sifi_m :
How do I change that... 😭😭
2024-12-01 09:33:09
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Biggs Chris :
Deeeeeeeep
2024-11-18 11:12:46
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Maya.Khano :
it's so difficult when it's family but it's not impossible. I've been the go to person for years and yet i cant say the same thing about them. it's exhausting and draining 😔
2024-12-08 10:10:19
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