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I was 19 when I became pregnant with my first daughter. I was young and pouring everything into a relationship that I shouldn’t have been in. While trying to heal myself from severe childhood sexual abuse and mental health problems. I thought I could ‘fix’ him and his situation. I thought I ‘just need to love him enough’. I lost my apartment, my job, my car and when I became pregnant I started experiencing domestic violence. The DV escalated and I finally found the strength to leave just before her second birthday. He has since abandoned her.  I met someone a few months later that was, what I thought to be, 100% different from all of the other guys I had dated. I knew I wasn’t ready for a relationship but THIS felt different. (I was 22 and a single mom). Within 4 months we were engaged and at 6 months my daughter and I moved in with him to our own apartment. A year later, in the thick of wedding planning, I discovered severe betrayal and packed my bags. A few days after moving into my parents, I discovered I was pregnant again, we had been trying and already endured a miscarriage. I didn’t think I would be pregnant because I had only one cycle since the miscarriage. I didn’t want to do it alone again. We weren’t religious but everyone around us suggested premarital counseling and to keep pushing forward. So..we did. After several months of therapy, we bought a home, had our daughter and got married all within a span of 3 months. The pastor told us we should be married if we were going to live together. Our marriage lasted 18 months before we both realized we forced everything and while we loved our children and had love for each other, we shouldn’t be together. He still has a regular relationship with my oldest daughter and we have learned to have a great coparenting relationship. (I was then 25 and a single mom of 2.) I met my now husband, he already had a daughter around my oldest daughter’s age. We have now been together for 7 years and added our own daughter to complete our family. We’ve done so much healing together and while being a big blended family has its ups and downs, we love our imperfect, chaotic life.  Moral of the story, if you don’t want to be with someone with kids, that is 100% okay. If you don’t want to be with someone with more than 1 BD/BM, that’s 100% okay. What isn’t okay? Judging someone based on numbers with no idea of how they got there. No one sets out to have multiple parents in the mix. Every person I had a child with, I believed it was a forever situation. And sadly, not all of us were taught what love looks like, not all of us were taught what the reality of being a parent in your 20s would be like, not all of us had an ideal childhood that prepped us for making all of the right decisions. If I could go back, I would hug my younger self so tight and tell her all of the lessons I’ve learned. But I can’t. None of us can. So, have your preferences and live your life but stop shaming people for situations that you know nothing about. I promise, we’ve heard it enough, we’ve criticized ourselves worse than you ever could and the world needs more empathy.      #singlemom #teenmom #childhoodtrauma #csa #csasurvivor #dv #dvsurvivor #domesticabuseawareness #girlmom #momof4 #stepmom #babydad #babymom #compassion #stopjudging #momlife #momsintheir30s #relationships #ihaveonedaughter #daughter #storytime #themoreyouknow #empathy #fy #fyp #fypシ #religioustrauma #divorce #marriage #blendedfamily
I was 19 when I became pregnant with my first daughter. I was young and pouring everything into a relationship that I shouldn’t have been in. While trying to heal myself from severe childhood sexual abuse and mental health problems. I thought I could ‘fix’ him and his situation. I thought I ‘just need to love him enough’. I lost my apartment, my job, my car and when I became pregnant I started experiencing domestic violence. The DV escalated and I finally found the strength to leave just before her second birthday. He has since abandoned her. I met someone a few months later that was, what I thought to be, 100% different from all of the other guys I had dated. I knew I wasn’t ready for a relationship but THIS felt different. (I was 22 and a single mom). Within 4 months we were engaged and at 6 months my daughter and I moved in with him to our own apartment. A year later, in the thick of wedding planning, I discovered severe betrayal and packed my bags. A few days after moving into my parents, I discovered I was pregnant again, we had been trying and already endured a miscarriage. I didn’t think I would be pregnant because I had only one cycle since the miscarriage. I didn’t want to do it alone again. We weren’t religious but everyone around us suggested premarital counseling and to keep pushing forward. So..we did. After several months of therapy, we bought a home, had our daughter and got married all within a span of 3 months. The pastor told us we should be married if we were going to live together. Our marriage lasted 18 months before we both realized we forced everything and while we loved our children and had love for each other, we shouldn’t be together. He still has a regular relationship with my oldest daughter and we have learned to have a great coparenting relationship. (I was then 25 and a single mom of 2.) I met my now husband, he already had a daughter around my oldest daughter’s age. We have now been together for 7 years and added our own daughter to complete our family. We’ve done so much healing together and while being a big blended family has its ups and downs, we love our imperfect, chaotic life. Moral of the story, if you don’t want to be with someone with kids, that is 100% okay. If you don’t want to be with someone with more than 1 BD/BM, that’s 100% okay. What isn’t okay? Judging someone based on numbers with no idea of how they got there. No one sets out to have multiple parents in the mix. Every person I had a child with, I believed it was a forever situation. And sadly, not all of us were taught what love looks like, not all of us were taught what the reality of being a parent in your 20s would be like, not all of us had an ideal childhood that prepped us for making all of the right decisions. If I could go back, I would hug my younger self so tight and tell her all of the lessons I’ve learned. But I can’t. None of us can. So, have your preferences and live your life but stop shaming people for situations that you know nothing about. I promise, we’ve heard it enough, we’ve criticized ourselves worse than you ever could and the world needs more empathy. #singlemom #teenmom #childhoodtrauma #csa #csasurvivor #dv #dvsurvivor #domesticabuseawareness #girlmom #momof4 #stepmom #babydad #babymom #compassion #stopjudging #momlife #momsintheir30s #relationships #ihaveonedaughter #daughter #storytime #themoreyouknow #empathy #fy #fyp #fypシ #religioustrauma #divorce #marriage #blendedfamily

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